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Obama the Punisher, and the Least Boring Banker
 
Brother, Sister Caught with Knives

January 28, 2015 - 4:56 PM
 
UNIFIL Confirms ‘Rocket Fired From Lebanon First, Israel Retaliated’

January 28, 2015 - 4:45 PM
 
Breaking News: Two IDF Soldiers Killed by Hezbollah

January 28, 2015 - 4:45 PM
 
Gazans Attack UN Building with Hamas’s Advance Knowledge

January 28, 2015 - 4:43 PM
 
UPDATED: Two Soldiers Killed in Hezbollah Attack

January 28, 2015 - 4:15 PM
 
Muqata Blog: Golan Heights Battle with Hezbollah (4:28pm)

January 28, 2015 - 3:18 PM
 
UNIFIL Soldier Killed in Hezbollah Attack on Israel’s Northern Border

January 28, 2015 - 3:09 PM
 
Jordan Folds to ISIS Hostage Terror

January 28, 2015 - 2:41 PM
 
Netanyahu Warns Northern Attackers, ‘Take a Look at Hamas in Gaza’

January 28, 2015 - 1:38 PM
 
Mortar Shells Bombings on IDF Posts

January 28, 2015 - 1:30 PM
 
Tank Missile Fired from Southern Lebanon Wounds IDF Soldiers

January 28, 2015 - 12:31 PM
 
French President Tells Jews: ‘France is Your Homeland’

January 28, 2015 - 12:17 PM
 
American Among the Dead in Terrorist Attack on Libyan Hotel

January 28, 2015 - 11:08 AM
 
Israeli Night Strike on Damascus is ‘Warning to Beirut’

January 28, 2015 - 10:43 AM
 
Look Who is Behind the New US Democratic-Style Campaign in Israel

January 28, 2015 - 8:22 AM
 
IDF Retaliates Against Syrian Military Targets, Sets Off Rocket Alarms on the Golan

January 28, 2015 - 12:38 AM
 
Netanyahu: ‘Could Be Time for Female Chief of Police in Israel’

January 27, 2015 - 11:42 PM
 
Ma’agar Mochot Poll Introduces Game-Changer, Pulling Right

January 27, 2015 - 10:56 PM
 
Japan, Jordan Unite on ISIS Hostage Crisis

January 27, 2015 - 10:47 PM
 
Latest Election Poll Puts Left in Charge

January 27, 2015 - 9:00 PM
 
NYC All Prepped Up But ‘No Snow Go, Mayor DeBlasio’

January 27, 2015 - 8:43 PM
 
Report: US Sgt Released by Taliban for 5 Gitmo Prisoners to be Charged with Desertion

January 27, 2015 - 8:17 PM
 
David Landau (67)

January 27, 2015 - 8:15 PM
 
Hezbollah-Israel Conflict: an Unwanted Development

January 27, 2015 - 7:18 PM
 
BBC’s Holocaust Tweet Shocker

January 27, 2015 - 7:10 PM
 
Mount Hermon Ski Resort Reopens After Rocket Attack

January 27, 2015 - 7:03 PM
 
UNRWA Runs Out of Money that Israel Says Being Used for Terror Tunnels

January 27, 2015 - 4:40 PM
 
Six Jews Arrested for Beating Druze Student

January 27, 2015 - 1:51 PM
 
Obama Sends Jack Lew To Auschwitz

January 27, 2015 - 1:43 PM
 
Two Missiles Explode in Golan Heights; IDF Returns Fire

January 27, 2015 - 1:20 PM
 
Snow Cripples the Big White Apple [video]

January 27, 2015 - 11:56 AM
 
Kimberly-Clark Buys Out Israeli Diaper Firm for $160 Million

January 27, 2015 - 11:06 AM
 
Rivlin Meets Parents of IDF Lone Soldiers who Fell During Operation Protective Edge

January 27, 2015 - 11:03 AM
 
UPDATE: Social Media Sites Back Up Worldwide – Global Productivity Drops

January 27, 2015 - 8:55 AM
 
Holocaust Survivors Return to Auschwitz to Mark 70 Years of Liberation

January 27, 2015 - 1:30 AM
 
Yesh Atid Announces Knesset List

January 27, 2015 - 12:15 AM
 
Important Message For Our East Coast Readers

January 26, 2015 - 10:38 PM
 
Israeli Wine Exports Sparkle [video]

January 26, 2015 - 7:45 PM
 
NY Blizzard Forces El Al to Cancel ’001′ Flight to JFK

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Marriage and Relationships
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Posted on: July 15th, 2009

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Throughout our lives, we will all experience endless irritations and frustrations, as well as many losses, such as losing a job, suffering betrayal and abuse, and the death of a loved one. What makes the difference between those who stay down and those who pick themselves up and start rebuilding?

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: July 10th, 2009

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You marry for love and friendship. Yet there are practical concerns involved in making a living and managing your finances that can affect the quality of your marriage.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: July 3rd, 2009

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There are some marital issues that are too sensitive for a couple to handle alone. These issues might include mistrust; lack of marital satisfaction; conflict involving in-laws, friends, siblings, and children; verbal abuse; and so on. When dealing with such problems, the best course is to ask a professional outside party for advice and opinions.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: June 26th, 2009

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When parents come to talk to me about a troubled child or teenager, I often find it helpful to explore whether or not their marriage is causing at-risk issues in their home.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: June 19th, 2009

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In evaluating three styles of communication: competitive, avoiding and compromising, being competitive or avoiding conflict share the same risk of alienating the other person.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: June 12th, 2009

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No matter how couples try to make sure everything in their lives is perfect, at some point they may experience conflict in their marriage. Conflict is not as dramatic as it sounds. In marriage, independent of how much you love someone, you may have differing ideas about money or education, preferences, or various special activities you both want to do.

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Posted on: June 3rd, 2009

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About 10 years ago, I went to Israel for a brief visit and met up with the Kuper family, old friends I hadn't seen for many years.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: May 29th, 2009

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Domestic abuse is an issue that affects people of all religious and cultural backgrounds. It is for this reason that most communities today have organizations that will respond to abuse in a manner appropriate for its constituents.

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Posted on: May 20th, 2009

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Last week, a frum-from-birth mother in one of my classes thanked me for encouraging her to stay home with her last baby (which was her sixth). She said, "Until I met you, I didn't know it was important for babies to be cuddled or held. Thanks to you, I decided to nurse for the first time and it was a wonderful experience. Instead of rushing off to work in the morning, he got a calm mom - at least until I returned to part-time work when he was eight months old."

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: May 20th, 2009

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In an online article, Lisa Twerski, LCSW, identifies different types of tactics often used by abusers. This is only a partial list, but recognizing even several of these tactics in your own relationship can help you put a name to what has been going on and help clarify events or conversations that until now might […]

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: May 13th, 2009

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Here are some of the ways to know whether you are in a controlling relationship:

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: May 8th, 2009

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In most dating situations it would be highly unlikely for a person to act out in a controlling manner. For example, you would not see a young man rant and rave if his first-time shidduch is five minutes late for a date. Both parties are still in the illusionary phase of the relationship, where they are careful to limit any form of criticism and to maintain an air of civility during all interchanges.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: May 1st, 2009

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Controlling behavior may be the #1 reason that your marriage needs first aid. If you are unfamiliar with the topic of control, it’s no surprise. Most people are unaware that control is a major topic for counselors, therapists and psychologists-at-large, which until recently has not entered into the public’s attention.

 

Posted on: April 29th, 2009

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A friend of mine called me recently on her way home from a date. It was 11:30 p.m., and she was walking home from the subway, a 20-minute walk from her home. She said that she had a pleasant time, but was surprised when her date walked her to the subway at the end of the evening and said good night at 11 p.m. "Doesn't he realize that at this late hour he should be escorting me home?" she cried.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: April 24th, 2009

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In marriage, it’s inevitable that sometimes couples will step on each other’s toes; especially during the first year of marriage, where newlyweds find themselves tip-toeing around their spouse’s emotional roadblocks. Don’t forget that it takes time to learn about your spouse’s idiosyncrasies and to learn how to respond in a way that makes them feel at ease.

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Posted on: April 22nd, 2009

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Dear Mom and Dad, Yes, I am addressing you both in the same sentence, because even though you are divorced, to me you are still Mom and Dad. I just want you both to know how much I love you. Things have been really crazy and I need to get a few things off my chest. You being divorced has really been hard on me. I remember how you argued so much that most of the time I parented myself. I was so scared ... When you fought, I felt so invisible.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: April 17th, 2009

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Some people are natural communicators. They know how to get across their point of view without damaging their relationship. Others (probably most of us) need some guidance on where to focus and what to steer clear of.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: April 17th, 2009

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Traumatic events are typically unexpected, and uncontrollable. If in the past a person experienced a traumatizing event - even if it's been long forgotten - the brain will remind them of that time, should something similar take place. Memories to traumatic occurrences lie dormant in the recesses of subconscious memories.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: April 10th, 2009

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To feel loved and nurtured, your spouses need to feel that you empathize with their emotions. The key is empathy. Empathy isn’t the same as sympathy or pity. It means being able to put yourself in another’s position, to feel what they feel and see what they see, without losing yourself in the process.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: April 3rd, 2009

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Mirroring is a good way to start actively listening to each other. To mirror, you simply paraphrase or repeat back to your spouses what they are saying to you.

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