Although I hear your anger toward the women in the frum, older singles scene, believe me when I say that the women would have plenty of complaints about the single, older frum men. They would complain that those men want to marry women 10-20 years younger than them and still create large families.
Finally, here’s the same advice that I gave the young woman who wrote the original letter two weeks ago: reexamine your own shidduch list as a man looking for a wife. Perhaps if you look for a kind, caring woman who may not meet all the “must” requirements on your list, you will end up in a happy marriage with your needs met.
Hatzlachah in finding your zivug, and thank you for writing a letter that I am confident will help frum, older single women and men!Dr. Yael Respler
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