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Parisian Kosher Restaurant Second Anti-Semitic Gun Attack This Week

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Breaking News: 11-Year-Old Girl Fighting For Her Life Following Arab Terror Attack

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Jerusalem Okays Homes for Ramot Community that Media call a ‘Settlement’

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Jet Blue Flying Cops Free to NYC Slain Officers’ Funerals

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Zoabi Sues Likud MK Danon for Video Showing Her as Pro-Terror

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Charges Dropped and File Closed in Latrun Monastery Attack

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Updated: 11 Year Old Girl Seriously Injured in Firebomb Attack [video]

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Intel: Abdullah — the Last Hashemite King of Jordan

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ISIS Facebook Fans Stuck in Israel

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US Suspects ISIS Did Not Down Jordanian F-16

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Latest Election Poll

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Sister of American IDF Lone Soldier Killed in Summer War Makes aliyah

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Birthright Winter Season Begins as Thousands of Young Jews Arrive in Israel

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New Billboards Target NY Times for Anti-Israel Reporting

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Million-Dollar ‘Chocolate Bar’: First-Grade Buddies Raise Seven Figures for Rare Disease

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Russian Financial Crisis Spells Devastating Losses for Israeli Farmers

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Update: Bayit Yehudi Finally Has the Education Ministry – and Turns it Down

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Hamas Hold Terrorist Pow-Wow over ‘Zionist Violations’ of Cease-Fire

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‘Six Million More’ graffitied on Greek Jewish Cemetery

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IDF Arrests Terrorists and Uncovers Large Stash of Weapons near Shechem

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Israel Capitulates — Returns Bodies of Nar Nof Terrorists [video]

December 25, 2014 - 11:15 AM
 
CoS Gantz Dismisses Givati Battalion Commander for Sexual Harassment

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And the Right is Back

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Uri Ariel Promises to Lower Housing Costs

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Ban on Interfaith Teen Dating Lifted by United Synagogue Youth

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Al Qaeda Urges ‘Lone Wolves’ via Magazine to Attack US Airliners

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Belgian Minister Vows to Uphold Jewish Ritual Slaughter

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Michael Oren Joins Kachlon’s Party

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Israel Warns Hamas: ‘We Will Respond to Attacks — Forcefully”

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Update: Medical Emergency 101 Lines Back Up in Jerusalem

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Firebombs Thrown near Beit Hadassah

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Border Police Stop Terror Attack

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Hatnua Party Collapses, Herzog Buys a Cat in the Bag

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Likud Party Bars Netanyahu from Running as Chairman

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Hebrew University to Close for Christmas

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Alan Gross to get $3.2M Compensation

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Update: IDF Soldier Wounded in Gun Battle with Hamas

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Yisrael Beitenu Suspected of Fraud and Bribery

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Muslim Destroys French City’s Xmas Decorations

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Two Rockets Fired from Gaza

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Paris Synagogue Attacked

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Indie Theaters Rushing to get the “The Interview”

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PM Netanyahu Competes in International Bible Quiz

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ring and heart
 

Posted on: April 2nd, 2012

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Yes, beauty plays a role in courtship. But when we allow it to rule, then we – not beauty – become our daughters’ tyrants. We are fearful our daughters will remain single for too long, and so we grasp at straws – thin, brittle, unstable straws. But “extreme makeovers” and intensifying their already ample body-image anxieties are not the answer.

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Respler-033012
 

Posted on: March 29th, 2012

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Respler: I am, Baruch Hashem, a healthy mother and grandmother who was recently trying to be helpful to my married daughter. After Shabbos my daughter, who has a large family, had many dishes piled in the sink. I planned on rinsing the dishes and placing them in the dishwasher, and then straightening up downstairs while she put her younger children to sleep. Aware of my plans my daughter, who loves me and means well, said, “Ma, please don’t work so hard. I will put the children to sleep, and then I can clean up and load the dishwasher quickly. I will do it quicker than you, and I want you to relax.” I was hurt. I know that she really wanted me to take it easy, but suddenly I felt like an old, useless woman. Do you think my daughter was right? How can I tell her how I feel without hurting her? My husband and I are planning to move in with my daughter, son-in-law and their children for Pesach. We always enjoy going there, but I do not feel good when I cannot be useful. I would like to help my daughter over Pesach, and would feel better if she allowed me to help her. Please advise me. A Healthy Grandmother

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Posted on: March 29th, 2012

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Dear Gary, As Pesach approaches, I get worried because I want to have a great Yom Tov, and yet, every year, the seder ends in some sort of fighting and arguing. My husband wants the seder to be all about divrei Torah and so do I, but between the younger children (who we want to be awake for the whole seder) and guests, we somehow end up in stern looks and squabbles. I'm happy we have guests or else we'd probably start yelling at each other and even Eliyahu Hanavi would bail. I know everyone jokes about how tough Pesach is, but I can't see the humor anymore – and neither can my children. What can we do to manage a calm (I don't even wish for happy) seder? A Sad Mom

Mandlebaum-031612
 

Posted on: March 29th, 2012

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

In our March 16 issue we featured The Tyranny of Beauty: A Plea to Mothers Of Girls In Shidduchim, in which the author described a “Meet and Greet” for young women in a certain age and mindset (looking for young men who are sitting and learning) and mothers of the young men they could potentially date. The article received a tremendous amount of comments on our website and via e-mail. Below are some of the responses.

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Rabbi Shmuley Boteach
 

Posted on: March 28th, 2012

InDepthColumnsAmerica's Rabbi / Shmuley Boteach

Is this what three thousand and three hundred years of Jewish tradition has come to, that a nation that has always dared to walk alone, with different ideals and values from the wider culture, should so fully capitulate to the most corrupt, misogynistic values, that we would advocate that our young women have plastic surgery in order to get married?

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wedding
 

Posted on: March 26th, 2012

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Don't worry, Yitta, I'm not going to crucify you, as you feared. I actually agreed with the gist of your article, which was obviously heartfelt and well-intended. I just want to point out where you crossed a line...

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Posted on: March 23rd, 2012

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Dear Dr. Respler: I recently lost my husband of 51 years, and I am very depressed. He was a true talmid chacham and a loving husband. Every morning when he was well, he went to shul early. He never missed a minyan and he learned every day. All his life he ran a business and, baruch Hashem, he worked hard and took excellent care of our children and me. I look at my grandsons and my grandsons-in-law and they don’t hold a candle to my husband. Even the children who learn in kollel are not as careful as my husband was about being on time for minyan. Everyone seems too busy for me, and I feel very lonely.

Schild-Edwin
 

Posted on: March 23rd, 2012

SectionsFamilyParenting Our Children

In the first part of this article (Family Issues 3-2-2012) I shared the many memories resulting from my year of avaylus (mourning) for my mother. This week I would like to connect those memories to a better understanding of how good could potentially come from bad happenings in an effort to improve relationships.

Mandlebaum-031612
 

Posted on: March 19th, 2012

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I know I’m going to be crucified, but if the appeal I make below helps even one girl in shidduchim, then it will be worth all the fury and outrage that shall inevitably descend upon my soon-to-be beleaguered head.

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Posted on: March 16th, 2012

SectionsFamilyParenting Our Children

It was Yehudah’s third birthday party. Instead of calmly interacting with his guests, he either ignored them or bossed them around with his limited vocabulary of ten words. He ran around nonstop and elbowed every person in his path. Then, his mother, Shoshana, decided he needed some time to himself so she asked him to play quietly in the den for a few minutes.

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Posted on: March 15th, 2012

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Yael: I read the March 2 letter from A Lonely Wife who feels unappreciated and neglected as she seeks more attention from her husband. It is necessary for her to receive a reality check – in other words, mussar. While apparently having it all, she is unfulfilled. Well, how would she feel if […]

Magill-031612
 

Posted on: March 15th, 2012

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

What's more important - love or money? Let's hear what a 90-year-old woman sitting in front of two elevators in a nursing home had to say. I asked her, "If both elevator doors opened at the same time, and out of one came the richest man in the world, and out of the other came the nicest man in the world, who would you want to marry?" She thought about it for a good while and then answered, "Both of them."

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Posted on: March 9th, 2012

SectionsFamilyParenting Our Children

Dear Dr. Respler: I enjoyed your recent column concerning the jealousy a girl had toward her newborn brother.

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Posted on: March 9th, 2012

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

For most physicians specializing in the treatment of infertility, the subject of sexuality - and especially the "how to’s" of sex - are rarely a subject of concern.

Schild-Edwin
 

Posted on: March 1st, 2012

SectionsFamilyParenting Our Children

In her ninety-eighth year my mother beat pneumonia twice. She always said that she would know when her time was up – and she did. People would ask her what she attributed her many years to. Though she was not raised in a religious home, she would always say that Hashem knew what He was doing. We learn in the Torah when one honors parents the reward is a long life. She was certainly proof of this.

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