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Everyone knows that among the commandments which we perform on Seder Night is the all-important commandment of teaching our children the story and message of the Exodus from Egypt. We are all familiar with the story, but what is its message?

Finally, after weeks of cleaning our homes, and ridding all chametz from our possession, and taking out our special Pesach plates and silverware, and cooking the Seder meal, finally we arrive at the climax of the great preparations, and we are ready to teach our children the message of this exalted evening.


It cannot be that we have exerted so much energy, money, and time getting ready for the Seder Night, just to munch on matzot and lettuce. True, it is fun to drink four cups of wine, but if getting drunk were the goal, we have Purim for that. We’ve dipped a small piece of vegetable in salted water to interest the children, the Four Questions are asked by the youngest, and everyone joins in with the singing. Nu? What’s it all about? What are we supposed to teach our kids on Seder Night?

We are supposed to teach them that we don’t belong in Brooklyn or Brussels, or Sydney, or Johannesburg. We are supposed to teach them that Hashem doesn’t want us living in all kinds of Egypts, whether they be dark Moscow or sunny Palm Beach. We are supposed to teach them that the story of the Exodus is still true today, that our Exodus is continuing, that the Redemption is ongoing, and that a Jew cannot be free in someone else’s land, but only when he lives in our own Jewish Homeland.

That’s what it says at the very beginning of the Haggadah: “Now we are here; next year may we be in the Land of Israel. Now we are slaves; next year may we be free men!”

On Seder Night, Jewish fathers and mothers are supposed to tell their children the truth – that their future is not in Brooklyn or Brussels, but in the Land of Israel. In the same way that Hashem didn’t want us to continue living in Egypt, He doesn’t want us to continue living in Brooklyn or Brussels today. Hashem gave us the Land of Israel to live in. He took us out of Egypt and brought us to the Land which He promised to our Forefathers. He told Moses and the Jewish People, over and over, that the Torah was to be lived in the Land of Israel, not in gentile lands.

That is the message of the Seder Night. That is what we are supposed to teach our children – that we don’t belong in foreign, gentile lands. A Jew belongs in Israel.

All of this is simple and straightforward, right? You don’t have to be a genius to figure out from the Bible that Hashem wants the Jewish People, the Children of Israel, to live in the Land of Israel. It’s written there at least 500 times. That’s the whole story. It’s as simple as two plus two

Then why don’t the Jews in the Diaspora, understand? Why don’t they teach this simple message to their kids on Seder Night? Year after year, when they read the Passover story, and munch on their matzot and lettuce, don’t they sense that the Land of Israel is missing? Unfortunately, the answer is no. What could be missing? They have beautiful Pesach dinnerware, and gefilte fish until it comes out of their ears, and Passover cruises to San Juan and Hawaii. To their way of thinking, they are already free men! The Redemption is already complete! Passover is a nice historical story for the kids, but it doesn’t have any meaning today. Don’t bother them with messages. Drink the four cups and be merry!

That’s what happens when a Jew eats gefilte fish in gentile countries for nearly two-thousand years. He stops thinking like a Jew. He stops believing in the words of the Haggadah and in the words of the prayer, “Next year in Jerusalem.” For him, “Next year in Jerusalem,” becomes a slogan without meaning. The Torah turns into a list of precepts, and loses its entire national goal of building the Jewish Nation in Israel.

To a Jew who identifies with the foreign country he lives in, Judaism means keeping the other commandments, being a good person, and living a good life in Brooklyn, Brussels, or Beverly Hills. Forgotten is Hashem’s command to live in the Land of Israel. Forgotten is the commandment to establish a Jewish Kingdom in Israel with a Jewish king, and Sanhedrin, and Jewish army, and Temple.

A visit to Jerusalem – maybe. But live there? You’ve got to be out of your mind!

Readers who live in Israel will understand what I am saying. But Jews in the Diaspora will not. That’s because they live in foreign countries and identify with foreign things. That’s their exile. They aren’t free to think clearly. That’s the meaning of, “Now we are here in exile; next year may we be in the Land of Israel. Now we are slaves; next year may we be free men!”

A Jew in America thinks like an American. He thinks that America offers him everything he needs for himself and his family. He gets goosebumps when he stands up at the ballpark to sing the National Anthem. He thinks that he has already discovered the land of freedom. That’s because he lives in the spiritual and cultural darkness of America, just like the Jews lived in the darkness of Egypt until Hashem forced them to leave.

So, my dear brothers and sisters in America, and Europe, and Australia, and Mexico City, this Pesach, try something new. Teach your children the truth.



  1. Thank you. This is exactly what I've been trying to get across. The Jews in American argue about who can eat rice, and have complicated halachah about that, but miss the whole message of the seder. Blindness…the plague of darkness??

  2. Moishe, I must say that there is Jewish law and there is other Jewish law. Many rabbis teach that first we need more than half of the world's Jews to be living in Israel, and then the Geulah comes. If this be the case, then it is imperative that jews heed G-d's request to come home. And since this week we'll be having seders about another exodus out of bondage, you might want to learn the teaching that only 1/5 of the Jews left Egypt, while the majority chose to stay and they perished in the plague of darkness. There was another time in history when Jews ignored the Moishe of the day urging them to return to Israel, Millions ignored Herzl and died in the Holocaust. We need about a million Jews to come home to reach that 51%. Where do you want to be when that magic number is reached?

  3. Correction…. B”H we have the land of Israel for all Jews to live in, we daven towards it, we thank Hashem for it every single day. It is even free to come here on Aliyah!! This is the land Hashem gave to our forefathers and this is the land that he has given to us. I thank Hashem every minute that I have zechus to live here at this time. Be”H, all Jews will also be so lucky soon!!

  4. Thank you Tzvi Fishman, your article is timely and appropriate. As a newish Olah, I cannot believe how blessed I feel, every day, to be living in my own land. The land Hashem had always meant me to be living in, the beautiful land of Israel.

  5. With 85% of Israel secular, you already are in the dark, as seen in the ignorance of your comment. V'chain l'mar.
    And, that 70% you mention has to include the millions of former Israelis who've made yeridah to America.
    Anecdotally, if not for a couple of Lubavitchers, one a shliach, one not, I'd not have made it past age 21. They managed to get me into a Jewish school for kids with little or no Jewish background in 1978. Tens of thousands of Jews in America, if not hundreds of thousands, which is probably more accurate, have taken on mitzvos or even "become" observant, whatever that means.

  6. Very nice work for Chabad, but unless you teach Jewish youth that their future is in the Land of Israel, one way or another they will be lost too. The Diaspora is a curse and a punishment. No matter how much you complain about things in Israel, that's where Hashem has told us to live. Avraham didn't complain about all of the idol worshippers in the Land, neither did Yehoshua. Are you holier than they were?

  7. Know when you're beat, Tzvi, and be gracious. There are milions of lost youth in Israel.
    Hashem did NOT tell us to live in Eretz Yisroel during galus. You don't know the halachah.
    Your illogical comparison of Avrohom & Yehoshua is odd. Yehoshua was part of the Jewish people commanded to destroy idols in Israel. Avrohom was not so commanded.
    Destroying idols has nothing to do with fighting for an Israeli political system that would create a government that will obey the common sense Jewish Laws of War.
    One that would have the decency to care more about innocent people than of Jihadists.

  8. Moishe, I don't know where you live but at least the lost Jewish youth in Israel end up mayying Jews and not gentiles like in the US. Although you are obviously a big maven in halacha, apparently Hashem doesn't agree with you that we are not to live in Israel at the time of the galut. Hashem has returned millions of Jews to Israel and built Israel into one of the most powerful nations in the world, but you know more than He does so I guess Hashem is mistaken.

  9. The mitzva of living in Eretz Yisroel [where I moved to from America] is one of 613 mitzvas. Thosee who make it out to to be the be all and end all of Jewish life are just taliking nonsense. It is perfectly possible to live a good frum life in Beverley Hills, Brussels or Brooklyn. Stop this nonsense about Israel being the only place to be.

  10. The purpose of the Torah is not to have a good frum life in Beverly Hills. That's more like reform judaism. The Torah comes to teach us how to build the Nation of Israel in the Land of Israel in order to be a light to the other nations of the world, which we can't do as barely tolerated minorities in foreign lands.

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