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The Christian Zionist Who Gave Birth to the IDF
 
Ted Cruz Drops Out, Trump Supports Settlement Expansion

May 4, 2016 - 10:12 AM
 
Gaza Terrorists Fire at IDF Troops 2 Days in a Row

May 4, 2016 - 9:56 AM
 
Update on Soldiers Wounded in Tuesday Night’s Terror Attack

May 4, 2016 - 7:26 AM
 
Terrorist’s Body Quickly Returned to Family

May 4, 2016 - 12:06 AM
 
Netanyahu Tells Soldiers Israel is ‘Island of Stability’ in Middle East

May 3, 2016 - 10:34 PM
 
Gunfire From Gaza Hits IDF Vehicle After Netanyahu’s Visit to Border

May 3, 2016 - 10:34 PM
 
Israeli Man Sentenced to Life For Burning Arab Teen

May 3, 2016 - 10:31 PM
 
IDF Vehicle Damaged in Terror Attack Along Northern Gaza Border

May 3, 2016 - 10:09 PM
 
San Diego State Jewish Students Face Disciplinary Action over Anti-BDS Flyer

May 3, 2016 - 9:00 PM
 
National Religious Rabbi Appointed Supreme Rabbinical Court Judge While Court Facing Shutdown

May 3, 2016 - 8:30 PM
 
3 IDF Soldiers Wounded in Ramming Attack Near Dolev, Terrorist Dead

May 3, 2016 - 7:05 PM
 
German Traveler to Dubai Finds Himself on Flight to Tel Aviv

May 3, 2016 - 3:59 PM
 
UK’s Labour Party Secretly Suspended 50 Members Over Anti-Semitism, Racism

May 3, 2016 - 3:15 PM
 
Pentagon Confirms American Soldier Killed by ISIS in Northern Iraq

May 3, 2016 - 2:40 PM
 
Two Roman-Era ‘Mummy Paintings’ Stolen By Nazis Returned to Jewish Heirs

May 3, 2016 - 2:10 PM
 
ISIS Hackers Post ‘Hit List’ of US Military Staff, Says ‘Kill Them, Behead Them’

May 3, 2016 - 1:25 PM
 
Israel Demolishes Home of Henkins’ Hamas Killer

May 3, 2016 - 12:47 PM
 
German Technology Giant Siemens AG to Pay $44 Million to Settle Israeli Corruption Case

May 3, 2016 - 12:35 PM
 
Daphna Meir’s Arab Killer is Convicted in Military Court

May 3, 2016 - 12:21 PM
 
Jewish Group Condemns German YouTube’s Neo-Nazi Videos

May 3, 2016 - 11:59 AM
 
Murdered Israeli Tourist Beaten to Death in Hungary

May 3, 2016 - 11:40 AM
 
Israel Intercepts 4 Tons Ammonium Chloride Smuggled by Hamas to Make Rocket Fuel

May 3, 2016 - 11:21 AM
 
Cave of the Patriarchs Closes to Jews for Muslim Holiday

May 3, 2016 - 11:00 AM
 
Jew Expelled From Temple Mount for Holding Tzizit

May 3, 2016 - 10:57 AM
 
Analysis: Bennett Threatening to Walk If Bibi Gives Shaked’s Justice Portfolio to Bougie

May 3, 2016 - 10:17 AM
 
Jerusalem’s Old City Stabbing Victim Improving, Terrorist Caught

May 3, 2016 - 10:13 AM
 
Palestinian Authority Tries to Grab Dead Sea Oil Reservoir

May 2, 2016 - 11:47 PM
 
Israeli Labour Party Ponders Cutting Ties to British Labour Over Anti-Semitism

May 2, 2016 - 11:30 PM
 
UPDATE: Stabbing in Jerusalem, Jewish Man Seriously Wounded, Terrorist Captured [video]

May 2, 2016 - 10:56 PM
 
A First: Rasmussen Gives Trump 2-Point National Lead Over Clinton

May 2, 2016 - 9:43 PM
 
Kahlon: Half-Billion Shekels to Go to Holocaust Survivors and Elderly

May 2, 2016 - 9:35 PM
 
Israel to Open Second Gaza Crossing to Transfer Goods

May 2, 2016 - 9:19 PM
 
Giant Chipmaker Intel Starts Israeli Layoffs

May 2, 2016 - 9:11 PM
 
German Rightwing Party Calling for Ban on Islam as Leftists Clash with Police

May 2, 2016 - 6:49 PM
 
Italian Kickboxing Champion Denies Joining ISIS, Plotting to Blow Up Israeli Embassy, Vatican

May 2, 2016 - 6:14 PM
 
Israeli Soldiers Capture 3 Terror Fugitives, Find Weaponry

May 2, 2016 - 4:05 PM
 
Another UK Labour Member Suspended Over Anti-Semitic Vitriol on Facebook

May 2, 2016 - 3:29 PM
 
Shaked’s Plan to Apply Israeli Law Beyond Green Line Provokes Backlash from Radical Left

May 2, 2016 - 2:58 PM
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Marriage and Relationships
Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: February 13th, 2008

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The ability to maintain a pleasant and peaceful relationship with in-laws is of the greatest importance for the young couple entering marriage. The more you understand the in-law relationship, the more likely you will achieve happiness in marriage.

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Posted on: February 13th, 2008

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As the Mom of a large blended family I am regularly asked, "How do you guys do it?" How do you keep this family going with all of the ups and downs, all of the challenges that go along with being parents of eight children including several who have different combinations of parents, aunts, uncles and grandparents? Well, to tell you the truth it isn't easy and there are days that I ask myself the same question.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: October 2nd, 2007

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Dear Moishe, I am writing to you because frankly, I just don't know where else to turn at this point. I know that statement makes it sound as if I have been married for years, but the truth is I have only been married for six months, and the changes that are taking place are scary.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: June 5th, 2007

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In marriage, money tends to mean different things to different people. Unfortunately, for some, money repre­sents more than economic security. It becomes a symbol for CPR — Control, Power and (self) Respect.

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Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: January 10th, 2007

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I teach a graduate course in trauma and family crisis. The question most often asked by students is, "Why are there so many families in crisis compared to the families our parents grew up in?" Whenever changes in a support system occur, making it no longer secure and defined, our ability to cope, adapt and problem-solve will be impaired.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: August 30th, 2006

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When my nephew Chaim was three-years old, he used to have nose bleeds quite often - so often, that he had a procedure done in the doctor's office to stop the constant nosebleeds. It worked, but he walked around the house saying, "Something hurts and I don't know! Something hurts and I don't know!" My brother Sol said at that moment, "Chaim your nose hurts! - Oh yes, my nose hurts!" Now that he was aware of what was bothering him, he felt so much better.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: June 7th, 2006

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Dear Mordechai, When I decided to get a divorce, I resolved early on to take the high road. Whenever my children are in earshot, I am careful to refer to my ex in only posi­tive terms. I stick to blame-free explanations for why my marriage ended, and keep my venting phone chats with my sister, late at night, when the kids are asleep. It hasn’t been easy, and no I’m not perfect. I’ve slipped here and there, but overall, I’ve protected my children from the fallout of my feelings. Last weekend, though, my daughter returned from her mother’s house and said, “I know why you and Mommy divorced. It’s be­cause you lied to her!” Guess what? It’s not the first time. I’ve spoken to her about it, and she only defends her behavior; I don’t think she’ll ever change. Now what? (Answer, continued from last week)

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: May 31st, 2006

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Dear Mordechai, When I decided to get a divorce, I resolved early on to take the high road. Whenever my children are in earshot, I am careful to refer to my ex in only positive terms. I’ve stuck to blame-free explanations for why my marriage ended and keep my venting phone chats with my sister to late at night when my kids are asleep. It hasn’t been easy, and no, I’m not perfect. I’ve slipped here and there, but overall, I’ve protected my children from the fallout of my feelings. Last weekend, though, my daughter returned from her mother’s house and said, “I know why you and Mommy divorced. It’s because you lied to her!” Guess what? It’s not the first time. I’ve spoken to her about it, and she only defends her behavior so I don’t think my ex will ever change. Now what?

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: May 10th, 2006

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Q: Dear Moishe : Why do some couples need marital counseling and others do not ? A: I have been asked this question many times in many e-mails. The answer has a Part A and Part B sequence, so let me begin with an introduction taken from the T.E.A.M. (Torah Education and Awareness for a […]

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: May 3rd, 2006

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Are you the kind of spouse that dominates your partner by finding everything “major”? Consider the following to help you have some insight into whether this description is true of you or your spouse:

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: April 26th, 2006

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Although in my past columns I’ve discussed the importance of inviting differences into life in or­der to grow through seeing other perspectives, there is a good reason to limit discussion of your dif­ferences when it comes to making decisions. There are very few decisions in life worth fighting for.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: April 19th, 2006

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I know that most people will look at the list below and ask, “C’mon, who does this kind of thing in their marriage?” The answer is, couples that want to be happily married and fight less.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: April 12th, 2006

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Partnership doesn’t mean equality in skill. It means equality in responsibility and ownership. Show me business partners who have to meet about every single decision and hash it out until they both agree on a course of action, and I will show you bankruptcy proceedings.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: April 5th, 2006

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Dear Mordechai, With Pesach almost here, my husband and I have been fighting more than ever. We’re having big sedarim and are fighting over everything, from which Haggadas to use to what to expect from our differently-aged children. This frustration has caused me to finally write to you what I’ve wanted to write for months. I don’t want to be told what to do because I’m the woman or mother...

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: March 1st, 2006

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Dear Mordechai, Our marriage has gotten stale. It’s not that we don’t love each other but with the kids and everything else there seems to never be any time for my husband and me. I’m sure we’re not the only ones but we need some real help. What can we do and how can we go about making time for our marriage. Everyone says just make time but that never seems to work.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: February 22nd, 2006

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Dear Mordechai, Our marriage has gotten stale. It’s not that we don’t love each other, but with the kids and everything else there seems to never be any time for my husband and me. I’m sure we’re not the only ones but we need some real help. What can we do and how can we go about making time for our marriage. Everyone says “just make time” but that never seems to work.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: February 1st, 2006

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Dear Mordechai, This is my first marriage and my wife’s second. She was left during her first marriage and things are now going pretty well with us. But I feel that, after four years, I still don’t know her that well. We spend time together, but not nearly as much as I’d like. She’s very independent and says all that mushy stuff and deep sharing is for teenagers, not mature adults...

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: January 18th, 2006

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Dear Mordechai, My wife has read your articles and books. It sounds so nice to be able to put one’s marriage first. But let’s be real. I have a job, kids, minyanim to catch and daf yomi shiurim to attend. My wife and I are stressed over money. Who isn’t? Don’t you think you’re causing unrealistic expectations for marriages when you say, “put your marriage first?” How much can I work at my marriage when everything else is going on? Shouldn’t the work in my life be what I’m supposed to be doing, namely to make my marriage financially viable? Maybe there are times in a marriage that you shouldn’t expect to be so “in love.” My marriage won’t be happy if I’m broke.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: January 6th, 2006

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As a child you had two basic needs. One was to be happy and loved, and the second was for your parents to be happy and loved. If you grew up and these emotional needs were not met, then your unconscious mind seeks a partner to help you meet those needs. The process will take place by recreating your childhood wounds in your present marriage. This way you can finish unfinished emotional business and move on with your life.

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