Elizabeth, New Jersey: A Kehillah In The Truest Sense,Tova Stulman, <i>Jewish Press Staff Reporter</i>

When Naomi Stroock's family decided to move from Kew Gardens, Queens, in search of a bigger house, they came to visit one of Stroock's childhood friends, Efrona Hagler, for Shabbos. What they found in the Elizabeth/Hillside community was a wonderfully cohesive community with a warm and inviting atmosphere, and the rest in history.

"The community is very diverse," says Stroock, who found a house soon after her visit to the area. "The amazing thing about Elizabeth is that all types are welcomed. No one is judged by where they came from, which I think is an amazing thing in a New York area community." Stroock remarks that she has made friends with many people with whom she might not have come into contact in Queens, and also praises the relaxed pace of life in Elizabeth. "There is a lack of competition in all areas - dress, houses, cars and frumkeit."

Stroock is not the only one who recognizes Elizabeth as a premier Jewish neighborhood. In 1968, the Israeli government awarded the community a medal and pronounced it a model Jewish community.

Most residents consider the North Elizabeth/Hillside and Elmora neighborhoods as one inclusive community known as Elizabeth. One eruv encompasses both areas, which are adjacent to each other. Although Elizabeth was founded in 1664 by English settlers, it was in 1881 when a Jewish community first began taking root there. When the eminent Rabbi Pinchas M. Teitz accepted the rabbinate in 1935, he revitalized the community and made it into the vibrant center for Jewish life that it is today.

RTMA students donating blood

His son, Rabbi Elazar Mayer Teitz, is the current dean of the local Jewish school system under the banner the Jewish Educational Center, or as it is more popularly known, the JEC. He also serves the spiritual leader of the city, functioning as a quasi-chief rabbi of the community, much like his father did (although no one refers to them by that title).

The rabbinic dynasty extends to a third generation with Rabbi Eliyahu Teitz, who was the assistant rabbi of the neighborhood for 15 years while simultaneously working in the administration of the JEC school. After he stepped down from the rabbinate three years ago, he has worked full-time as the associate dean of the JEC. In addition, he is now also the acting assistant principal in the elementary division.

There are five shuls united under the same rabbinate: JEC Elmora, JEC Adath Israel, Adas Yeshurun, Beis Yitzchak Chevrah T'hillim, and the newest one, the Elmora Hills Minyan. Four years ago, Rabbi Teitz realized that the community of Elizabeth/Hillside was simply too much for one person to handle. So he decided to hire full-time ravs for the shuls. Deciding it was in the best interest of the shuls, as well as the community, he oversaw the hirings of full-time rabbis for some of the shuls Three years ago, Adath Israel hired a new rabbi, and the JEC Elmora followed suit a year a later.

JEC's Yeshiva hockey team

Rabbi Avrohom Herman is currently the rabbi of the JEC Elmora, arriving from Scranton, PA, two years ago. "Rabbi Teitz now is not directly involved with the regular activities of the shul," says Rabbi Herman. "I and the other rabbis have an excellent relationship with Rabbi Teitz, and we discuss all community matters with him. It is a unique system, unlike almost all other cities, and it is working out very well for everyone."

"People accept and respect each other despite their personal differences," says Rabbi Herman of Elizabeth. "There is a real sense of community here." Rabbi Herman lists the numerous shiurim, active sisterhood and great youth department as big draws of the shul.

The rabbi of Adath Israel is Rabbi Jonathan Schwartz, a charismatic rav who is credited with attracting many new families to the area. Since most families who were moving to the area had come with children, the shul has grown at an incredible rate.

Bruriah students at the Israel Day Parade

Aside from the flourishing shuls and the JEC school system, the area is rife with other sights of Jewish life: Elizabeth is home to the first kosher Dunkin Donuts in New Jersey. There are kosher restaurants and a fully stocked supermarket called One Stop Kosher Supermarket, which has a full-service food market with a deli, bakery and frozen foods. It also prepares traditional restaurant items, such as burgers, fried chicken and sushi. (Savvy shoppers will also recognize Elizabeth as the home of the Jersey Gardens Mall, the state's largest mall, as well as to a variety of retail shopping where there is only a three and a half percent sales tax, making Elizabeth an attractive shopping destination.) Like larger communities, there is a choice and variety of Jewish resources, yet the small size of Elizabeth, with its quiet tree-lined streets and actual backyards, symbolize its small-town charm.

Elizabeth is a place where the monthly shul newsletter heartily welcomes new members of the community, and where new families can expect to find themselves invited out for Shabbos meals almost as soon as they settle in.

Jeffrey Strashun is a proud native of the community. "We are one of the oldest Torah communities in New Jersey," he says, "but due to its relatively small size, it has the feel and many of the benefits of a larger community." A graduate of JEC, Yeshiva College and Cardozo Law School, Strashun briefly worked in Maryland before returning to his hometown in 1981, and has not left since. "Warmth, openness and lack of competitiveness are some of the feelings one gets living out here," he says. "It has the best of both in town and out of town - less than 30 minutes from New York City, less than an hour away from Monsey or Lakewood but still miles away from the hustle, bustle and coldness of the city."

Strashun, who is the past president and current programming chair of Adath Israel - informally known as AI - of the JEC, offers many stories about the shul to highlight its identifying characteristics of warmth and friendliness. There is the "Perek on the Lawn Program," where the shul hosts some 100-200 people every Shabbos in the summer for a shiur - along with a buffet - given by a member or visiting guest. The shul often hosts guests stranded at the nearby Newark International Airport, refusing to let them stay at airport hotels and instead opening up their homes to people far from home. (Additionally, Rabbi Elazar Teitz extends an open invitation to anyone at the airport needing a minyan to contact him.)

First grade siddur play

"One person even voluntarily returns every year, since he calls AI his home away from home - in Efrat," remarks Strashun. Another shul member hosts a dairy lunch on Shavuot in her sprawling backyard, where all attendees contribute a food item and are treated to a d'var Torah by one of the college students.

"The school system here is renowned for its excellence," says Stroock. The JEC has three divisions: the Yeshiva of Elizabeth, the Rav Teitz Mesivta Academy (RTMA), and Bruriah High School for Girls. Bruriah is an immensely popular and extremely well regarded girls' high school. Not only do 100 percent of graduates continue on to higher education, but an amazing 90 percent spend the year after high school studying in Israel, exemplifying the love of Israel that the curriculum instills in its students. The establishment of the JEC made Elizabeth one of the first American cities to offer a comprehensive Jewish and secular education.

Michael Poppers is another proud and active member of the Jewish community, as well as an ardent admirer of Rav Teitz. He is a member of the chevrah kadisha and the secretary of the JEC Elmora board of trustees. "The community is one that welcomes Jews of all backgrounds to an environment firmly based on Torah, avodah and gemillus chasadim," says Poppers, who lives in Elizabeth with his wife, Leah, and their three children.

He notes that the diversity of Jewish backgrounds runs the gamut from chassidish, Israeli, Litvak, Morrocan, etc. "We still have that unified rabbinate which is crucial to a properly functioning kehillah." On a more technical note, Poppers points out that real-estate taxes in Elizabeth are far more reasonable than in most other New Jersey neighborhoods, and all the typical resources of a Jewish community are present. "There's the world-renowned Bruriah High School, fast-food places like Carvel, Chinese, pizza and Dunkin Donuts, activities for youth, seniors and everyone in between."

"The community is a diverse one," says Rabbi Elazar Teitz. "The goal my father, Rav Pinchas Teitz, set was that all Jews should feel comfortable in Elizabeth. We are not members of OU, Young Israel, Agudah or any other organization. Having a central rabbinate means that there is one standard of halachah for the entire community."

The enthusiasm, with which residents of Elizabeth speak of their city, is exemplified by Jeffrey Strashun. "It's like the commercial says," he quips, "once you test drive our community, you will surely want to buy here."

Read Comments (2)

Great article - but there so much more.
Date 09:11, 11-28, 07

This past year, the JEC was the first orthodox yeshiva to ever make the NJSIAA baseball playoffs. It was also the first orthodox Jewish team in the tri-state area. This was a prelude to the creation of a league within the BJE. As part of athletics, many children who live in this area have children playing little league baseball ofr the Elmora youth League - the one cavaet for our teams is that no games are scheduled for Fri Eve, Saturdays (shabbos) and on religious holidays. Sports is just one thing that makes this community special. This past year, the Westminster community sent 13 children to study abroad in Yeshivas in Israel. The Elmora community did the same.
As for fame, Ira Heller, the recording artist lives among us.

As for hashkofa, we look at ourselves as an out of town community within the tri-state area. We have women who wear sheitles, others that wear hats and still others that do not cover their hair - but no one judges each other down, because we recognize that we are all orthodox, and are tolerant in that each can choose to do their own thing.

As for schools, most of us send our kids to the JEC. However, because of personal needs and close proximity, many parents choose to send their children to schools in Passaic or Livingston.

As a board member of Adath Israel, coach of a baseball team and a realtor within this wonderful community, I would like the readers to know that there are many 4+ bedroom homes that cost between $300,000 and $400,000 and that we are less than a 45 bus ride/27 minute train ride to NYC as well as a 30 minute car ride to Brooklyn.

In conclusion, to agree with the author, this is a great place to live and we are forever hosting families when they desire to check out our community. When someone comes for a shabbos, many end up spending a lifetiime (unless they make aliyah).

Paul Gruber
P_Gruber@yahoo.com

some more info on Elizabeth
Date 11:11, 11-30, 07

Thank you, Tova, for your article, and for including me in it! The Elizabeth community indeed is a K'hillah in all senses of the word -- growing up in another K'hillah, KAJ/"Breuer's" of Washington Heights, NY, I can appreciate everything which my current community (where Leah and I have lived since marrying many moons ago) represents -- and, in terms of where community members "come from," it features not only Hirschians like me, Litvaks, Chassidim, and Israelis but also many Iranian families and at least one Dominican family. (One other addition to the article: aside from the primary and secondary schools, the community also features the post-high-school Yeshivas & Kollel Be''er Yitzchak.) We are truly a United Nation of b'nei Yisrael under the guidance of a unified Rabbinate of sensitive talmidei chachamim!

Jeff Strashun is a wonderful spokesman for AI and for the entire community -- if you wish to contact him, see the "Contact Us" link on the AI Website, http://ai.thejec.org/.

Information on all the shuls mentioned in the article can be found at http://www.thejec.org/Community/ShulLaunch.htm.

As I currently manage the Elmora Website, you can contact me via the link(s) at the bottom of the Elmora-Website homepage, http://elmora.thejec.org/, and that page also contains links for information relevant to current or potential visitors as well as to the community at-large.

If you have any questions, please feel free to ask Paul Gruber (who submitted an earlier comment to Tova's article), Jeff, me, or any of the other community members whose contact info. is noted in the pages of the above-mentioned Websites. Thanks!