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Chillul Tefila Bifarhesia, as well as halachicly challenged verbiage and dress, are external manifestations of a critical lack of personal yiras shomayim which has lethal consequences.



‘My Joy In Judaism Has Disappeared’


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Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis

Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis

Rebbetzin, perhaps you can give me some advice. To the reader in last week’s column the solution was simple – become religious. But I am religious – and any joy I initially found in Judaism has been sucked out. It’s disappeared. I am left with expensive kosher meals, hot clothes in the summer, and Shabbos plans I often dread making.

How is it that when so few Jews want to lead Torah lives, He leaves so many of us who actually do single?

(To Be Continued)

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