Family

The maximizers who spend so much time on the decision are often less happy with the results.

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You no longer want to be bogged down by the minutiae that we sometimes focus on in shidduchim, yet your mother doesn’t seem to agree.

You’re tired, and I get it. Tired of being the single sibling, tired of helping the most, and tired of everyone treating you like you can’t possibly be OK on your own.

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In any relationship, the words that people say are extremely significant, but it is the unspoken language of friendship that truly allows relationships to flourish and grow.

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If someone interesting is suggested and he sounds promising to you, go out on a date. Date with honesty and integrity, and expect the same from the men you are set up with.

What happens if the stressor is not a lion? What happens if the stressor is a really rude boss?

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Unless your crystal ball works better than mine, no one can predict the future of any couple or knows what life may bring.

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If the thoughts that are keeping you awake are tasks you need to complete, write them down. This way, you know you won’t forget.

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Eating at a restaurant can be expensive, but by paying the bill you are showing the girl that while you know that she may be able to afford her own meal, you don’t want her to.

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The best way to not fall back into bad habits is to avoid those triggers to begin with.

If you happen to be traveling to another city and someone wants to set you up while you are there, go out on a date.

It’s very possible that you are disorganized because you simply have never tried to be organized.

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It is disturbing that so many boys and girls continue to be careless with their casual chatter about the people they have dated.

If NVLD is misunderstood, these children can develop more serious emotional problems such as depression, anxiety, and phobias.

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With more urgency, people started coming over to take a peek inside the box. The more we “oohed and aahed,” the more people rushed to look.

Ask someone you trust to play the part of the interviewer. Then, spend time rehearsing questions and answers with that person.

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