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Modernity Meets Therapy: Do You Really Need to Meet Your Therapist?

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One Response to “Modernity Meets Therapy: Do You Really Need to Meet Your Therapist?”

  1. I guess that will all depend upon the person. It's true there are some persons who seek the help of a therapist but prefer to do it over the phone or on the internet due to some reasons. It may be because they are too busy at work and responsibilities at home or simply because they are too shy for a face-to-face session. It doesn't really matter how we do it, the most imporant thing is we ask for help to help us deal with our issues.

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