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Egged Bus Pounded in Jordan Valley

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ObameDeal Exposed: It’s not ‘Secret’ from Congress but not in Writing

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Arabs Ambushing Jewish Drivers Near Halhul

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Jewish Driver Shot At Near Kochav Hashachar, Returns Fire

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Nadler Introduces Legislation to Keep Families Seated Together on Flights

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22 Jews Injured in 60 Arab Attacks This Week

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IDF Helicopter Flew Arson Victims to Tel Aviv Hospital [video]

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‘Settler’ Leaders Denounces Arson-Murder, but Rabbis Still Silent

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Hamas Calls for ‘Exceptional’ Response to Arson-Murder

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US Bribing Saudi Arabia with $5.4 Billion Missile Sale after Iran Deal

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Netanyahu ‘Shocked over Horrific Attack’

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IDF and Police Bracing for Arab Revenge after Murder of Baby near Shechem

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Arab Infant Killed in Arson ‘Price Tag’ Attack

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Second Democrat in Congress Announces Rejection of Iran Deal

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Abbas Reshuffles Unity Govt with Hamas, Claims ISIS Is Already in Gaza, ‘No Sense Denying It’

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Munich City Council Upholds Ban on Tiny Holocaust Memorial Bricks

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6 Stabbed in Jerusalem ‘Gay Pride’ Parade by Haredi Repeat Gay Stabber

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NGO Monitor Poses 10 Questions over Amnesty Report on Israeli ‘War Crimes’

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Tel Aviv Ranked #1 Startup Ecosystem Outside the US

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Netanyahu: ’24-Day Window for Inspections Really is 3 Months’

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Queens Democratic Congresswoman Breaks Ranks and Opposes ObamaDeal

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Orthodox Rabbis to Lobby near Rosh HaShanah against Deal with Iran

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Weather Forecast: 100 Degrees in Jerusalem

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Two Polls Show Most Americans Oppose ‘ObamaDeal’

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Canada Buys Iron Dome Radar Technology from Israel

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Foreign Ministry Calls Sunni Arab Nations ‘Israel’s Allies’

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Turkey Accuses Kurdish PKK Terror Group of Teaming With ISIS

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Israeli Military Medics Rescue Palestinian Arab Girl in Hebron

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Tears From 2 Security Officers, Refusals to Expel Sa-Nur Families

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Jewish Bride Arrested at Temple Mount on Her Wedding Day

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Hamas Calls for Gaza ‘Uprising’ Against Palestinian Authority

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Mild Earthquake Shakes Israel

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Modified Norwegian Law Passes in Knesset

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Posted on: August 1st, 2013

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A friend of mine, a young mother, related that her oldest child, now three, was starting pre-school in a few weeks. Her voice, full of pride, quickly took on a tone of annoyance as she described the “welcome package” she had received as a new parent. Amid the rules and regulations concerning drop off and pick up was a dress code for mothers/female caregivers who brought and took home the children. One of the “requirements” was wearing closed–toed shoes. Sandals were not allowed.

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Posted on: July 18th, 2013

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Think of how you feel when you pick up a baby and she starts crying and shrieking hysterically. You can't help but feel somewhat chagrined and inadequate.

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Posted on: July 5th, 2013

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After my son Moshe got married in Israel several years ago, I decided to keep in more frequent touch with my cousin Ruzah. I would call her on a weekly basis (a good opportunity to practice the Ivrit I learned in day school), speaking to a woman who was of an older, wiser generation - rendering her more like a mother. Ruzah, like all my first cousins was indeed my parents’ age, married with children before I was born. Her experiences mirrored my father’s generation, although she really was from mine. Her mother and my father were siblings and my unknown grandparents were hers.

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Posted on: June 21st, 2013

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The 21 days of semi-mourning that is collectively referred to as the Three Weeks, culminating with the fast day of Tisha b’Av - the ultimate day of mourning in the Jewish calendar - begins in a few short days. During this period of time Jews reflect on the myriad of tragedies that have befallen us since the destruction of the Holy Temple and our subsequent exile.

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Posted on: June 7th, 2013

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A popular topic of discussion in newspapers, magazines and talk shows revolves around the management of personal finances - or rather the lack of them. In most cases, dealing with overwhelming debt is the topic de jour. Seems many people are drowning in it. Spending more than they have has mired countless consumers into a financial quicksand with maxed out credit cards and collection agencies knocking on the door. Speaking of doors, many face eviction and the loss of their home.

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Posted on: May 24th, 2013

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With the semi-mourning period of Sefira behind us, and the festival of Shavuot as well (as evidenced by the tightness of our clothing due to over-indulging in irresistible versions of cheesecake that is an integral component of celebrating our receipt of the Torah), our community can look forward to participating in joyous engagement parties and weddings.

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Posted on: May 10th, 2013

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One of the subjects I was taught as a young child in school was Tefillah. Since we spoke only Ivrit during our Limudei Kodesh and secular Hebrew studies - literature, creative writing and Jewish history - we pretty much understood the words we were davening.

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Posted on: April 26th, 2013

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Shortly before Pesach, I received a rather agitated call from a long time reader of The Jewish Press who pleaded with me to write a column regarding what she insisted was the unwarranted high cost of Pesach food – in particular shmurah matzah – and how hard it was for young families to pay what she felt were over-inflated prices in order to keep strictly kosher.

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Posted on: April 11th, 2013

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The price of deliberate obliviousness is very high - emotionally, physically, socially, and financially.

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Posted on: March 29th, 2013

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How is it possible that a person of seemingly normal intelligence (nowhere does it say he is simple) not have the ability to ask a question - to not react and enquire as to the why of the hustle and bustle around him?

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Posted on: March 15th, 2013

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It was one of those cold, rain-soaked evenings - the kind that make you look forward to a hot drink, a good book and a soft couch to curl up on. With those happy thoughts in mind, I proceeded to cross to the other side of the street.

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Posted on: February 28th, 2013

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The other day I was shopping at a large supermarket and happened to go down the frozen foods aisle, past the endless freezers containing every imaginable flavor, shape and size of ice cream. I rarely buy. Rather I am like a tourist in a museum – gawking at wondrous objects that I know I can’t take home with me.

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Posted on: February 14th, 2013

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He stood his ground despite the intense pressure to do what everyone else was doing. His integrity was more important to him than "fitting in."

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Posted on: February 1st, 2013

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There is a wise Yiddish saying that translates into this observation: "Yichus (illustrious ancestors) is like potatoes - they are both under the ground."

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Posted on: January 17th, 2013

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It truly defies logic when I am told by a relative’s machataynesta that on her block in Brooklyn there are a dozen girls in their mid to late 20’s and even 30’s who are waiting in vain for the phone to ring.

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Posted on: January 4th, 2013

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Last month, I had the privilege - and I do mean privilege – of attending an event at the Ritz Carlton Hotel in Toronto hosted by the Canadian Friends of Machon Lev, the Jerusalem College of Technology (JCT), at which an honorary degree was bestowed on John Baird, Canada’s Foreign Affairs Minister.

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Posted on: December 20th, 2012

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Throughout the long dark night of our exile, when we found ourselves at the precarious "mercy" of the inhabitants of the lands we were residing in, each and every Jewish community made it their utmost priority to rescue any man, woman or child who had the misfortune to be kidnapped, captured or unjustly thrown in prison. Whether these unfortunate souls were being held by bandits, landlords or greedy officials eager for ransom money, every effort was made to free them.

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Posted on: December 6th, 2012

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Chanukah is just about upon us and Jews across the planet are looking forward to family gatherings, delicious food (you can’t feel too guilty eating oily latkes and high carb donuts on the chag – hey, it’s practically a mitzvah to do so); giving and receiving gifts and in general celebrating our survival – our spiritual continuance as God-fearing Jews. (Our physical survival is an event we acknowledge on Purim.)

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Posted on: November 22nd, 2012

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Dear Readers: The following short story is fictitious, but the situation of Jewish children during the Holocaust being raised by gentile families or in Catholic convents and orphanages is not. While some were re-united with family members who survived the death camps – many were not, and remain lost both physically and religiously. This story is in memory of all the lost children. May they be reunited with their families with the coming of Moshiach.

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Posted on: November 9th, 2012

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Some of you are looking at the title of my column and wondering two things - why I am writing about B'nai Brith Canada – arguably Canada’s version of the Anti-Defamation League and why would it be of interest to anyone who does not live in that country - as most of you don't.

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