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Funeral of Hallel Yafa Ariel HY”D [photos]

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PA and Fatah Quick to Honor Murderer who Killed 13-year-old Girl in Her Sleep

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Abbas’ Advisor May Have Inspired the Hallel Ariel Murder

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Terrorist’s Body to Not Be Returned (Until Further Notice)

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Netanyahu: World Must Pressure PA President to Condemn Terror Attack, Stop Incitement

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Update on Wounded Kiryat Arba Security Volunteer

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PA Arabs Kill Each Other in Overnight Clan Wars

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Grenades Found in Jerusalem Gas Station

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13-Year-Old Jewish Girl Stabbed to Death By Arab Terrorist While Asleep in Home

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Germany to Lease 5 Israeli Cargo Drones

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Dangerous Gush Etzion Junction Receives Tender Loving Care from Locals

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Girl, 13, Murdered in Kiryat Arba, Hebron Stabbing Terror Attack

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9 Leftwing Activists Insist Being Firebombed in Ramallah Wasn’t So Bad

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Two Critically Injured in Kiryat Arba Stabbing Attack, the Terrorist Killed

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Erdogan Rebukes Gaza Flotilla Organizers for Undermining Israel Deal

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‘Photography Activist’ Udi Goren Shares the Beauty of Israel with US College Students

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Berlin Rabbi Urges European Rabbis to ‘Help Save EU’ to Keep Jews Safe

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Israeli Leftists Ejected From Ramallah, Attacked En Route to Iftar

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Belgian Court Upholds Shechita Laws Despite Challenge by Lawmakers

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Firebombing and Stoning Attacks Against Israeli Motorists on Highway 60

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Netanyahu Condemns Massacre at Ataturk International Airport

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Death Toll Rising in Istanbul Airport Massacre

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Rocket Alert – Gaza Border Communities (False Alarm)

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Israeli Cabinet Approves Deal With Turkey Despite Pressure from Families of Israelis Held in Gaza

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Israeli-Arab Arrested for Trying to Join ISIS in Syria

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Historical Discovery in Lithuania: Escape Tunnel Used by Jewish Prisoners to Escape from the Nazis

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Marriage and Relationships
Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: April 6th, 2011

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Question: My husband is always telling me the wonderful things he’s done to make me happy. If he makes the bed, makes calls on my behalf, works hard in the office, I hear about it. The other day he had to take care of a health insurance issue and he made sure to tell me that it took over two hours and three phone calls, in case I thought it went smoothly. I don’t constantly tally up what I do for him and I find it childish that he does. My friends tell me that their husbands don’t do this – so, why does mine?

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: March 9th, 2011

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Question: My husband and I both travel a great deal, independent of each other. My husband owns a start up company and I am very supportive of his need to travel constantly during the next couple of years. In the meantime, I am the primary wage earner and occasionally have to travel myself. Our youngest child is in college so we aren’t tethered to home. A long time ago, about 15 years, my husband was unfaithful. Obviously we worked through it and determinedly rebuilt our marriage. While he has not given me any reason to doubt him, lately it seems as if we hardly talk. We spend so much time apart and when we are together, we are both so exhausted. I have not brought up this issue with him as I am not sure what to say. Can you help?

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: March 2nd, 2011

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The following was a letter sent as a response to the article, "Children of Shame" (02-04-2011). The article addressed the fact that children learn at a very young age to disconnect their feelings as a mechanism to end their feelings of shame. As these children become adults, they find it difficult to reconnect those out of fear that once again they will feel the pain of shame.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: February 9th, 2011

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Question: My son is three-years-old and we have a great relationship. However, his mother and I are divorced and every time I go to pick him up he runs around and sort of avoids me. It's seems more like a game than anything else. I say that because once I chase him down and get him, we go off together - no tears, everything is great. But then, when I drop him off, he runs away without saying goodbye. For me his behavior is somewhat disturbing, how mother though has said that all this means he really doesn’t want to be with me. Other than pick-up and drop-off everything is truly fine between us. Shouldn't my ex-wife try to help instead of doing nothing and complaining?

Herskowitz-Moishe
 

Posted on: February 3rd, 2011

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Children who grew up feeling shameful for the most part will have also grown up without someone to talk to about how it made them feel. Shame is one of the most destructive feelings there is. It is a feeling that something is wrong within us and has a negative affect on a child's self-development.

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Posted on: February 3rd, 2011

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Statistically, about half of all couples marrying this year will see their marriage end in divorce. For couples undergoing marriage therapy, surprisingly or perhaps not surprisingly, the rates of divorce are no different about one-half will suffer divorce.[1]

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: January 26th, 2011

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Question: I am becoming an Orthodox Jew. I totally love what I am doing and the new meaning it is giving my life. I want to be become more strictly observant, but my wife does not agree and has become an unwilling participant. She refuses to consult with my rabbi because the one time she spoke with him she felt he wasn’t being sensitive to her needs. The more religious I become, the more irreligious she becomes. I really do love her but as far as I am concerned, when it comes to religious observance, things are black and white. I don’t want to live a non-observant lifestyle and yet, she won’t consider becoming religious. What do I do? I told her I was writing to you and she agreed to try whatever you’d suggest.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: January 12th, 2011

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For my new book, Connect to Love, the Keys to Transforming Your Relationship, I studied over 500 women throughout the world, discussing with them their deep emotions and genuine perspectives on relationships. As with my previous research with men, there were many surprises. However, I know have a better understanding of the significant areas that […]

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Posted on: December 30th, 2010

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She: We have three children, a home and friends. Finances are not an issue: Yossi leaves money for our home, our family and for me, without my having to ask for it. The children are well dressed, well fed and healthy - at least physically. The house is clean, the laundry done, supper is on the table. I use every bit of energy to make our home the center of my life. But somewhere along the way I lost my marriage.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: December 29th, 2010

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Question: My wife screams and curses at me. For years I have been asking her to stop, but she hasn’t. Now she’s begun doing the same thing to our children, ages 10 and 7 – and they cower in fear. Actually, we are all afraid of her. She never hits, but I think the verbal abuse and screaming is worse.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: December 15th, 2010

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Question: I trust my husband implicitly. He has never given me reason to suspect him of wrongdoing. So, why am I writing? Three years ago he began a new job. He works very closely with a frum woman. They make a very good team – she is the salesperson and crucial to the business. A few months ago they started to train together to run in a half marathon for tzedakah. Then I found out that she and her husband had separated. I did not hear this from my husband – it was a friend who told me. When I asked my husband why he didn’t tell me, he said that she asked him not to tell anyone and he respected her privacy. Then I found out that they skipped a workout because of the rain and instead had lunch together. This I heard from a friend who saw them together. Please understand I don't want to think he's doing anything wrong. Surely he wouldn't be in a restaurant for all to see if he was up to no good. He says I'm being overly sensitive. Is he right?

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: December 8th, 2010

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Online infidelity may be the next upcoming challenge facing the Orthodox world. In the last 12 months, I have seen 11 Orthodox couples where one spouse has reported an online affair that has caused serious distress in their marriage. I now believe that an epidemic of online infidelity may be causing the breakup of countless Jewish marriages.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: November 24th, 2010

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Dear Rabbi Schonbuch, My husband drinks every night. He starts with a few glasses of wine with dinner and always ends with whisky. Some nights it's just one or two large ones and other nights it can be half a bottle. I know that we believe that drinking at a Farbrengen or a Kiddush is allowed, but when does it begin to become a problem?

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: November 17th, 2010

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Dear Gary, I'm very upset with the younger generation today and the way they treat their marriages. I've been married for 56 years and admit that it hasn't always been easy. If I thought about getting divorced each time my husband upset or annoyed me, we wouldn't have gotten past the week of sheva brachos. It seems to me that today’s newlyweds don't want to make any sacrifices and think only of themselves. My grandson, the father of two beautiful young children, is getting divorced. He says its because he didn't make his wife happy enough and spent too much time working at his new job. This is outrageous. Do you think this younger generation is too selfish?

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: November 11th, 2010

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Dear Rabbi Schonbuch, My husband and I are having trouble in our marriage. We tend to fight about the same issues every day and he's very emotionally distant. At what point should I consider seeing a marriage therapist?

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: October 27th, 2010

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Question: A few years ago I was forced to go back to work when my husband lost his job. Baruch Hashem I have become very successful in my field, one that is largely male. While my husband is now working as well, it has become clear that my job is the priority - I make almost triple his salary and there's potential for much more. I never intended to be away from my kids, but am not upset that I had to go to work.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: September 29th, 2010

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Question: My husband and I have been married 14 years, have 6 children, each one in a yeshiva and are so overwhelmed. Between shuttling the kids and homework, I feel like my marriage is non-existent. My husband tells me it's normal at this stage in our life but my mother tells me to do something about it. Where do I begin?

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Posted on: September 8th, 2010

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As the coordinator of the Domestic Abuse Program at OHEL for the past 10 years, I have seen many very special women come forward with their painful stories. I am proud to say that our program has made a significant difference in the lives of these courageous women.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: September 1st, 2010

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Dear Gary, I have begun dating someone who I like very much. However, there is one issue that has raised a red flag. He talks about his mother a lot - in a good way. They have a very close relationship. However, some of my girlfriends (one who is married and does not get along with her mother-in-law) told me to beware of marrying a "Momma's boy" because then you're marrying his mother. Is this a real concern when dating? Concerned

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Posted on: August 18th, 2010

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Zelda woke up with a start, the silence eerie and disorienting. She has been waking up this way for almost a year - since shortly after Ruchy and her husband left for Eretz Yisroel. "I can go back to sleep," thought Zelda. But she lay in bed, straining to hear the sounds which for so many years began her day. The banging of bathroom doors, the shouting for lost and then found shoes, tights and seforim, the noise of phones and doorbells ringing, the house filled to the brim with comings and goings.

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