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Israel’s Heroes – Caleb, Moskowitz, and Weinkrantz
 
28 Dead, 60 Wounded in Suicide Bombing at Istanbul’s Ataturk Airport

June 28, 2016 - 10:35 PM
 
IDF Acquires New Long-Range Rocket From IMI

June 28, 2016 - 9:40 PM
 
Driver Reports Being Shot at By a Motorcyclist on 443

June 28, 2016 - 7:53 PM
 
2 Youths Arrested on Temple Mount

June 28, 2016 - 7:25 PM
 
Netanyahu to Ban: Help Bring Israelis Back from Gaza, Rectify UN Bias

June 28, 2016 - 6:10 PM
 
Report: Germany Returned Nazi-Looted Art to the Nazis who Looted It

June 28, 2016 - 5:17 PM
 
Rock Throwing Near Efrat

June 28, 2016 - 4:11 PM
 
Erdogan Apologizes for Downing Russian Plane in Condolence Letter

June 28, 2016 - 2:59 PM
 
Liberman, Bennett, Shaked to Vote Against Turkish Deal

June 28, 2016 - 1:51 PM
 
Bennett Plans to Bolster Jewish Identity, Connection to Israel, via New Education Program

June 28, 2016 - 1:24 PM
 
Weizmann Scientists Engineer Bacteria Making Sugar from Greenhouse Gas

June 28, 2016 - 12:51 PM
 
Police Arrest 16 Violent Islamists on Temple Mount

June 28, 2016 - 11:20 AM
 
IDF Chief Cancels Hannibal Directive to Prevent Capture at All Cost

June 28, 2016 - 11:15 AM
 
One Injured when Arabs Stone Worshipers at Kotel, Netanyahu Capitulates on Temple Mount [video]

June 28, 2016 - 8:58 AM
 
PM Netanyahu Explains His Turkey Deal While Visiting in Rome

June 27, 2016 - 9:43 PM
 
Justice Committee Approves NGO Foreign Funding Transparency Bill for Final Vote

June 27, 2016 - 6:11 PM
 
Jerusalem Mayor to Fire Ancient Ramadan Cannon Ending Islamic Fast

June 27, 2016 - 6:07 PM
 
MK Amsalem Touring Prisons: ‘Zoo Monkeys Have More Living Space than Inmates’

June 27, 2016 - 1:26 PM
 
Gateway to Temple of the ‘God’ Pan May Have Been Excavated at Golan National Park

June 27, 2016 - 12:48 PM
 
More Riots and Stone Throwing on the Temple Mount

June 27, 2016 - 12:30 PM
 
Sundays Off, Sort Of

June 27, 2016 - 9:39 AM
 
MK Zoabi: Reparations to Turks an Israeli Admission of Murder

June 27, 2016 - 9:07 AM
 
4 Suicide Bombers in Lebanon Kill 8, a Dozen Wounded [video]

June 27, 2016 - 7:22 AM
 
El AL Flight to Paris Nearly Departs Without Air Marshals

June 27, 2016 - 7:05 AM
 
Water Crisis in Samaria Hits Jewish and Arab Residents Alike

June 27, 2016 - 6:46 AM
 
Helen Mirren Meets Arab and Jewish Students Seeking Peace through the Performing Arts

June 27, 2016 - 6:29 AM
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Parenting Our Children
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Posted on: November 4th, 2012

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He recognized me before I recognized him. We were in Yerushalayim on different sides of the street. He was six foot two waving and yelling my name. “Noach, Noach, Noach Schwartz, the social worker! It’s me Yechiel Klein! Don’t you remember me?” He was wearing a hat, white shirt and suit and looked like a regular bochur from the Mir or Brisk. He did not look like the Yechiel I had met ten years earlier at a clinic in Boro Park.

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Posted on: October 25th, 2012

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Dear Dr. Yael: I am married and have a two and a half year old son. He is a wonderful child, but when he does not get his way, he often has a tantrum. Sometimes, I just give him what he wants because we are in public and his behavior is embarrassing. But I cannot always give in, especially when what he wants is dangerous or unhealthy. It is then that I do not know what to do.

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Posted on: October 25th, 2012

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I have often been talking about parenting the “explosive child” or a child who struggles with Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD). In that context, I often mention Dr. Ross Greene’s groundbreaking work on using “Plan B.” However, recently, another approach has been gaining popularity. It is from Daniel J. Siegel, MD and is often used to promote “the whole-brain child.”

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Posted on: October 5th, 2012

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I watched them tear a building down; A gang of men in a busy town. With a mighty heave and a lusty yell, They swung a boom and a side wall fell. I said to the foreman, “Are these men skilled As the men you’d hire if you had to build?” He gave me a […]

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Posted on: September 27th, 2012

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Parents often bring children into my office when they are already failing several subjects in school. These students are dejected, frustrated, and often depressed. They believe that because of their past performance, they will never succeed in school. It is not strange that constant effort and subsequent failure have taught them to believe that failure is the only option.

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Posted on: August 30th, 2012

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Sixteen years ago, when I married my husband, I did not give much thought to whether he was Askenazi or Sefardi. Having grown up in what was then a small close-knit Jewish community, it held little importance; my concerns were focused around whether or not my bashert (intended) was Jewish according to halacha, someone who was upstanding in both ideals and actions, and a man solidly committed to a Torah lifestyle.

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Posted on: August 23rd, 2012

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I have often talked about parenting the “explosive child” or a child who struggles with Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD). In that context, I often mention Dr. Ross Greene’s groundbreaking work on using “Plan B.” Both in my office and in my columns, I have great responses to my work with explosive children using Dr. Greene’s techniques. However, recently, another approach has been gaining popularity, both in my office and in parenting circles. This approach is from Daniel J. Siegel, MD and is often used to promote “the whole-brain child.”

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Posted on: August 3rd, 2012

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“But, I want it NOW!” Yankel screamed as his mother lifted his baby sister, Leah, out of her car seat. “Yankel, we can’t get ice cream now. I told you we could have it for dessert. We have to get inside to feed the baby.” “No! I will not go inside! I’m going to sit in the car until you give me ice cream.”

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Posted on: August 3rd, 2012

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A couple of years ago The Jewish Press published a letter I wrote about how people treat “kids/teens off the derech.” I wrote about my daughter who had totally left religion and how I felt people could make a difference in these children’s lives; they either inspire them or turn them off. The response to my letter was overwhelming. People contacted me wanting to help and others wrote about their children in similar situations.

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Posted on: July 27th, 2012

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In Part I, we discussed how misunderstandings trigger anger and how different people can see the same trigger differently. I wondered if we could identity a common denominator in most disagreements and if so, was it possible we could eliminate teen aggression, couple aggression and arguments between friends, family and peers? Is there a way to bring about fewer altercations, better family unity and understanding between people with less arguments and fighting?

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Posted on: July 27th, 2012

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I feel truly blessed these days. The experience of becoming a grandmother for the second time to a beautiful, and thank G-d, healthy baby girl is quite honestly indescribable.

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Posted on: July 13th, 2012

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Just a few days ago, I bumped into a former student in the supermarket. When she saw me, she stepped away from her shopping cart full of fruits and vegetables and warmly hugged me. “Mrs. Schonfeld, I wanted to tell you something that you said to me a few years ago that has stayed with me until today.” We had worked together on social skills to help her feel more comfortable when meeting new people. I tried to jog my memory and remember something specific I had said to bolster her confidence, but nothing particularly stood out. Instead, I smiled and said, “Yes, Sarah, what was it that I said?”

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Posted on: June 28th, 2012

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Dear Dr. Yael: I have five children, and am struggling with my oldest son. He can be so good at times, but then he will talk to me with such chutzpah. I want to have a good relationship with him, but I worry when he speaks to me this way – and therefore, I end […]

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Posted on: June 21st, 2012

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How do we teach our children to keep themselves safe from the adult predators in our midst? Are our schools teaching them what they need to know? Are parents teaching our youth what they need to know? Does your child feel safe enough to approach you if their personal space is being invaded? How do you know?

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Posted on: June 15th, 2012

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Parents often bring children into my office when they are already failing several subjects in school. These students are dejected, frustrated and often depressed. They believe that because of their past performance, they will never succeed in school. It is not strange that constant effort and subsequent failure have taught these students to believe that failure is their only option.

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Posted on: June 7th, 2012

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Menchlichkeit, good middos, patience and wisdom are the accolades I heard over and over again by stepchildren and stepparents when I asked them to describe the attributes of a good stepparent.

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Posted on: June 4th, 2012

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Dear Dr. Yael: I now see why so many children are insecure. I have been a day-care provider for many years. When parents initially consider day care they want a small group so their children will not be neglected. But problems arise when their children turn two, and nursery or playgroup becomes an option. All of a sudden a group of 20-25 children is not a problem because it is much cheaper. I refer to two-two and a half year olds, whose parents feel that they need to exclusively be with children their own age.

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Posted on: May 17th, 2012

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The alarm clock rings and Chaim pulls his pillow over his head to stifle the screeching noise. Mornings are Chaim’s least favorite part of the day; they always end in someone yelling. In truth, mornings are difficult for most of us, but particularly so for those who struggle with basic skills that are labeled “executive function” skills.

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Posted on: May 4th, 2012

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In all my years of teaching kriyah and English reading, I have encountered more boys than girls who struggle with the skill. We are even subconsciously programmed to think of reading as a female endeavor. Picture a reader in a comfy chair, thinking, “Wow, what a great book! I can’t wait to share this with my friends.” Was the reader you imagined male or female? Chances are, you envisioned a female reader. The idea that the majority of readers are female is consistent with reading scores around the nation.

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Posted on: April 26th, 2012

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Dear Dr. Yael: I am having a very difficult time putting my children to sleep at night. My four-year-old son constantly barges out of his room after he has been put to bed. This usually goes on for about an hour - no matter how many times I put him back in bed or threaten to punish him. I also have an eight- year-old who is afraid of bedtime because she can't sleep.

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