Communicated: TefillaChillul Tefila Bifarhesia, as well as halachicly challenged verbiage and dress, are external manifestations of a critical lack of personal yiras shomayim which has lethal consequences.

Marital Roles (Second Of Five Parts)
Posted on: April 12th, 2006
Sections → Family → Marriage and RelationshipsPartnership doesn’t mean equality in skill. It means equality in responsibility and ownership. Show me business partners who have to meet about every single decision and hash it out until they both agree on a course of action, and I will show you bankruptcy proceedings.

Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 4/07/06
Posted on: April 5th, 2006
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Marital Roles (First Of Five Parts)
Posted on: April 5th, 2006
Sections → Family → Marriage and RelationshipsDear Mordechai, With Pesach almost here, my husband and I have been fighting more than ever. We’re having big sedarim and are fighting over everything, from which Haggadas to use to what to expect from our differently-aged children. This frustration has caused me to finally write to you what I’ve wanted to write for months. I don’t want to be told what to do because I’m the woman or mother...

Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 3/31/06
Posted on: March 29th, 2006
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Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 3/24/06
Posted on: March 22nd, 2006
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Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 3/17/06
Posted on: March 15th, 2006
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Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 3/10/06
Posted on: March 8th, 2006
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Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 3/03/06
Posted on: March 1st, 2006
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Marital Connection Plan (Second Of Two Parts)
Posted on: March 1st, 2006
Sections → Family → Marriage and RelationshipsDear Mordechai, Our marriage has gotten stale. It’s not that we don’t love each other but with the kids and everything else there seems to never be any time for my husband and me. I’m sure we’re not the only ones but we need some real help. What can we do and how can we go about making time for our marriage. Everyone says just make time but that never seems to work.

Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 2/24/06
Posted on: February 22nd, 2006
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Marital Connection Plan (First of Two Parts)
Posted on: February 22nd, 2006
Sections → Family → Marriage and RelationshipsDear Mordechai, Our marriage has gotten stale. It’s not that we don’t love each other, but with the kids and everything else there seems to never be any time for my husband and me. I’m sure we’re not the only ones but we need some real help. What can we do and how can we go about making time for our marriage. Everyone says “just make time” but that never seems to work.

Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 2/17/06
Posted on: February 15th, 2006
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Responses To Chronicle Of 12-30 (One-Sided Love) – 2/10/06
Posted on: February 8th, 2006
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Posted on: February 1st, 2006
Sections → Family → Marriage and RelationshipsDear Mordechai, This is my first marriage and my wife’s second. She was left during her first marriage and things are now going pretty well with us. But I feel that, after four years, I still don’t know her that well. We spend time together, but not nearly as much as I’d like. She’s very independent and says all that mushy stuff and deep sharing is for teenagers, not mature adults...

Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 1/27/06
Posted on: January 25th, 2006
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Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 1/20/06
Posted on: January 18th, 2006
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Posted on: January 18th, 2006
Sections → Family → Marriage and RelationshipsDear Mordechai, My wife has read your articles and books. It sounds so nice to be able to put one’s marriage first. But let’s be real. I have a job, kids, minyanim to catch and daf yomi shiurim to attend. My wife and I are stressed over money. Who isn’t? Don’t you think you’re causing unrealistic expectations for marriages when you say, “put your marriage first?” How much can I work at my marriage when everything else is going on? Shouldn’t the work in my life be what I’m supposed to be doing, namely to make my marriage financially viable? Maybe there are times in a marriage that you shouldn’t expect to be so “in love.” My marriage won’t be happy if I’m broke.

Posted on: January 6th, 2006
Sections → Family → Marriage and RelationshipsAs a child you had two basic needs. One was to be happy and loved, and the second was for your parents to be happy and loved. If you grew up and these emotional needs were not met, then your unconscious mind seeks a partner to help you meet those needs. The process will take place by recreating your childhood wounds in your present marriage. This way you can finish unfinished emotional business and move on with your life.

Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 1/06/06
Posted on: January 4th, 2006
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Chronicles Of Crises In Our Communities – 12/30/05
Posted on: December 28th, 2005
Sections → Family → Chronicles of Crises.
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