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Arab Infant Killed in Arson ‘Price Tag’ Attack

July 31, 2015 - 7:32 AM
 
Second Democrat in Congress Announces Rejection of Iran Deal

July 31, 2015 - 6:14 AM
 
Abbas Reshuffles Unity Govt with Hamas, Claims ISIS Is Already in Gaza, ‘No Sense Denying It’

July 31, 2015 - 12:16 AM
 
Munich City Council Upholds Ban on Tiny Holocaust Memorial Bricks

July 30, 2015 - 11:59 PM
 
6 Stabbed in Jerusalem ‘Gay Pride’ Parade by Haredi Repeat Gay Stabber

July 30, 2015 - 8:40 PM
 
NGO Monitor Poses 10 Questions over Amnesty Report on Israeli ‘War Crimes’

July 30, 2015 - 7:56 PM
 
Tel Aviv Ranked #1 Startup Ecosystem Outside the US

July 30, 2015 - 7:45 PM
 
Netanyahu: ’24-Day Window for Inspections Really is 3 Months’

July 30, 2015 - 7:09 PM
 
Queens Democratic Congresswoman Breaks Ranks and Opposes ObamaDeal

July 30, 2015 - 6:47 PM
 
Orthodox Rabbis to Lobby near Rosh HaShanah against Deal with Iran

July 30, 2015 - 6:03 PM
 
Weather Forecast: 100 Degrees in Jerusalem

July 30, 2015 - 6:00 PM
 
Two Polls Show Most Americans Oppose ‘ObamaDeal’

July 30, 2015 - 5:02 PM
 
Canada Buys Iron Dome Radar Technology from Israel

July 30, 2015 - 3:33 PM
 
Foreign Ministry Calls Sunni Arab Nations ‘Israel’s Allies’

July 30, 2015 - 3:20 PM
 
Turkey Accuses Kurdish PKK Terror Group of Teaming With ISIS

July 30, 2015 - 2:43 PM
 
Israeli Military Medics Rescue Palestinian Arab Girl in Hebron

July 30, 2015 - 1:46 PM
 
Tears From 2 Security Officers, Refusals to Expel Sa-Nur Families

July 30, 2015 - 12:58 PM
 
Jewish Bride Arrested at Temple Mount on Her Wedding Day

July 30, 2015 - 11:43 AM
 
Hamas Calls for Gaza ‘Uprising’ Against Palestinian Authority

July 30, 2015 - 10:56 AM
 
Mild Earthquake Shakes Israel

July 30, 2015 - 10:25 AM
 
Modified Norwegian Law Passes in Knesset

July 30, 2015 - 10:17 AM
 
Bibi on Iran Deal: ‘We Aren’t Partners at the Table, We Are a Meal on the Menu’ [VIDEO]

July 30, 2015 - 7:20 AM
 
Vatican Exhibition Celebrates John Paul II’s Outreach to Jews

July 30, 2015 - 4:05 AM
 
Kosher Hotel to Open in Rio in Time for 2016 Olympics

July 30, 2015 - 2:18 AM
 
Amnesty International says Israel Committed War Crimes in Effort to Free Soldier Kidnapped by Hamas

July 30, 2015 - 12:31 AM
 
Donald Trump Defends Huckabee’s ‘Ovens’ Imagery

July 29, 2015 - 9:15 PM
 
Netanyahu Promises 804 Homes for “Settlers’ – 3 Years after Previous Pledge

July 29, 2015 - 7:12 PM
 
US Won’t Let Pollard Out of Country for Five Years

July 29, 2015 - 7:00 PM
 
Brandeis Study: Antisemitism on College Campuses Is in the Eye of the Beholder

July 29, 2015 - 5:36 PM
 
Update: Child Killer Samir Kuntar Dead in Alleged Israeli Air Strike

July 29, 2015 - 4:45 PM
 
Movie Based on Pollard Case to be Produced by Jackal Group

July 29, 2015 - 4:03 PM
 
Southern Israel Solar Field of 134 Acres Connected to Electric Grid

July 29, 2015 - 3:21 PM
 
Police Charges Five Hilltop Youth with Arson of Church at the Kinneret

July 29, 2015 - 2:53 PM
 
Taliban’s Supreme Leader Dead

July 29, 2015 - 2:12 PM
 
Israel Demolishes Apartment Houses at Beit El

July 29, 2015 - 12:56 PM
 
Great Synagogue, Shulhof of Vilna Rediscovered 70 Years After Nazi Destruction

July 29, 2015 - 12:30 PM
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Parenting Our Children
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Posted on: October 12th, 2009

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Over the past few weeks we have been focusing on how necessary it is, especially today, that parents take an active role in teaching their children the Torah’s view on sexuality and modesty. We have pointed out how important it is that first images to fill a child’s mind in regards to these concepts be appropriate ones.

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Posted on: October 7th, 2009

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Over the past few weeks we have been focusing on how necessary it is, especially today, that parents take an active role in teaching their children the Torah's view on sexuality and modesty and how important it is that first images to fill a child's mind in regards to these concepts be appropriate ones.

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Posted on: September 30th, 2009

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Over the past few weeks we have been focusing on how necessary it is, especially today, that parents take an active role in teaching their children the Torah's view on sexuality and modesty. It is important that the first images that fill their minds in regards to these concepts be appropriate ones.

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Posted on: September 30th, 2009

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In a paper greeted enthusiastically at the May conference of the American Psychiatric Association, in San Francisco, a new name was given to a common problem, Post Traumatic Embitterment Disorder. My initial response: another excuse to drug people. However, upon thinking it over, I think that the word embittered does describe the essence of a serious problem. Many of us suffer from some degree of jealousy and bitterness about the injustices in our lives. But does that make us embittered? I would hope not. So, what characterizes embittered people? Here are some actual examples (the names have been changed):

 

Posted on: September 23rd, 2009

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Dear Rabbi Horowitz: We would appreciate your thoughts regarding offering our children incentives, financial or otherwise, for doing well in school this year. We don't want to bribe our kids but, on the other hand, incentives seem to work very well. What do you think? Yaakov and Susan

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Posted on: September 23rd, 2009

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In the past several articles we have discussed the importance of parents taking an active role in teaching their children Torah ideas about sexuality and modesty. This is because it is essential that the first images to that fill their developing minds on these concepts must be appropriate ones. There is so much invasive exposure they experience from secular culture, and much to be concerned about in regards to the existence of sexual predators in our midst. If children do not possess clear knowledge and an age-appropriate understanding of the parts of their body and how they can be used or misused it is hard for them to protect themselves.

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Posted on: September 16th, 2009

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"Time waits for no man" is an old saying, though I'm not sure where it originated. Other such sayings like, "time flies by too quickly" or "the older you get, the faster time flies by," also contain meaningful messages. For me, I can't believe how quickly the days and years go by. When I think about it, I realize how we must make the very most of each day to accomplish what is important while we still have the opportunity.

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Posted on: September 16th, 2009

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Over the past few weeks, we have been making the point that parents must take an active role in teaching their children Torah ideas about sexuality and modesty. This is so that the first images and concepts that fill their developing minds are appropriate ones. This is especially true because of the amount of invasive exposure they receive from secular sources and culture, and also because we can no longer afford to be na?ve about the existence of sexual predators in our midst.

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Posted on: September 9th, 2009

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While it once may have been possible to shelter our children from inappropriate exposure to sexuality, today it seems to be an impossible goal. Even parents who have made every effort to appropriately safeguard their family may find themselves unhappily surprised at what their child's friends have exposed him to. In addition, outdoor secular media such as billboards, bus ads and newspaper covers portray disturbingly graphic images that force us to confront the fact that our children are being exposed to ideas and ways of life we may consider to be harmful to their souls and their mental health.

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Posted on: September 9th, 2009

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I was all excited that afternoon! I was 5 years old, and Bubby was coming to our house. We didn't see her often and I loved her so very much. Finally I heard Mummy call: "Bubby is arriving. The airport taxi just pulled up to the driveway."

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Posted on: September 2nd, 2009

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The argument raged on in its typical, predictable way. It was a one-sided argument where he ranted at her for something or other that she was guilty of, something he felt made her deserving of a punishment tantamount to "verbal death."

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Posted on: September 2nd, 2009

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While it once may have been possible to shelter our children from inappropriate exposure to sexuality, today it seems to be an impossible goal. Even parents who have made every effort to appropriately safeguard their family may find themselves unhappily surprised at what their child's friends have exposed him to. In addition, outdoor secular media such as billboards, bus ads and newspaper covers portray disturbingly graphic images that force us to confront the fact that our children are being exposed to ideas and ways of life we may consider to be harmful to their souls and their mental health.

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Posted on: August 26th, 2009

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While once it may have seemed possible to shelter our children from inappropriate exposure to sexuality, today it seems to be an impossible goal. While some families have been successful in insulating their children from the Internet, movies, and other harmful aspects of secular culture, many families have not been as successful. And, even those parents have made every effort to appropriately safeguard their children may find themselves unhappily surprised at what they have been exposed to by their friends. In addition, outdoor secular media such as billboards, bus ads and newspaper covers portray disturbingly graphic images that force us to confront the fact that our children are being exposed to ideas and ways of life we may consider to be harmful to their souls and their mental health.

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Posted on: August 26th, 2009

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Chaya's older yeshiva-bochur brother told her that there was no problem with his touching her body. He told her it wasn't against the Torah, and he seemed to know a lot more Torah than she did at the tender age of 6. He continued to touch her first over her clothes, but as the years passed, the abuse progressed to actual rape. Eventually he got married and started a family, appearing to function just fine to nearly everyone in the community. However, he left his younger sister, now in her late twenties, crippled - emotionally, sexually and spiritually.

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Posted on: August 21st, 2009

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One of the leading factors influencing family life is the intellectual and emotional development of the children. In most families, the children grow up healthy, happy and able to fulfill their academic or Torah-based goals. But what happens when a child is perpetually falling behind and is then diagnosed with a learning disability?

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Posted on: August 19th, 2009

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Have you ever experienced a scenario similar to the following? "My son, Ari (fictitious name) had been making an effort to study so he could get good grades. We arranged for twice a week tutoring in the evening, and that was after a long day at school. He wants to succeed. All children want to succeed. He'd like to see comments such as "great job" at the top of his homework. He'd also prefer having test sheets with fewer red X's and "F's" at the top of his papers (circled for emphasis in the event the "F" goes unnoticed).

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Posted on: August 19th, 2009

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After returning from a year of studying in seminary in Eretz Yisrael, Feigi was ready to join the "real world." Seminary had been a wonderful, spiritually uplifting experience, but now it was time to settle down, find a job, and think about what she wanted to do with the rest of her life. Feigi started job hunting. She had excellent credentials and was perfectly qualified to start a career in any of a variety of fields. Yet despite her intelligence and willingness to work, she was unable to focus on a clear sense of direction.

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Posted on: August 12th, 2009

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Like medical doctors, every therapist is tormented at times with the question of the hopelessness or hopefulness of a marriage or any other relationship. Everyone is anxious to know if the "broken" spouse/child/parent/sibling can be fixed. With desperation in their voices, they ask, "Can medication, therapy or other interventions turn him/her around and stop him/her from being so depressed, anxious, addicted or angry?" How can a therapist say, "There is no hope."?

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Posted on: August 5th, 2009

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I entered the room and saw the body. There were also two men in the room. When they saw me, one asked, "Are you Stan's son?" I was silent. "I guess you are," he said, "You look like he probably did." And then he floored me. "Do you want to identify the body?" The words hit me like a ton of bricks. How could I identify the body of a man who walked out of my life 42 years ago? Would he look anything like the millions of images I conjured up over the years? Would he look like a devil? A demon? I had stopped believing in him when I was about 16. He was a phantom who appeared every now and then in conversation. He got me into a good college - writing about him in my application essay had generated some sympathy.

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Posted on: July 29th, 2009

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Flip Wilson was a famous comedian and television actor who once used the line, "The Devil made me do it." At the time it was funny, though pretty soon completely overused. In hindsight, the quote can be a pretty accurate description of the misguidance of our youth, as well as many adults. Could this be another means of blaming the yetzer ha'ra for our misdeeds? Can we really get away with anything if it's not our fault or was an accident? What about the concept of "responsibility," how do we teach that to our children?

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