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The Settler Invasion into the Al Aqsa Mosque Compound
 
Rabbis, Jewish Gun Club Oppose RCA and OU’s Endorsement of ‘Arbitrary’ Gun Control

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IDF Confirms: Rocket Launched from Gaza

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Arson Attack on Brussels Synagogue

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US Jews ‘Bought Israel’ During War

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Shekel Dollar Rates Breaks Year High at 3.64

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German Man on Trial for ISIS Membership Played On Jewish Soccer Team

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Death Row Inmate: ‘Kosher-like’ is Not Kosher’

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Report: ISIS Shoots Down Syrian Regime Plane

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8-year-old Struck and Killed by School Bus

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New Cancer Drug Uses Immunotherapy to Treat Metastatic Melanoma

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Lapid Won’t Let Defense Demands Turn Into ‘Turkish Bazaar’

September 16, 2014 - 12:53 PM
 
Turkey Offers to Host Muslim Brotherhood Leadership

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Israel Fights Back Against the Jerusalem Intifada

September 16, 2014 - 11:55 AM
 
First Time: US Bombs ISIS Near Baghdad to Support Iraqi Troops

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Travel Advisory: Have a Safe Holiday by Staying in Israel

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British Store Guard Tells Children ‘No Jews Allowed’

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Klinghoffer: Pretending Art Means Never Having to Say You’re Sorry

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Bullet-Filled Doll Halts Traffic at Ben Gurion Airport

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Radical Islam Helps United French Jews and Far Right Leader La Pen

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ISIS Prompts Hezbollah’s ‘Great Need to Remain in Syria’

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Marriage and Relationships
Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: June 20th, 2013

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Stacy and Michael walked out of the marriage counselor's office angrier than when they arrived. It was their third session and this last fight over his ex wife wasn't going away. The fifty minutes embroiled in a detailed outline of the battle only fired up their anger and the counselor's request to remember how much they love each other wasn't helping. It would be a week before the next session and both of them were already talking about not returning for therapy.

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Respler-Yael
 

Posted on: June 14th, 2013

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Due to her family situation, it is understandable that she will have more responsibilities than other girls her age, but she would benefit from having some free time and receiving more appreciation for her hard work.

Respler-060713
 

Posted on: June 7th, 2013

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Dear Dr. Yael: My husband and I are married for three years and want to have children. Thus I’m undergoing fertility treatment, and gaining weight as a result. At a wedding I recently attended, everyone was looking at my stomach. Someone actually approached me and said, smiling, “I see that you put on some weight, so when is the baby due?”

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: May 31st, 2013

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Control may be the most destructive force influencing a marriage. Let me illustrate this point with the following story. About two years ago a woman named Bracha, 47, came to speak to me about her husband’s controlling behavior. This is how she described her precarious situation:

Respler-053113
 

Posted on: May 30th, 2013

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I read the May 10 letter in your column from H.S. (Depression: Not A Hopeless Malady) regarding her husband’s rabbi’s view about depression, and your response to it.

Respler-052413
 

Posted on: May 23rd, 2013

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Dear Dr. Yael: Do you really believe that the Internet is the reason why the divorce rate is so high among young couples? This may be so in some cases, but what about the fact that many singles are pressured to get married at a young age despite not having any idea what they are looking for in a mate? And add to that the fact that many are pressured to make a decision about marriage after dating for a very short period of time.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: May 23rd, 2013

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From the moment they stand under the chuppah, newlyweds have two years to enjoy the special bliss that new love brings. This new finding, reported by the New York Times, is based on a study undertaken by American and European researchers. 1,761 people who got married and stayed married over 15 years were followed. The research shows that after two years the couples moved into a more companionable state in their relationships.

Respler-Yael
 

Posted on: May 17th, 2013

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The two proceeded to talk about everyday things and surprisingly her mother-in-law did not find anything else to criticize. This occurred a few more times, with my client changing the topic every time by complimenting her mother-in-law or mentioning something positive about her.

Respler-051013
 

Posted on: May 10th, 2013

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Dear Dr Yael: During a shiur on Pirkei Avos, a rabbi admired by my husband spoke about how some people begrudge others certain things. He mentioned the “D” word (without saying the word itself), and I think he said it was an illness talked about in the Gemara. He said that people suffering from this “machalah shachor” (dark illness) should live in a desert with the wild animals. My assumption was that the person would be left to die there.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: May 9th, 2013

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Controlling behavior may be the number one reason that your marriage needs first aid. If you are unfamiliar with the topic of control, it’s no surprise. Most people are unaware that control is a major issue for counselors, therapists and psychologists-at-large.

Respler-050313
 

Posted on: May 2nd, 2013

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Instead of putting it all on the men, saying for example that they are "trained" by "society" to feel, think and behave as they do, perhaps you could have encouraged these self-described happily-married women to look in the mirror and try to figure out why their husbands seem to act insensitively toward them.

Respler-042613
 

Posted on: April 25th, 2013

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My friend forwarded this letter and I am sharing it with you, my readers as it concerns an issue that affects many in the “sandwich generation.”

Respler-041913
 

Posted on: April 18th, 2013

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Dear Dr. Yael: I am trying, over the Internet, to find programs for my son that are geared toward helping people strengthen their emunah and bitachon. Thus far, I have been unsuccessful. Do you know of any sites I can visit? Anonymous

Respler-041213
 

Posted on: April 11th, 2013

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He needs to have a different ring for his work number in order to be able to ignore all other incoming calls and message alerts. This will give him the opportunity to only speak on the phone or retrieve texts when it is absolutely necessary to do so.

Marriage-Relationship-logo
 

Posted on: April 5th, 2013

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No, the above title is not a misprint of the ubiquitous, “If you see something, say something” campaign encouraging citizens to report suspicious packages and behavior to the police. In these ads, often found in public places and synagogues, one sees a photo of a passenger with an unattended package nearby.

Respler-032913
 

Posted on: March 28th, 2013

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To this day, all the returned items remain in my parent's possession. Baruch Hashem, this was the beginning of a very close and wonderful relationship between my parents and these machatanim - on that continues until today.

 

Posted on: March 28th, 2013

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We recognize that the Exodus story in the Torah, like all biblical narratives, is more than just a historical or political tale of physical bondage and ensuing liberation, it is also a spiritual and psychological drama. The exodus represents the human potential to liberate itself from slavery -- be it physical, mental, or spiritual.

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Respler-032213
 

Posted on: March 21st, 2013

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Just like Aharon HaKohen promoted shalom bayis by sharing with couples all of the good things that his or her spouse said, a therapist can encourage shalom bayis in this same way.

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Schonfeld-logo1
 

Posted on: March 21st, 2013

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I often write about Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) because it is a pervasive and problematic issue in our community today. Recent surveys suggest that ODD affects between two and sixteen percent of children. Children with ODD are often classified as “explosive” because of their severe and sudden outbreaks.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: March 21st, 2013

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There are millions of adults today who experienced the trauma of their parents’ divorce 20, 30, 40 or more years ago. Some have found closure, but many more have not. Regrettably, it is a time in a child’s life that is never forgotten. It stays with you; it is part of who you are.

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