Photo Credit: Rifka Schonfeld

            Create a plan of action. If your child is found eligible for special education and the school can provide it, the next step is to draw up an individualized educational plan. Created with a learning specialist, this should set specific goals for progress over the school year and offer guidelines on how parents and teachers can work together to help the child attain those goals.

            Play up his strengths. Don’t let your child become defined by his or her dyslexia. These children need to be encouraged to find other outlets, activities and hobbies in which they can excel and win praise for their accomplishments.

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            Emphasize phonics. The National Reading Panel, composed of experts in fields of literacy, was asked by the United States Congress to examine the research on the teaching of reading. What the experts found had important implications for phonics: they determined that phonics is an essential ingredient in beginning reading instruction and, without systematic and explicit phonics instruction, students will significantly lag behind their peers. Interestingly, the panel also found that phonics most benefits children who are experiencing difficulty learning to read, such as those with dyslexia.

 

Stop the Cycle of Fear Surrounding Dyslexia

Foss writes that many of dyslexic children’s battles are a product of the things that people say and the fear this instill in parents. Some of the negative comments include:

“Not every child is college material.”

“My son was reading when he was still in diapers!”

“Your child needs to be in the lowest reading group.”

“I know you didn’t like special-ed classes when you were a kid, but this time might be different.”

Many of these fears come from the belief that being dyslexic means that we are broken (not smart and doomed to fail). Foss challenges parents and the community at large to shift our ideas of dyslexia from a disorder to an identity. Liza, the fifth grader who wrote the poem at the beginning of this piece, said, “For me, dyslexia opens a whole/other door.” If we look at dyslexia this way and play to dyslexia’s strengths, perhaps 1 in every 10 people will live happier and more integrated lives.

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An acclaimed educator and social skills ​specialist​, Mrs. Rifka Schonfeld has served the Jewish community for close to thirty years. She founded and directs the widely acclaimed educational program, SOS, servicing all grade levels in secular as well as Hebrew studies. A kriah and reading specialist, she has given dynamic workshops and has set up reading labs in many schools. In addition, she offers evaluations G.E.D. preparation, social skills training and shidduch coaching, focusing on building self-esteem and self-awareness. She can be reached at 718-382-5437 or at [email protected].