Communicated: TefillaChillul Tefila Bifarhesia, as well as halachicly challenged verbiage and dress, are external manifestations of a critical lack of personal yiras shomayim which has lethal consequences.

Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 2/19/10
Posted on: February 17th, 2010
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Posted on: February 17th, 2010
Sections → Family → Parenting Our ChildrenDr. and Mrs. Schwartz came into the office looking very tired, stressed, despondent and unsure of themselves. They came without Aaron because he had refused to come to the appointment. He claimed that at 15 he could decide for himself if, and when, he would come to appointments about his life. They began by describing an extraordinarily angry young man.

Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 2/12/10
Posted on: February 10th, 2010
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Self Esteem, Individuality and Love for Teenagers
Posted on: February 5th, 2010
Sections → Family → Parenting Our ChildrenWe often use the expressions "good self-esteem” or "poor self-esteem” to describe people’s evaluation of their own worth. When people have good self-esteem, they tend to view life from a positive perspective, seeing their potential value. Poor or low self-esteem causes people to feel that everything they do in life is a losing battle and that they always get the short end of the stick.

Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 2/05/10
Posted on: February 3rd, 2010
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A Validating Experience (Part IV)
Posted on: February 3rd, 2010
Sections → Family → Parenting Our ChildrenWhat does it mean to be validated? In what areas of life can one expect to be validated? What attitude, behaviors or actions convey a message (or feeling) to someone that s/he is being validated? How does one validate, or invalidate? What benefits are there to validating and being validated - in the short term as well as long term?

Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 1/29/10
Posted on: January 27th, 2010
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The Arrowsmith Program: Opening Vistas of Opportunity for the Learning Disabled
Posted on: January 27th, 2010
Sections → Family → Parenting Our ChildrenIf you are a parent, chances are that you have enjoyed reading Herman Parish's series of children's books based on the outrageous character, Amelia Bedelia. All decked out in her housekeeper headgear and apron, Amelia is perpetually getting into trouble at the Rogers' home. Inevitably misconstruing her bosses' instructions, her resulting hysterical antics never fail to entertain young and old.

The Roadmap To Your Teenager’s Inner Worlds
Posted on: January 20th, 2010
Sections → Family → Parenting Our ChildrenRelating to their teenager can be easier than most parents think, especially when they learn about the key areas that can sustain the relationship: connection, control, and communication.

Posted on: January 20th, 2010
Sections → Family → Parenting Our ChildrenDear Rabbi Horowitz: Our 10-year-old son, the oldest of our six children, has a very strong-willed personality and is very energetic. He has a very hard time sitting in school all day. (He attends school from 8:30 a.m.-4:45 p.m.) At home, he is frustrated with having to sit and do his homework. He often has temper tantrums when asked to do his work. My husband says that he is lazy and self-centered. I agree, in part, but isn't this what all children are like? Don't we have to teach them how to act properly? Thanks, Rachel

Posted on: January 20th, 2010
Sections → Family → Parenting Our ChildrenMost people don't think much about their socks, but for eight-year-old Suri W., they are all-important today. The seams at her toes are terribly irritating. Suri spent an inordinate amount of time this morning getting them into a perfect position. But now, three hours later, they apparently shifted. The teacher's voice has receded into the background; a friend's request for a pencil has gone unheeded. The itch has taken over.

A Validating Experience (Part III)
Posted on: January 20th, 2010
Sections → Family → Parenting Our ChildrenIn the first two parts of this four-part series, we discussed the need to validate someone who is mourning the loss of a loved one. Utilizing a Rabbinic illustration, we presented the story of Rav Yochanan ben Zakai when he sat shivah for his son. The focus was on his receiving consolation: why he received comfort from his one student, Rav Elazer ben Aruch, and not from his other four students. Now let us move to a Biblical backdrop as we continue.
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Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 1/22/10
Posted on: January 20th, 2010
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Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 1/15/10
Posted on: January 14th, 2010
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Posted on: January 13th, 2010
Sections → Family → Parenting Our ChildrenWhy is it that one youth involved in a trauma or difficult situation seems to bounce right back with little effect on his daily functioning while another youth seems to take forever to get back to his usual self?

Posted on: January 8th, 2010
Sections → Family → Parenting Our ChildrenAttention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder Mark, sixteen years old, has trouble sitting still in class. His mind wanders; he’s anxious and is failing many of his subjects. Mark was never tested for Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder; somehow he slipped through the cracks in the system and never received the help he needed years ago. Mark now [...]

A Validating Experience (Part II)
Posted on: January 6th, 2010
Sections → Family → Parenting Our ChildrenHow does one comfort an individual mourning the loss of a loved one? What does one say so that the grieving person will feel consoled?

Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 1/08/10
Posted on: January 6th, 2010
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Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 1/01/10
Posted on: December 30th, 2009
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Investing In Your Relationship
Posted on: December 25th, 2009
Sections → Family → Parenting Our ChildrenAs many parents discover, building a good relationship with a teenager is not easy. Often teenagers are reluctant to be close to their parents, and at times they look to distance themselves as much as possible. If so, how can parents see beyond the daily power struggles of homework, keeping curfew, staying out of trouble, and succeeding in school?
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