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Is the US Meddling in Israeli Elections?
 
US ‘Condemns’ Hezbollah Attack on IDF

January 29, 2015 - 10:46 AM
 
Canada Backs Israel’s Battle Against Hezbollah Terror

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Update on Wounded Soldiers’ Conditions

January 29, 2015 - 9:04 AM
 
Muqata Blog: Golan Heights Battle with Hezbollah (9:31pm)

January 28, 2015 - 9:30 PM
 
Netanyahu Warns Iran Hoping For Terrorist Front in Golan Heights

January 28, 2015 - 8:43 PM
 
Gazans Attack UN Building with Hamas Advance Notice

January 28, 2015 - 8:43 PM
 
Rivlin Cuts Short US Trip

January 28, 2015 - 8:34 PM
 
Two IDF Soldiers Killed in Hezbollah Terror Attack on Israeli Civilian Road

January 28, 2015 - 8:26 PM
 
Northern Golan Heights Declared Closed Military Zone

January 28, 2015 - 8:15 PM
 
IDF Names Soldiers Killed in Hezbollah Attack

January 28, 2015 - 7:47 PM
 
Lebanese Celebrate IDF Deaths With Candy

January 28, 2015 - 7:33 PM
 
2 IDF Soldiers Killed, 7 Wounded in Hezbollah Attack

January 28, 2015 - 6:49 PM
 
Air Fields in Northern Israel, Golan Hts on Alert After Attack

January 28, 2015 - 6:33 PM
 
Attack in North: Jeeps were Not Armored

January 28, 2015 - 5:22 PM
 
Brother, Sister Caught with Knives

January 28, 2015 - 4:56 PM
 
UNIFIL Confirms ‘Rocket Fired From Lebanon First, Israel Retaliated’

January 28, 2015 - 4:45 PM
 
Breaking News: Two IDF Soldiers Killed by Hezbollah

January 28, 2015 - 4:45 PM
 
UNIFIL Soldier Killed in Hezbollah Attack on Israel’s Northern Border

January 28, 2015 - 3:09 PM
 
Jordan Folds to ISIS Hostage Terror

January 28, 2015 - 2:41 PM
 
Netanyahu Warns Northern Attackers, ‘Take a Look at Hamas in Gaza’

January 28, 2015 - 1:38 PM
 
Mortar Shells Bombings on IDF Posts

January 28, 2015 - 1:30 PM
 
Tank Missile Fired from Southern Lebanon Wounds IDF Soldiers

January 28, 2015 - 12:31 PM
 
French President Tells Jews: ‘France is Your Homeland’

January 28, 2015 - 12:17 PM
 
American Among the Dead in Terrorist Attack on Libyan Hotel

January 28, 2015 - 11:08 AM
 
Israeli Night Strike on Damascus is ‘Warning to Beirut’

January 28, 2015 - 10:43 AM
 
Look Who is Behind the New US Democratic-Style Campaign in Israel

January 28, 2015 - 8:22 AM
 
IDF Retaliates Against Syrian Military Targets, Sets Off Rocket Alarms on the Golan

January 28, 2015 - 12:38 AM
 
Netanyahu: ‘Could Be Time for Female Chief of Police in Israel’

January 27, 2015 - 11:42 PM
 
Ma’agar Mochot Poll Introduces Game-Changer, Pulling Right

January 27, 2015 - 10:56 PM
 
Japan, Jordan Unite on ISIS Hostage Crisis

January 27, 2015 - 10:47 PM
 
Latest Election Poll Puts Left in Charge

January 27, 2015 - 9:00 PM
 
NYC All Prepped Up But ‘No Snow Go, Mayor DeBlasio’

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Report: US Sgt Released by Taliban for 5 Gitmo Prisoners to be Charged with Desertion

January 27, 2015 - 8:17 PM
 
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Hezbollah-Israel Conflict: an Unwanted Development

January 27, 2015 - 7:18 PM
 
BBC’s Holocaust Tweet Shocker

January 27, 2015 - 7:10 PM
 
Mount Hermon Ski Resort Reopens After Rocket Attack

January 27, 2015 - 7:03 PM
 
UNRWA Runs Out of Money that Israel Says Being Used for Terror Tunnels

January 27, 2015 - 4:40 PM
 
Six Jews Arrested for Beating Druze Student

January 27, 2015 - 1:51 PM
 
Obama Sends Jack Lew To Auschwitz

January 27, 2015 - 1:43 PM
 
Two Missiles Explode in Golan Heights; IDF Returns Fire

January 27, 2015 - 1:20 PM
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Marriage and Relationships
Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: May 31st, 2006

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Dear Mordechai, When I decided to get a divorce, I resolved early on to take the high road. Whenever my children are in earshot, I am careful to refer to my ex in only positive terms. I’ve stuck to blame-free explanations for why my marriage ended and keep my venting phone chats with my sister to late at night when my kids are asleep. It hasn’t been easy, and no, I’m not perfect. I’ve slipped here and there, but overall, I’ve protected my children from the fallout of my feelings. Last weekend, though, my daughter returned from her mother’s house and said, “I know why you and Mommy divorced. It’s because you lied to her!” Guess what? It’s not the first time. I’ve spoken to her about it, and she only defends her behavior so I don’t think my ex will ever change. Now what?

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: May 10th, 2006

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Q: Dear Moishe : Why do some couples need marital counseling and others do not ? A: I have been asked this question many times in many e-mails. The answer has a Part A and Part B sequence, so let me begin with an introduction taken from the T.E.A.M. (Torah Education and Awareness for a […]

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: May 3rd, 2006

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Are you the kind of spouse that dominates your partner by finding everything “major”? Consider the following to help you have some insight into whether this description is true of you or your spouse:

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: April 26th, 2006

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Although in my past columns I’ve discussed the importance of inviting differences into life in or­der to grow through seeing other perspectives, there is a good reason to limit discussion of your dif­ferences when it comes to making decisions. There are very few decisions in life worth fighting for.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: April 19th, 2006

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I know that most people will look at the list below and ask, “C’mon, who does this kind of thing in their marriage?” The answer is, couples that want to be happily married and fight less.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: April 12th, 2006

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Partnership doesn’t mean equality in skill. It means equality in responsibility and ownership. Show me business partners who have to meet about every single decision and hash it out until they both agree on a course of action, and I will show you bankruptcy proceedings.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: April 5th, 2006

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Dear Mordechai, With Pesach almost here, my husband and I have been fighting more than ever. We’re having big sedarim and are fighting over everything, from which Haggadas to use to what to expect from our differently-aged children. This frustration has caused me to finally write to you what I’ve wanted to write for months. I don’t want to be told what to do because I’m the woman or mother...

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: March 1st, 2006

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Dear Mordechai, Our marriage has gotten stale. It’s not that we don’t love each other but with the kids and everything else there seems to never be any time for my husband and me. I’m sure we’re not the only ones but we need some real help. What can we do and how can we go about making time for our marriage. Everyone says just make time but that never seems to work.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: February 22nd, 2006

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Dear Mordechai, Our marriage has gotten stale. It’s not that we don’t love each other, but with the kids and everything else there seems to never be any time for my husband and me. I’m sure we’re not the only ones but we need some real help. What can we do and how can we go about making time for our marriage. Everyone says “just make time” but that never seems to work.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: February 1st, 2006

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Dear Mordechai, This is my first marriage and my wife’s second. She was left during her first marriage and things are now going pretty well with us. But I feel that, after four years, I still don’t know her that well. We spend time together, but not nearly as much as I’d like. She’s very independent and says all that mushy stuff and deep sharing is for teenagers, not mature adults...

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: January 18th, 2006

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Dear Mordechai, My wife has read your articles and books. It sounds so nice to be able to put one’s marriage first. But let’s be real. I have a job, kids, minyanim to catch and daf yomi shiurim to attend. My wife and I are stressed over money. Who isn’t? Don’t you think you’re causing unrealistic expectations for marriages when you say, “put your marriage first?” How much can I work at my marriage when everything else is going on? Shouldn’t the work in my life be what I’m supposed to be doing, namely to make my marriage financially viable? Maybe there are times in a marriage that you shouldn’t expect to be so “in love.” My marriage won’t be happy if I’m broke.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: January 6th, 2006

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As a child you had two basic needs. One was to be happy and loved, and the second was for your parents to be happy and loved. If you grew up and these emotional needs were not met, then your unconscious mind seeks a partner to help you meet those needs. The process will take place by recreating your childhood wounds in your present marriage. This way you can finish unfinished emotional business and move on with your life.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: September 16th, 2005

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Marriage, by contrast, is an institution of close, complementary cooperation. Its success or failure depends upon the the couples, ability to work together as a TEAM. However, in order to accomplish this, we first have to understand that in marriage we carry our own emotional baggage along with us — some good and some, not so good. The not-so-good seems to stand out a lot more.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: August 12th, 2005

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Marriage is not like every other human relationship. It brings two incompatible people together for the purpose of healing and growth. The degree of healing and growth will depend on many factors. One such factor is the ability to give love. Love is the foundation of married life. Even though many people talk about it, there is a great deal of doubt as to whether they really know how to give love.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: March 23rd, 2005

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As we come to the end of our series of articles titled "who am I", I would like to devote this last set of preferences, Judging Vs Perceiving, to singles. If you recall, about a year ago I wrote an article titled Commitment Phobic (www.cpcteam.org). It was based on the fact that people are not the same. We have different energy levels, make decisions based on different criteria, depending on what makes us most comfortable. The focus was on Perceiving types a personality that likes to keeps their options open as long as possible.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: February 23rd, 2005

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The Jewish community has never been as challenged as it is today. I believe that many of our problems could have been avoided if we took a more proactive approach. I recently met with a doctor who had just married off his first daughter. He wanted to know what exactly pre-Marital enrichment is. I responded by explaining the concept of self awareness, that it's not possible to know someone else if you don't know who you are!

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: January 26th, 2005

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The Jewish community has never been as challenged as it is today. I believe that many of our problems could have been avoided if we took a more proactive approach. I recently met with a doctor who had just married off his first daughter. He wanted to know what exactly pre-Marital enrichment is. I responded by explaining the concept of self awareness, that it's not possible to know someone else if you don't know who you are!

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: December 29th, 2004

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Almost every profession has what we call the tools of the trade, and with marriage it isn't any different. If you're single, engaged or a newlywed, you need to have the tools it takes to build a successful marriage. Yet for many of us even when the chosen and kallah classes are over, they still find it difficult to use the tools that they have just learned.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: September 29th, 2004

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The Dubna Magid in Safer Hamidos, states that "love is one of the most important midos in a person". Hashem has given us a most powerful energy source with the potential to grow and heal unresolved issues of the past. But in order to activate this energy source we must first try to understand the levels of complexity love has to offer.

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: August 13th, 2004

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The Torah tells us that we are put onto this world to give, not just to take, as difficult as this may seem for some people. Married life provides a unique opportunity to give to another person. When husband and wife are willing to give whatever it takes to make each other happy, they will move onto the next stage called “love.” This is where the Shechina (Divine Presence) rests.

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