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My father-in-law, a successful businessman with a law degree, would say that he studied the law in order to stay out of the courts.

What is the purpose of the law courts? Is it to dispense perfect justice or is it to restore peace between the litigants?

The debate is ancient.

Rabbi Eliezer maintains that the goal of the bet din (Jewish court of law) is to achieve perfect justice at all costs – yikov hadin et hahar. There is no place for compromise in court, argues Rabbi Eliezer. Any judge who brokers a compromise is a sinner.

Rabbi Yehoshua disagrees. It is a mitzvah for a judge to broker a compromise. The court’s purpose is not merely to seek justice, mishpat, but also to restore shalom, peace, among the litigants. King David was loved because he dispensed mishpat utzedakah, judgment and charity, to the people. But isn’t judgment and charity an oxymoron? No, answers the Talmud. Judgment and charity co-exist in compromise. The best judgment is compromise.

The halacha is in accordance with the opinion of Rabbi Yehoshua. A judge must open the proceedings by urging the litigants to settle the dispute by way of compromise.

But in order to be effective, the compromise must be done in the proper halachic way. In essence, a compromise is a sale. Each party is selling to the other the right to perfect justice in return for a quick, inexpensive, and peaceful solution. Like any other sale in Jewish law, this one too must be perfected by a ma’aseh kinyan, an overt act, that gives tangible expression to the mental decision to transfer property or other rights.

A ma’aseh kinyan needed to effect a compromise can take the form of a kinyan sudar, a legal form of symbolic acquisition, performed by the transfer of some article, such as a handkerchief, between the litigants. The ma’aseh kinyan can also be done by means of a shta’ar, an unconditional promissory note, or other undertaking, or admission written by each litigant in favor of the other, in the presence of attesting witnesses. A compromise written in the form of a conditional promise, however, such as “I will abandon my claim if you pay me $50,000” is not deemed a shta’ar and is ineffective unless accompanied by a ma’aseh kinyan, such as a kinyan sudar.

Why, one might ask, is a compromise compared to a sale and not to a waiver? A waiver does not require a ma’aseh kinyan. Rav Ovadia Yosef explains that a waiver is an entirely voluntary act initiated by the person himself outside the context of litigation. A compromise, however, is initiated by the court within the context of litigation. Accordingly, the litigant may feel pressurized into agreeing to the compromise. A ma’aseh kinyan is therefore required to strengthen his resolve.

According to the Aruch Hashulchan, a compromise can be enforced if the litigants shook hands on it, even though shaking hands is not a ma’aseh kinyan.

A compromise in bet bin must be reached before judgment is rendered. Once the judgment is rendered the judges themselves are not permitted to broker a compromise – but other mediators, however, may.

The litigants must carry out the compromise as promptly as they would satisfy a judgment, or else the compromise will expire.

There are circumstances under which a compromise, even if fortified by a ma’aseh kinyan, would be ineffective. This will occur when the bet din becomes convinced the compromise was induced by fraud, or extracted under duress. Such may be the case, for example, if one litigant threatened to inform the income tax authorities about the other litigant’s misconduct in an unrelated matter unless he agrees to a compromise. In addition, a litigant who entered into a compromise may revoke it. Similarly, if following the compromise the other litigant admitted the claim, the compromise would be revoked.

Like secular law, the halacha accepts that every person has the right to his day in court and nobody can be forced to compromise. But the halacha also realizes that a day in court could turn into months or years and become a crippling financial burden. And at the end of the day, human courts are a lottery, because infallible justice belongs to God. So compromise is not a bad deal.


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Raphael Grunfeld received semicha in Yoreh Yoreh from Mesivtha Tifereth Jerusalem of America and in Yadin Yadin from Rav Dovid Feinstein. A partner at the Wall Street law firm of Carter Ledyard & Milburn LLP, Rabbi Grunfeld is the author of “Ner Eyal: A Guide to Seder Nashim, Nezikin, Kodashim, Taharot and Zerayim” and “Ner Eyal: A Guide to the Laws of Shabbat and Festivals in Seder Moed.” Questions for the author can be sent to [email protected].