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Arabs Try to Firebomb Car and Bus in Gush Etzion

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Yet Another Democrat Defects on the Iran Deal

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Jewish Woman Severely Burned, 2 More Injured in Yet Another Arab Firebombing Attack

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Getting a Grip on Guilt: It’s Not Always About the Jews

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New Poll: Americans Oppose Iran Deal 2 – 1

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Report: Schumer Will Join Republicans and Kill Iran Deal

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Kerry ‘Knows’ ObamaDeal Will Make the Middle East a Safer Place

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How Hot Is It? Naftali Bennett Just Demanded Settlement Freeze

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Two Mortar Shells Explode on Golan Heights

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Jerusalem Arabs Arrested for Brutally Beating Religious Jewish Couple

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Al Asqa Mosque Preacher: Jews Train Doctors to Spread Diseases

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Violent Bulgarian Soccer Fans Chase Israeli Team off the Field [video]

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Yitzhak Rabin’s Granddaughter Enters ‘Family Business’

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IDF Shoots to Scare Gaza Arabs Away from Security Fence

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Iran Openly Refuses UN IAEA Inspectors Access to Military Sites

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Rouhani: Iran Has Right to Enrich Uranium Under Nuclear Deal

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El-Sisi Signs New Election Law for Egypt

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Security Cabinet Classifies Duma Arson as Terror Attack

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Jewish Group Demands Obama Stop Demonizing Jews

August 3, 2015 - 6:45 AM
 
Jews, Arabs Unite to Underline Co-existence in Gush Etzion

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Israel Energy Use Breaks Record High in Heat Wave

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Body of Missing Israeli Found in Georgia

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PM Offers Condolences to Family of 16-yr-old Gay Pride Parade Victim

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Officials Reconsider Sprouting Wildfires After Terror Victim Memorial Torched

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Israeli Defense Company Elbit Gears Up for Cyber Arms Race

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Israeli Citizen Killed in Thailand

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Netanyahu: Zero Tolerance for Terror ‘Distinguishes Us From Our Neighbors’

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Chechen Women Con Online ISIS Recruiters

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Iran Banks on End to Sanctions, Will Raise Oil Production to 1M bpd

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Gva’ot Woman Hurt in Samaria Rock Attack

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Holy Land Extremely Hot, but Iran Has It Much Worse

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Jerusalem Suburb Evacuated as Wildfire Burns Homes

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Visitors Allowed at Temple Mount Despite Arab Violence

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Inspired by Israeli Tech and Expertise, the 1st Community-based Emergency Response Program Launched in Jersey City

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Khamenei Tells the World How to Destroy Israel

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E-Mails Show Clinton without a Clue on How to Relate to Israel

August 2, 2015 - 12:59 PM
 
Bennett Condemns ‘Attempts to Blacken 430,000 Settlers’

August 2, 2015 - 12:35 PM
 
Gush Etzion Arabs and Jews to Rally against Violence

August 2, 2015 - 12:17 PM
 
Wildcat Strikes Shuts Down Jerusalem Light Rail

August 2, 2015 - 9:52 AM
 
Rally against Violence Bars Religious MKs and Boos Right-Winger

August 2, 2015 - 9:37 AM
 
Former Democratic NY Congressman Ackerman Opposes ObamaDeal

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Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: September 16th, 2005

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

Marriage, by contrast, is an institution of close, complementary cooperation. Its success or failure depends upon the the couples, ability to work together as a TEAM. However, in order to accomplish this, we first have to understand that in marriage we carry our own emotional baggage along with us — some good and some, not so good. The not-so-good seems to stand out a lot more.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: August 12th, 2005

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Marriage is not like every other human relationship. It brings two incompatible people together for the purpose of healing and growth. The degree of healing and growth will depend on many factors. One such factor is the ability to give love. Love is the foundation of married life. Even though many people talk about it, there is a great deal of doubt as to whether they really know how to give love.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: March 23rd, 2005

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As we come to the end of our series of articles titled "who am I", I would like to devote this last set of preferences, Judging Vs Perceiving, to singles. If you recall, about a year ago I wrote an article titled Commitment Phobic (www.cpcteam.org). It was based on the fact that people are not the same. We have different energy levels, make decisions based on different criteria, depending on what makes us most comfortable. The focus was on Perceiving types a personality that likes to keeps their options open as long as possible.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: February 23rd, 2005

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The Jewish community has never been as challenged as it is today. I believe that many of our problems could have been avoided if we took a more proactive approach. I recently met with a doctor who had just married off his first daughter. He wanted to know what exactly pre-Marital enrichment is. I responded by explaining the concept of self awareness, that it's not possible to know someone else if you don't know who you are!

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: January 26th, 2005

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

The Jewish community has never been as challenged as it is today. I believe that many of our problems could have been avoided if we took a more proactive approach. I recently met with a doctor who had just married off his first daughter. He wanted to know what exactly pre-Marital enrichment is. I responded by explaining the concept of self awareness, that it's not possible to know someone else if you don't know who you are!

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: December 29th, 2004

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

Almost every profession has what we call the tools of the trade, and with marriage it isn't any different. If you're single, engaged or a newlywed, you need to have the tools it takes to build a successful marriage. Yet for many of us even when the chosen and kallah classes are over, they still find it difficult to use the tools that they have just learned.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: September 29th, 2004

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The Dubna Magid in Safer Hamidos, states that "love is one of the most important midos in a person". Hashem has given us a most powerful energy source with the potential to grow and heal unresolved issues of the past. But in order to activate this energy source we must first try to understand the levels of complexity love has to offer.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: August 13th, 2004

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The Torah tells us that we are put onto this world to give, not just to take, as difficult as this may seem for some people. Married life provides a unique opportunity to give to another person. When husband and wife are willing to give whatever it takes to make each other happy, they will move onto the next stage called “love.” This is where the Shechina (Divine Presence) rests.

Respler-Yael
 

Posted on: July 14th, 2004

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Dear Dr. Respler, After reading the letter written for the April 23rd issue, I would like to share my experience and some of the lessons that I've learned related to the topic of friends, both single and newly married.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: February 18th, 2004

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Dear Moishe, I enjoy your articles in the Jewish Press very much. I am very much for trying to prevent problems through education as well. I am a social worker in a frum agency for individuals with developmental disabilities. As tremendous strides have been made over the past decade for this population challenges arise along with the opportunities. For example - some individuals get married and may have an IQ of a 6 or 7 year old child.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: October 1st, 2003

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In my last article, I discussed the topic of "teens at risk." We have always had "teens at risk" within our yeshiva system, but they were segregated and referred to as the "bum class." This class was separated from the mainstream students, and given its own separate rebbe to provide support services. The success of this system was due to the fact that yeshivas followed the Torah con­cept that "majority rules".

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: September 24th, 2003

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When Rov Pam, a”h, gave me the go ahead to do Pre-Marital counseling, I knew in time I would add more topics to my curriculum. But I never dreamed that I would be talking about teenagers at risk to a couple that just go engaged! But the fact remains that I do. Couples are getting […]

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: July 16th, 2003

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

When searching for a partner in marriage we are often attracted to people who are different than we are. Sometimes the very same qualities we find charming and exciting are the ones we find ourselves trying to change after marriage. Rather than understand, accept and appreciate our partners for who they are, we turn the differences into the source of our frustration, irritation and dissatisfaction.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: June 18th, 2003

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Choosing a life partner is possibly the most compli­cated process of a lifetime. In this article, we will try to define, understand and explain how we choose a part­ner. To do so, we need to have some understanding and awareness of the dynamics that bring a man and a woman towards marriage. It starts with the word attraction.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: May 14th, 2003

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There is something about an approaching wedding that can cause a state of emotional upheaval. This should be of no surprise. In most cases, marriage reflects two sets of personalities; the chassan's and the kallah's. The parents too are involved. They produce a relationship that is more than the sum total of themselves. This relationship includes their family, and yet a separation is about to take place for both parent and child.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: April 17th, 2002

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An alarmingly high percentage of youth grow up with no preparation for marriage, as evidenced by the break-up rate of marriages in the Jewish community. They may have been told, but not taught how communication and problem-solving skills create harmony for more shalom bayis (a peaceful home) in a marriage.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: February 27th, 2002

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Before marriage, the engaged couple has a tendency to emphasize similarities rather than their differences. It's normal for the couple to idolize each other, and since both are on their best behavior, they fail to learn much about their differences in personality. After Sheva Brachos they are launched upon life as a married couple and true personality traits and value systems become more apparent. Gradually, the two may recognize that they are not in such close agreement on everything as they may have thought they were during the engagement period.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: January 23rd, 2002

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Most married couples face the problem of maintaining both independence in their marriage and a relationship with their parents. Can the partners achieve a degree of detachment and at the same time reassure their parents that they will remain loyal, respectful and affectionate? Can you as partners shift loyalty from your parents to your spouse and leave your childhood with its remembered mixture of pleasure and pains?

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