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This picture speaks for itself.

While I understand their desire to open up Orthodoxy to all segments of Jewry by pushing envelopes heretofore not sanctioned by any Orthodox rabbinic leader, they are in effect aiding heterodox movements in their quest for legitimacy. Which is precisely why joining heterodox movements on religious matters was so strongly opposed by Modern Orthodoxy’s greatest and undisputed leader, Rav Joseph B. Soloveitchik.

Although I agree with much of Rabbi Avi Shafran’s article on the subject which appears in today’s Forward, I disagree with continuing to make an issue of it. As I do with all the protests including the showing of masses of traditional Jewish women showing up monthly at the Kotel specifically for the purpose of denying WoW access.

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It is true that these traditional women are all there praying with sincerity and great devotion. But it is also true that many of the Women of the Wall are doing the same thing in their own nontraditional way. I mostly do not question their motives.

However, it is also true that the reason traditionalist women are there is to counter WoW. There is no way they would be there en masse like that on Rosh Chodesh if not called upon to do so in quiet protest by their rabbinic leaders. Which of course brings out the usual gang of Charedi idiots who like to cause trouble. And since the media will always focus on the trouble makers, that is what the world sees most.

Rabbi Shafran complains that the media ignored all those Charedi women who prayed peacefully at the Kotel. Which would show the world that this is what the vast majority (…by a ratio of 100:1) Jewish women really want… and that the real antagonists are the Women of the Wall, and not the Charedim.

It is true that little media attention is paid to huge number of women quietly praying in traditional ways at the Kotel. But it is not because the media is prejudiced against Charedim. At least not in this case (…if ever really – but that is another subject). It is because violence – no matter who is behind it – gets more attention than peaceful prayer.

So in the end all of these protests and counter protests fuel the controversy and gets more people involved. On both sides.

WoW is a celebrated cause all over Israel and now the United States. People have been sensitized to feminist concerns. And this is now a high profile example perceived as being anti feminist. Reform and Conservative rabbis (and a few Orthodox ones) are joining the fight to allow these women to pray as they choose. Even if it upsets the sensibilities of traditionalists who comprise the vast majority of people that pray regularly at the Kotel.

In my view all this public opposition is to blame for perpetuating the cause of WoW. It has exacerbated an issue that – had it been left alone – would have no doubt died a quiet death. If not now then later.

As I have said many times – I do not believe for a moment that it will become fashionable for women of any denomination to start wearing a Talis and Teffilin when they pray. Whether it is at the Kotel or anywhere else. Had the Orthodox world ignored them instead of organizing big prayer protests – peaceful though they may have intended them to be (and which for the most part they were) – WoW would have been ignored by the media and just about everyone else.
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22 COMMENTS

  1. So WoW are a bunch of activists? That they are. Earlier this week, we commemorated the 50th anniversary of Martin Luther King's famous "I had a dream" speech in Washington, D.C. Yes, in addition to being a preacher, Martin Luther King was an activist. Today his birthday is a national holiday. His detractors, and there were many, are consigned to the trash bin of history.

    I fully support WoW, and will continue to call out Ronit Peskin and those in her vile organization, who believe religious freedom is only for themselves.

  2. The Cheredim need to learn how to pick their fights. These women are not our enemies. If you don't think is proper, don't do it and concentrate on doing mitzvahs and show restraint and dignity. We can't make the whole world agree with us.

  3. The Cheredim need to learn how to pick their fights. These women are not our enemies. If you don't think is proper, don't do it and concentrate on doing mitzvahs and show restraint and dignity. We can't make the whole world agree with us. These women are not interfering with Cheradim worship. The wall is symbolic to our people as a holy place that no longer stands because of our fighting amongst ourselves. If you want to fight join the IDF! Oh yeah, they spend a lot of time arguing with them too. I give up! שנה טובה לכולם.

  4. The Cheredim need to learn how to pick their fights. These women are not our enemies. If you don't think is proper, don't do it and concentrate on doing mitzvahs and show restraint and dignity. We can't make the whole world agree with us. These women are not interfering with Cheradim worship. The wall is symbolic to our people as a holy place that no longer stands because of our fighting amongst ourselves. If you want to fight join the IDF! Oh yeah, they spend a lot of time arguing with them too. I give up! שנה טובה לכולם.

  5. The charedim want to fight with Jewish women to pray but will not enlist in the Israeli army to dend Judaism? Seems more like theatrical misrepresentation and if they do not want to serve in the Army, they are not entitled to have a brit milah since you need a putz to deserve a bris to enter their covenant with Hsshem From that picture, it also shows Bitul Torah Zeman and why he is not praying and learning. This should be prosecuted as Jewish draft dodgers which Charedim historically are notorious known for.

  6. The charedim want to fight with Jewish women to pray but will not enlist in the Israeli army to dend Judaism? Seems more like theatrical misrepresentation and if they do not want to serve in the Army, they are not entitled to have a brit milah since you need a putz to deserve a bris to enter their covenant with Hsshem From that picture, it also shows Bitul Torah Zeman and why he is not praying and learning. This should be prosecuted as Jewish draft dodgers which Charedim historically are notorious known for.

  7. Dear Harry — Very level-headed piece. I would just really take issue with the knee-jerk delegitimization of feminism, as if to say that if someone holds feminist values, then this is somehow by definition antithetical to Judaism. Feminism is actually the epitome of Judaism: It's all about creating a compassionate society, one that is based on ve'ahavta lere'acha kamocha — including the idea that women deserve to receive this kind of dignity and respect as much as anyone else. Moreover, religious feminists are probably the most religious women in the Jewish world. They are not rejecting religion but on the contrary, they are embracing the most profound and expressive forms of devotion. For this they should be commended and welcomed and supported in every way. These are women effectively begging for the right to pray at the Kotel. This is penultimate Torah. Best, Elana

  8. Leave praying women alone. A very sound decision. Your attempt to disparage WOW by differentiating between members and leadership is neither original nor accurate. I am WOW leadership. And I have a sincere desire to pray out loud, read from a Torah scroll and wear a tallit. These are not 'unusual' ways to pray! Jews have achieved the right to pray this way at the Kotel since 1967 and hundreds of thousands of women from all streams on Judaism pray this way in synagogues in Israel and around the world. And although WOW has a quite narrow goal to gain women's prayer rights in the women's section of the Kotel, we certainly are proud to be part of a growing movement in Israel promoting religious tolerance, pluralism and feminism.

  9. I think you are under-estimating WOW and their tremendous financial and political backing by the reform movement. Annat Hoffman is using the Kotel as a political platform, WoW was largely ignored for 24 years- so they hired a PR representative to up the anty. Their behavios became inreasingly provocative and the started importing representative from the US. They claimed their only opponents were misogynistic Rabbis- since women remained silent and said nothing. WoW has been gaining momentum for years – the protests by women davening had little to do with that. I pray we can all pray in peace- without ppl using the Kotel to further their political agenda.

  10. I think you are under-estimating WOW and their tremendous financial and political backing by the reform movement. Annat Hoffman is using the Kotel as a political platform, WoW was largely ignored for 24 years- so they hired a PR representative to up the anty. Their behavios became inreasingly provocative and the started importing representative from the US. They claimed their only opponents were misogynistic Rabbis- since women remained silent and said nothing. WoW has been gaining momentum for years – the protests by women davening had little to do with that. I pray we can all pray in peace- without ppl using the Kotel to further their political agenda.

  11. Exactly what is Ronit Peskin doing then, when she and her fellow frummies roust 5,000 girls from sleep to bus them to the Kotel simply to block WoW from praying? Is that not a political agenda? Were those girls showing up before WoW obtained the right to pray at the Kotel in court? Exactly how, Sara Conway, does it inconvenience you that those in WoW wear a men's-style tallit?

  12. consistently been quoted as having the real goal of religious tolerance, pluralism, and mostly feminism. WoW is simply a clever means so get this done. They have found a way to technically not violate Halacha and thereby recruit the left wing segments of Orthodoxy to support them. And as this new development shows, they are gaining traction.

    Read more at: http://www.jewishpress.com/blogs/haemtza/doing-battle-with-wow/2013/08/30/?fb_comment_id=fbc_457938824313142_2567743_458563204250704#f1e2aab49

  13. The writer misrepresents our prayer as "unusual" and "peculiar" and tallis and tefilin as "male" Neither is accurate. Also the above statement is illogical–why is the goal fo "religious tolerance, pluralism, and …feminism opposed to a sincere desire to pray? I think they are one and the same.

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