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Spiritual Cafe: Secrets of Genesis-Bereshit
Several Israeli Municipalities Bar Arab Workers Temporarily

October 13, 2015 - 9:59 PM
Black Man Beats Up a Jew in Crown Heights

October 13, 2015 - 9:39 PM
US Condemns Terror Attacks without ‘Balanced Blame’

October 13, 2015 - 9:13 PM
A Slice of Jewish Life in Jerusalem’s Ancient City

October 13, 2015 - 9:05 PM
Swastikas, Anti-Semitic Graffiti Found at UC Davis Apartment Complex

October 13, 2015 - 8:41 PM
In Private Meeting Netanyahu Scolds Likud MKs for Abandoning Him

October 13, 2015 - 8:38 PM
Pushed Back by Russia, Syrian Al-Qaeda Affiliate Calling for Murder of Alawites

October 13, 2015 - 7:57 PM
Alert Woman Helps Foil Terror Stabbings in Northern Israel

October 13, 2015 - 5:46 PM
Gaza Arabs Breach Security Fence and Shoot at IDF Jeep [Video]

October 13, 2015 - 4:53 PM
American and Canadian Jews Flying on Aliyah in Face of Terror

October 13, 2015 - 4:07 PM
Right-Wing Leaders Cancel Protest because ‘It is not the Right Time’

October 13, 2015 - 3:33 PM
Lieberman: Let the Police Shoot like American Cops Shoot

October 13, 2015 - 3:17 PM
Warning Graphic: Video of Geula Terrorist Neutralized [video]

October 13, 2015 - 1:48 PM
Court Orders Demolition of Givat Ze’ev Synagogue by Next Week

October 13, 2015 - 1:42 PM
2 Killed in Twin Terror Attacks in Jerusalem

October 13, 2015 - 1:03 PM
Hundreds of Gaza Arabs Riot at Erez Border Crossing

October 13, 2015 - 1:02 PM
No Terror Attack in Eilat, or at Rabin Terminal

October 13, 2015 - 12:48 PM
Netanyahu Convenes Security Cabinet on Terror Escalation

October 13, 2015 - 12:43 PM
IDF Attacks Syrian Govt Positions After Shelling on Golan Heights

October 13, 2015 - 12:40 PM
Terrorist FAILS in Tel Aviv

October 13, 2015 - 11:37 AM
Jerusalem on Lockdown, Prepares to Defend Against Terror

October 13, 2015 - 11:22 AM
IranDeal Approved in Vote by Iranian Parliament

October 13, 2015 - 10:04 AM
15 Wanted Palestinian Arab Terror Suspects Arrested

October 13, 2015 - 9:57 AM
With US Tacit Approval, Iran Tests Ballistic Missile to Reach Tel Aviv

October 13, 2015 - 9:46 AM
1 Wounded in Ra’anana Terror Attack [video]

October 13, 2015 - 9:38 AM
Mortar Shells Explode on the Golan Heights

October 13, 2015 - 9:17 AM
Politicians’ Failure to Curb Arab Terror Wave to Culminate in ‘Day of Rage’ Tuesday

October 13, 2015 - 8:41 AM
Kiryat Arba Resident Hurt in Stone-Throwing Attack

October 12, 2015 - 11:31 PM
Arab Terrorists Attack Israeli Drivers in Upper Galilee

October 12, 2015 - 11:28 PM
School School Trips to Jerusalem Canceled Due to Terror Wave

October 12, 2015 - 11:14 PM
Drive-by Attack on IDF Soldiers Near Nabi Saleh

October 12, 2015 - 9:45 PM
Gaza Arabs Breach Southern Israeli Security Fence – Again

October 12, 2015 - 9:13 PM
Firebomb Attack on Israeli Motorist in Samaria — Damage But No Injuries

October 12, 2015 - 8:54 PM
UPDATE: Terrorist Killed Trying to Steal Soldier’s Gun on Bus, 2 Wounded

October 12, 2015 - 8:47 PM
Where Did the Holy Temple Really Stand?

October 12, 2015 - 8:31 PM
Thousands of Matisyahu Fans Find Some Light in Jerusalem

October 12, 2015 - 7:13 PM
Rivlin Tells Knesset Jewish People, Israel Not At War With Islam

October 12, 2015 - 6:40 PM
3 Stone-Throwers Arrested in Haifa

October 12, 2015 - 6:31 PM
Ultra-Orthodox Town Plagued by… Pigs

October 12, 2015 - 6:20 PM
Terrorist Shot at Kever Rachel

October 12, 2015 - 6:16 PM
UPDATE: 13-Yr-Old Pisgat Ze’ev Terror Victim in Critical But Stable Condition

October 12, 2015 - 6:00 PM
Herzog Calls to Outlaw Islamic Movement

October 12, 2015 - 5:37 PM
Netanyahu: Arab Terrorists Have not Learned They Cannot Destroy Israel

October 12, 2015 - 5:29 PM
Update: Taxi Driver Overpowers Arab Attacker in Tel Aviv

October 12, 2015 - 5:27 PM
Report: Three Syrians Plotted Terror Attack in Moscow

October 12, 2015 - 5:01 PM
Top Official of Islamic Movement in Israel Arrested in Rahat

October 12, 2015 - 4:57 PM
Arab Terrorists Who Attacked IDF Post in August Arrested

October 12, 2015 - 4:55 PM
Israeli Satellite Amos E Weighs Half as Much as the Competition

October 12, 2015 - 4:52 PM
Knesset Committee to Vote on 1,400 Reserves Call-up for Border Guard Police

October 12, 2015 - 4:35 PM
Report: Stabbing in Clal Building in Jerusalem

October 12, 2015 - 4:03 PM
United Hatzalah of Israel Recognized as Official EMS Provider

October 12, 2015 - 4:01 PM
Police Stabbed in Jerusalem at Ammunition Hill and Lion’s Gate

October 12, 2015 - 3:18 PM
Israel Arab Mayor Complains: Terror Chasing Away Jews

October 12, 2015 - 1:27 PM
Ex-Pastor to Obama Says ‘Jesus Was a Palestinian’ at Farrakhan Rally [video]

October 12, 2015 - 12:13 PM
Rabbi Permits Carrying Cell Phone on Shabbat because of Wave of Terror

October 12, 2015 - 10:44 AM
Hareidi and National Religious Jews in Massive Prayer at Kotel Today

October 12, 2015 - 10:09 AM
Video of Arab Terrorist Stabbing Border Policeman [video]

October 12, 2015 - 9:33 AM
Iran Convicts US Journalist Jason Rezaiain

October 12, 2015 - 9:13 AM
Update: Terrorist Killed After Stabbing Guard in Old City [video]

October 12, 2015 - 9:10 AM
Rocket Launched from Sinai (and Gaza) at Israel

October 12, 2015 - 7:55 AM
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Marriage and Relationships

Posted on: September 8th, 2010

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As the coordinator of the Domestic Abuse Program at OHEL for the past 10 years, I have seen many very special women come forward with their painful stories. I am proud to say that our program has made a significant difference in the lives of these courageous women.


Posted on: September 1st, 2010

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Dear Gary, I have begun dating someone who I like very much. However, there is one issue that has raised a red flag. He talks about his mother a lot - in a good way. They have a very close relationship. However, some of my girlfriends (one who is married and does not get along with her mother-in-law) told me to beware of marrying a "Momma's boy" because then you're marrying his mother. Is this a real concern when dating? Concerned


Posted on: August 18th, 2010

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Zelda woke up with a start, the silence eerie and disorienting. She has been waking up this way for almost a year - since shortly after Ruchy and her husband left for Eretz Yisroel. "I can go back to sleep," thought Zelda. But she lay in bed, straining to hear the sounds which for so many years began her day. The banging of bathroom doors, the shouting for lost and then found shoes, tights and seforim, the noise of phones and doorbells ringing, the house filled to the brim with comings and goings.


Posted on: July 28th, 2010

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At a wedding, I sit across from a woman I don't know. "What's your name?" she asks me. "Alanna Fine," I say, choosing to introduce myself with my maiden name. "And what's your maiden name?" she asks me. "That is my maiden name." "Oh, I'm sorry. I thought that was a sheitel on your head." "It is. I'm divorced." "Oh, I'm sorry." "It's ok," I reply, knowing it won't be the last time I hear that.


Posted on: June 2nd, 2010

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Sometimes a few sessions of marital therapy can solve problems that were festering for years. The married couple have often locked themselves into such a struggle; they need help to simply untangle the knot. This has a lot to do with the high level of emotion they are feeling - just think of the expression "I am so angry I can't think straight. The husband and wife often cannot think logically or clearly. Every issue between them is filled with layers of anger, hurt, betrayal and fear that has built up over the years due to miscommunication.


Posted on: May 12th, 2010

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If you knew how much trouble I had getting gay men to be interviewed by me, you would doubt that the term "gay" applies to them. Their elusive hesitance, their resistance to revealing any identifying information including their phone numbers and the need for my repeated reassurances that I would respect their privacy and exercise discretion further evidences that they are not happy with their former identities and associations and have chosen a different path because "gay" and homosexual are not necessarily synonymous. In fact Dan (not his real name) was quick to confirm my assumptions. He felt it was very much an oxymoron to be gay and happy in his life.


Posted on: April 14th, 2010

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

Many years ago, I was meeting relatives at the airport when I ran into someone I knew whom I hadn't seen in a few years. Someone who was a very active homosexual. I asked him what he was doing at the airport and he told me he was there to pick up his wife and kids. "Oh," I said and, as if on cue, his wife appeared with two little kids in tow.


Posted on: December 16th, 2009

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During these difficult financial times, many couples, usually without ever noticing it, start dealing with life as individuals. They begin to recede from each other and allow a distance to develop. They stop talking. They find their feelings to be too intense and too difficult to face, so they don't share them. They don't want to share that they are scared, so each partner says nothing and goes into a deep and lonely place within. They don't fight for their relationship. Instead they fight over money and who's at fault for the situation. They blame each other for not making enough money, for spending too much money, for not saving money, or for not spending enough time doing the things that will bring in more money.


Posted on: November 25th, 2009

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The morning blessings provide a daily reminder of the mitzvah to bring peace between a husband and wife. However, most couples can maintain sholom bayis on their own with a practical, easy-to-implement system: the Marriage Meeting Program.


Posted on: November 4th, 2009

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Have you joined with other women in your community to punish someone who has behaved badly? I have seen several instances of shunning, where women banded together to cut someone out of the social life of their synagogue and neighborhood in order to punish her for wrongdoing. Women shunning another woman, often feel they are participating in a positive act, but it is one they do not discuss with their rabbi. This is a modern, informal version of cherem.


Posted on: October 21st, 2009

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My oldest daughter recently celebrated her nineteenth birthday, and I'm just now getting used to the idea that my husband and I are heading into a new parsha in our lives: Getting ready to find a shidduch for our daughter. So it wasn't any wonder that the topic came up when I ran into an old friend at shul the other day.


Posted on: October 9th, 2009

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

Due to the overwhelming amount of e-mail I have received about domestic abuse, this week’s column focuses on the services of Shalom Task Force. (Names and situation have been changed) According to the Allstate Foundation National Poll on Domestic Violence, three out of four Americans know someone who is or has been a victim of […]


Posted on: August 28th, 2009

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Can improving your marriage help you live longer? A fascinating study led by researchers at Hebrew University revealed that Bnei Brak, an Israeli city that has one of the highest proportions of ultra-Orthodox Jews, also had the longest life expectancy in Israel. This is what the report found:


Posted on: August 14th, 2009

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The number one factor in resolving problems of acceptance by in-laws is your spouse’s support. As with all close relationships, it’s an art to support your spouse without jumping into the fight or feeding his or her discontent.


Posted on: August 7th, 2009

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You may think you said “I do” to just one person on your wedding day, but the reality of married life is that you actually vowed to honor several people. Marriage comes with new challenges; some of which you had no idea were waiting for you.


Posted on: August 5th, 2009

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

With Tu B'Av - a holiday renowned for women "dancing in the fields" and meeting a man - falling out on Wednesday, August 5, we'd like to share the following annual letter:


Posted on: July 31st, 2009

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

One of the most important ways a couple can manage money together is to learn the art of contentment. We have already discussed how making a budget can be a very simple way to start saving money.


Posted on: July 22nd, 2009

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There's no getting around it: in marriage, a budget is a requirement for good money management. A budget is simply (1) a tool to increase your consciousness of how and where you spend your money, and (2) a guideline to help you spend your money on the things that are most important to you. Following a budget can create money for savings, where you thought there was none.


Posted on: July 17th, 2009

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

To help couples better understand where they stand on financial issues, here is a mini quiz that both partners can take and use to facilitate a discussion about money.


Posted on: July 15th, 2009

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

Throughout our lives, we will all experience endless irritations and frustrations, as well as many losses, such as losing a job, suffering betrayal and abuse, and the death of a loved one. What makes the difference between those who stay down and those who pick themselves up and start rebuilding?

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