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If we teach our children from their earliest years to trust us, because we have that kind of relationship of trust where we bond with our children, then we can teach them to bond to Hakadosh Baruch Hu in a meaningful, trusting attached manner.  As the famous child psychiatrist Dr. Bruno Bettleheim said in the 1980’s, Love is not enough.

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