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Is the US Meddling in Israeli Elections?
 
V15 US Political Operative Marinated in Hate-Israel Activism

January 30, 2015 - 3:56 PM
 
Hamas ‘War Crimes Camp’ Graduates Trains 17,000 Teens for Terror

January 30, 2015 - 12:05 PM
 
Obama Wins War on Terror By Saying It Doesn’t Exist [video]

January 30, 2015 - 11:22 AM
 
State Dept. Says Taxpayers’ Money not Used in V-15 Campaign

January 30, 2015 - 10:02 AM
 
Israel’s Wix Web Platform Company Unveils Super Bowl Ad [video]

January 30, 2015 - 9:25 AM
 
Sen. Cruz Asks if Obama Behind V-15 ‘Political Campaign against Netanyahu’

January 30, 2015 - 8:14 AM
 
Shin Bet Sting Nabs Israeli Arabs Joining Al Qaeda, ISIS

January 30, 2015 - 5:05 AM
 
Election Registration is Over

January 30, 2015 - 12:55 AM
 
ISIS Attacks Egypt, 27 Dead, Dozens Wounded

January 29, 2015 - 11:17 PM
 
New Poll Shows All Parties Going Full Blast in Neutral

January 29, 2015 - 10:31 PM
 
ISIS: We Will Behead Obama, Make US Part of the Caliphate [video]

January 29, 2015 - 9:16 PM
 
Italian Jewish Leader Arrested For Trying To Escape From Auschwitz

January 29, 2015 - 8:25 PM
 
Hezbollah Army Video Shows Off US Army Equipment [video]

January 29, 2015 - 7:10 PM
 
Lieberman so Frantic for Votes He Calls for ‘Disproportionate Response’

January 29, 2015 - 6:26 PM
 
US Treasury Secy Jack Lew Says French Jews Don’t Want to Leave

January 29, 2015 - 5:31 PM
 
Osem Sues Heinz for Allegedly Selling Watered-Down Ketchup

January 29, 2015 - 4:47 PM
 
Maker of ‘White House Drone’ Adds Upgrade to Protect White House [video]

January 29, 2015 - 3:43 PM
 
Netanyahu: ‘Arik Sharon Knew The Real Threat is Iran’

January 29, 2015 - 3:43 PM
 
Israel Won’t Go to War against Hezbollah because It Can’t Win [video]

January 29, 2015 - 12:00 PM
 
US ‘Condemns’ Hezbollah Attack on IDF

January 29, 2015 - 10:46 AM
 
Canada Backs Israel’s Battle Against Hezbollah Terror

January 29, 2015 - 10:04 AM
 
Update on Wounded Soldiers’ Conditions

January 29, 2015 - 9:04 AM
 
Muqata Blog: Golan Heights Battle with Hezbollah (9:31pm)

January 28, 2015 - 9:30 PM
 
Netanyahu Warns Iran Hoping For Terrorist Front in Golan Heights

January 28, 2015 - 8:43 PM
 
Gazans Attack UN Building with Hamas Advance Notice

January 28, 2015 - 8:43 PM
 
Rivlin Cuts Short US Trip

January 28, 2015 - 8:34 PM
 
Two IDF Soldiers Killed in Hezbollah Terror Attack on Israeli Civilian Road

January 28, 2015 - 8:26 PM
 
Northern Golan Heights Declared Closed Military Zone

January 28, 2015 - 8:15 PM
 
IDF Names Soldiers Killed in Hezbollah Attack

January 28, 2015 - 7:47 PM
 
Lebanese Celebrate IDF Deaths With Candy

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2 IDF Soldiers Killed, 7 Wounded in Hezbollah Attack

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Parenting Our Children
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Posted on: March 24th, 2010

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In most homes, as women prepare to join the Seder (hopefully, somewhat rested), the anticipatory anxiety associated with the "P" word (pre-Pesach angst) is no longer. The cleaning, preparations, shopping and cooking are now a thing of the past. And finally, the Hagaddah's legacy of yetzias Mitzrayim (exodus from Egypt) takes front stage.

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Posted on: March 19th, 2010

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Referring back to our earlier case of Debbie’s body piercing, let’s see how using knowledge of Debbie’s inner world and the power of spending quality time together can help her parents connect to her.

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Posted on: March 17th, 2010

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In continuing our discussion on anger management, I would like to share some basic beliefs that one must understand in their journey to anger management (which I also referred to as personal control). As we have previously discussed, anger control is directly related to self-esteem and confidence. That is, the better the self-esteem, the more capable the person will be in controlling emotions. Also, related to this is the concept we refer to as "shame."

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Posted on: March 5th, 2010

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The fifth pillar of the inner world is what the eminent psychiatrist and Holocaust survivor Victor Frankl called the “Will to Meaning.” This desire for meaning implies wanting to know the whys of life and not just the hows.

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Posted on: March 3rd, 2010

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In Part I of this four-part series, I introduced you to Aaron and his extreme anger. I ended that article with, "I must say that as I was describing this theory, Aaron's mouth dropped open, his eyes grew wide and tears formed in his eyes as he moved closer in his chair. The only thing he could say was, "How did you know?" With that comment, Aaron and I started a remarkable relationship. With all the counselors he had been to over the years, Aaron said that no one really understood him. Here was the angry young man who didn't want to be there, fully engaged and ready to work, ready to share his pain, ready to begin a trusting relationship."

 

Posted on: March 3rd, 2010

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I want to make it clear that this article in no way is meant to blame any of the people involved in what appears, by all accounts, to have been a tragic accident when a Brooklyn school bus killed a 4-year-old boy in Boro Park on February 17. But as a father who knows the pain of burying his own children only too well, I believe that it is important to ask if there is any room for improvement in our school bus safety procedures.

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Posted on: February 19th, 2010

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As children move from infancy into middle and later childhood, they have a growing need for control over their environment. To meet this need, teenagers must be given reasonable power to make choices about what they eat, whom they play with, and what extracurricular activities they participate in.

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Posted on: February 17th, 2010

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Dr. and Mrs. Schwartz came into the office looking very tired, stressed, despondent and unsure of themselves. They came without Aaron because he had refused to come to the appointment. He claimed that at 15 he could decide for himself if, and when, he would come to appointments about his life. They began by describing an extraordinarily angry young man.

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Posted on: February 5th, 2010

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We often use the expressions "good self-esteem” or "poor self-esteem” to describe people’s evaluation of their own worth. When people have good self-esteem, they tend to view life from a positive perspective, seeing their potential value. Poor or low self-esteem causes people to feel that everything they do in life is a losing battle and that they always get the short end of the stick.

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Posted on: February 3rd, 2010

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What does it mean to be validated? In what areas of life can one expect to be validated? What attitude, behaviors or actions convey a message (or feeling) to someone that s/he is being validated? How does one validate, or invalidate? What benefits are there to validating and being validated - in the short term as well as long term?

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Posted on: January 27th, 2010

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If you are a parent, chances are that you have enjoyed reading Herman Parish's series of children's books based on the outrageous character, Amelia Bedelia. All decked out in her housekeeper headgear and apron, Amelia is perpetually getting into trouble at the Rogers' home. Inevitably misconstruing her bosses' instructions, her resulting hysterical antics never fail to entertain young and old.

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Posted on: January 20th, 2010

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Relating to their teenager can be easier than most parents think, especially when they learn about the key areas that can sustain the relationship: connection, control, and communication.

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Posted on: January 20th, 2010

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Dear Rabbi Horowitz: Our 10-year-old son, the oldest of our six children, has a very strong-willed personality and is very energetic. He has a very hard time sitting in school all day. (He attends school from 8:30 a.m.-4:45 p.m.) At home, he is frustrated with having to sit and do his homework. He often has temper tantrums when asked to do his work. My husband says that he is lazy and self-centered. I agree, in part, but isn't this what all children are like? Don't we have to teach them how to act properly? Thanks, Rachel

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Posted on: January 20th, 2010

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Most people don't think much about their socks, but for eight-year-old Suri W., they are all-important today. The seams at her toes are terribly irritating. Suri spent an inordinate amount of time this morning getting them into a perfect position. But now, three hours later, they apparently shifted. The teacher's voice has receded into the background; a friend's request for a pencil has gone unheeded. The itch has taken over.

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Posted on: January 20th, 2010

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In the first two parts of this four-part series, we discussed the need to validate someone who is mourning the loss of a loved one. Utilizing a Rabbinic illustration, we presented the story of Rav Yochanan ben Zakai when he sat shivah for his son. The focus was on his receiving consolation: why he received comfort from his one student, Rav Elazer ben Aruch, and not from his other four students. Now let us move to a Biblical backdrop as we continue.

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Posted on: January 13th, 2010

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Why is it that one youth involved in a trauma or difficult situation seems to bounce right back with little effect on his daily functioning while another youth seems to take forever to get back to his usual self?

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: January 8th, 2010

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Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder Mark, sixteen years old, has trouble sitting still in class. His mind wanders; he’s anxious and is failing many of his subjects. Mark was never tested for Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder; somehow he slipped through the cracks in the system and never received the help he needed years ago. Mark now […]

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Posted on: January 6th, 2010

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How does one comfort an individual mourning the loss of a loved one? What does one say so that the grieving person will feel consoled?

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Posted on: December 25th, 2009

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As many parents discover, building a good relationship with a teenager is not easy. Often teenagers are reluctant to be close to their parents, and at times they look to distance themselves as much as possible. If so, how can parents see beyond the daily power struggles of homework, keeping curfew, staying out of trouble, and succeeding in school?

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Posted on: December 23rd, 2009

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Her tone of voice was no different than usual: demure; calm; in-control. And then she shared with me a couple of ill-conceived statement expressed to her by some "loving" individuals: "Don't think of her suffering as something bad." If she suffers now then at least she won't suffer in The Next World." And the next one, well, that just went over the top (mind you, this communication took place a couple of months after the High Holidays): "It looks like you didn't daven too well this past Yom Kippur."

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