Latest update: March 12th, 2012
What is your opinion?
Divorced, single or widowed, the reality is that it takes two to tango. Two emotionally mature, serious-minded and committed adults should be able to weather the ups and downs that are part of every marital relationship, let alone a second one.
Shouldn’t a matchmaker be more in the know before assuming such a major undertaking?
A matchmaker is not expected to act as Sherlock Holmes. Many shadchanim have only a basic profile and it is up to the two individuals being set up to do more extensive research.
Is tznius not the hallmark of our lifestyle?
Our intelligent readers are invited to contribute their perspective and opinion.Rachel
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