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A Native American Helps Reclaim the Israel Narrative
 
Knesset Amends Anti-Infiltration Law Lowering Migrant Detention to 12 Months

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Hamas Terrorist Killed in Khan Younis Tunnel Collapse

February 9, 2016 - 4:07 PM
 
‘Small Schools, Kindergartens Don’t Qualify for Gov’t Security Protection’

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Bernie Sanders Tattoos the Rage in New England

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Court Rules Against Boy Who Sang Israel’s National Anthem on Temple Mount

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Technion Develops Small Portable Ultrasound

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India Puts Final Touches on $3b Military Deals With Israel

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Adelson’s Lawyer Tells Court the Billionaire Does Not Own ‘Israel Today’

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Hareidi-Religious Rioters in Ashdod Block IDF Arrests With Violence

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Israeli Scientists Find Protein in Blood to ID Alzheimer’s Disease

February 9, 2016 - 10:55 AM
 
Justice Minister Berates Left as NGO Transparency Bill Passes First Reading

February 9, 2016 - 10:54 AM
 
Update: Female Teen Terror Wannabe Fails at Jerusalem’s Damascus Gate

February 9, 2016 - 9:30 AM
 
Update: Terror Attack Foiled at Karmei Tzur in Judea

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Bernie Sanders Consults J-Street, Zogby, on Foreign Affairs

February 9, 2016 - 8:10 AM
 
Vassar Hosts Prof. Who Charges Israel With ‘Weaponized Epigenetics’

February 9, 2016 - 4:28 AM
 
Ethics Committee Suspends MKs Zoabi, Ghattas and Zahalka

February 8, 2016 - 9:57 PM
 
Computerized Transparency Already Activated in Justice Committee Session

February 8, 2016 - 9:45 PM
 
Netanyahu Brawls with Arab MKs over Dismissal Law

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Knesset Passes No Taxation on US Investors Law

February 8, 2016 - 7:37 PM
 
Driven by Deteriorating Social, Political, Economic Situation, South African Alyiah Increasing

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Knesset Committee: Don’t Return Terrorists’ Bodies, Punish Arab MKs

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Boy Arrested for Singing “HaTikva” on Temple Mount

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‘The US is Preventing Israel From Joining Sunni Coalition’ Says Government Official

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Police Arrest Jewish Youth Who Sang Hatikvah on Temple Mount [video]

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Bayit Yehudi MK: We Must Quash Arabs’ Hope for Statehood

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Report: Israeli Couples Don’t Live in Sin

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Israel Returning Bodies of 10 Arab Terrorists to Families in Jerusalem

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Tel Sheva Arab Student Indicted on Terror Conspiracy After Return From Jordan

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Danon Helps Bereaved IDF Parents Lobby for MIA Soldiers at UN

February 8, 2016 - 11:32 AM
 
Israeli Arab MK Ahmed Tibi Hosted at White House, State Dept. [video]

February 8, 2016 - 11:00 AM
 
Higher Incidence of Cancer, Asthma Found in Haifa

February 8, 2016 - 10:45 AM
 
ISIS Executioner Participated in Galloway’s 2009 Gaza ‘Aid Convoy’

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Israeli Research Into Zika Virus Contradicts World Health Organization Findings

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Ban ‘Mooned’ at Park East Synagogue

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New AG Orders Police to Investigate Arab MKs’ Visit with Terrorists’ Families

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Marriage and Relationships
Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: March 4th, 2009

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Self-esteem is one of the most important factors influencing human behavior. Despite what some people believe, self-esteem can be a critical issue in marriage, where unresolved identity issues from childhood can place unwanted stress on a relationship.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: February 25th, 2009

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Finding direction in marriage is similar to going on a long journey. To get to where you want to go, you will need to have a plan that includes directions, supplies and someone to navigate along the way.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: February 11th, 2009

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I often share with my clients a simple yet powerful analogy: to think about their relationship as they do about their bank account. That's because investing in your relationship is similar to saving money; the more you put into your bank account or relationship, the more you can take out when necessary.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: February 6th, 2009

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Mordechai, 36, and Chani, 35, were married for six years and came to ask me for advice on how to save their relationship. They seemed to have everything going for them. They were working professionals, successful and upwardly mobile; they shared many common factors including similar religious beliefs, intelligence levels, and were both pleasantly extroverted.

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Posted on: December 11th, 2008

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One of the reasons that parenting is so difficult is because parents are caught in a paradoxical situation. What every child wants most is to be loved as he is. However, the parent (horeh) is also a teacher (moreh), which comes from the word hora'ah - instruction. A teacher's job is to civilize the child, instill values, shape attitudes and correct negative behavior. We can't let our children go out into the world as pampered slobs or short-tempered bullies. We want them to be hard working, reliable, thrifty, considerate, patient and organized.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: November 28th, 2008

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If you would like to know if your marriage is relationship centered or not, the way to find out is to ask yourself about your core values. For example, what is the most important principle of your marriage? Is it your desire for money or pleasure? Do you dream about being comfortable, being honored by your spouse and having a lot of fun?

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: November 21st, 2008

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Are you looking for emotional first aid for your marriage? If you are, you’re not alone. Today engaged couples, newlyweds and couples who have been married for years, are feeling insecure about their relationships and looking for advice on how to make their marriages work better or simply to heal their relationship wounds.

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Posted on: November 12th, 2008

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We have a stringent duty to honor our parents. But are there limits? A well-known Gemara praises a Roman officer for maintaining his composure even after his mother tore his clothes and spit in his face in public (Kiddushin 31a). Many cite this story as proof that a child must passively submit to abuse by a parent. This view is mistaken and can lead to terrible tragedies.

Respler-Yael
 

Posted on: October 16th, 2008

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Dear Dr. Yael, I think it is imperative that you print this letter because this is an ongoing problem in many families. In these families, the children stay in their parents' summer home for the entire summer, and everyone is supposed to live happily under one roof. This can get difficult if a brother-in-law picks on his sister-in-law or vice versa. This past summer my brother-in-law called me names, causing many hurt feelings.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: April 23rd, 2008

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A few years ago I was invited to be a guest on a talk show. An interesting question came up from a young man who wanted some information on the topic of in-laws. He wanted to know if I had ever known of a couple divorcing because of their in-laws. My response was that although divorced people may blame the in-laws for the marriage failure, in most cases this does not happen directly, but indirectly- YES!

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: February 13th, 2008

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The ability to maintain a pleasant and peaceful relationship with in-laws is of the greatest importance for the young couple entering marriage. The more you understand the in-law relationship, the more likely you will achieve happiness in marriage.

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Posted on: February 13th, 2008

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As the Mom of a large blended family I am regularly asked, "How do you guys do it?" How do you keep this family going with all of the ups and downs, all of the challenges that go along with being parents of eight children including several who have different combinations of parents, aunts, uncles and grandparents? Well, to tell you the truth it isn't easy and there are days that I ask myself the same question.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: October 2nd, 2007

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Dear Moishe, I am writing to you because frankly, I just don't know where else to turn at this point. I know that statement makes it sound as if I have been married for years, but the truth is I have only been married for six months, and the changes that are taking place are scary.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: June 5th, 2007

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In marriage, money tends to mean different things to different people. Unfortunately, for some, money repre­sents more than economic security. It becomes a symbol for CPR — Control, Power and (self) Respect.

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Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: January 10th, 2007

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I teach a graduate course in trauma and family crisis. The question most often asked by students is, "Why are there so many families in crisis compared to the families our parents grew up in?" Whenever changes in a support system occur, making it no longer secure and defined, our ability to cope, adapt and problem-solve will be impaired.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: August 30th, 2006

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When my nephew Chaim was three-years old, he used to have nose bleeds quite often - so often, that he had a procedure done in the doctor's office to stop the constant nosebleeds. It worked, but he walked around the house saying, "Something hurts and I don't know! Something hurts and I don't know!" My brother Sol said at that moment, "Chaim your nose hurts! - Oh yes, my nose hurts!" Now that he was aware of what was bothering him, he felt so much better.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: June 7th, 2006

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Dear Mordechai, When I decided to get a divorce, I resolved early on to take the high road. Whenever my children are in earshot, I am careful to refer to my ex in only posi­tive terms. I stick to blame-free explanations for why my marriage ended, and keep my venting phone chats with my sister, late at night, when the kids are asleep. It hasn’t been easy, and no I’m not perfect. I’ve slipped here and there, but overall, I’ve protected my children from the fallout of my feelings. Last weekend, though, my daughter returned from her mother’s house and said, “I know why you and Mommy divorced. It’s be­cause you lied to her!” Guess what? It’s not the first time. I’ve spoken to her about it, and she only defends her behavior; I don’t think she’ll ever change. Now what? (Answer, continued from last week)

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: May 31st, 2006

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Dear Mordechai, When I decided to get a divorce, I resolved early on to take the high road. Whenever my children are in earshot, I am careful to refer to my ex in only positive terms. I’ve stuck to blame-free explanations for why my marriage ended and keep my venting phone chats with my sister to late at night when my kids are asleep. It hasn’t been easy, and no, I’m not perfect. I’ve slipped here and there, but overall, I’ve protected my children from the fallout of my feelings. Last weekend, though, my daughter returned from her mother’s house and said, “I know why you and Mommy divorced. It’s because you lied to her!” Guess what? It’s not the first time. I’ve spoken to her about it, and she only defends her behavior so I don’t think my ex will ever change. Now what?

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: May 10th, 2006

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Q: Dear Moishe : Why do some couples need marital counseling and others do not ? A: I have been asked this question many times in many e-mails. The answer has a Part A and Part B sequence, so let me begin with an introduction taken from the T.E.A.M. (Torah Education and Awareness for a […]

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