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Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater?

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Cheating will likely not reoccur when a couple feels that there has been such substantive change and that their marriage is in a better place. Ultimately, trust is built when there is a form of emotional closeness between a couple and efforts to protect that connection.

New York Times bestselling author M. Gary Neuman is a practicing licensed counselor and ordained rabbi who offers a caring, no-nonsense approach to issues in marriage, family, and personal growth. He has appeared many times on Today, the View, NPR and many other programs. Oprah referred to Gary as, “One of the best psychotherapists in the world,” on his final (11th) appearance on her show, Oprah’s Most Memorable Guests show. For more info on his work, go to www.mgaryneuman.com and follow him on fb and twitter@mgaryneuman.

About the Author: M. Gary Neuman is a psychotherapist, rabbi, and New York Times best-selling author. He is the creator of NeumanMethod.com video programs for marriages and parenting.


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