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‘Please Don’t Leave Me!’


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Hoping you can say the blessing, “Matir Assurim” (“Who frees the imprisoned”) speedily…

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Moishe Herskowitz MS., LCSW, developed the T.E.A.M. (Torah Education & Awareness For A better Marriage) approach based on 20 successful years of counseling couples. He is a licensed and certified social worker and family therapist, with a certificate from the Brooklyn Institute for Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis in Couples and Marriage Therapy. He is an active member of the New York Counseling Association for Marriage and Family Counseling. Mr. Herskowitz can be reached at 718-435-7388.

About the Author: Moishe Herskowitz, MS., LCSW, developed the T.E.A.M. (Torah Education & Awareness for a better Marriage). As a licensed clinical social worker and renowned family therapist, he guides new couples through easy-to-accomplish steps towards a happy, healthy marriage. He can be reached at CPCMoishe@aol.com or 718-435-7388.


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