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Marriage and Relationships
Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: October 18th, 2013

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Most people are not aware that anxiety disorders are the most common mental illness in the United States, affecting 40 million adults age 18 and older (18% of U.S. population).

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Respler-101113
 

Posted on: October 11th, 2013

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

Tell her that you know how much effort she puts into raising her children and that you never meant to criticize her.

Respler-100413
 

Posted on: October 5th, 2013

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Dear Dr. Yael: Unfortunately, for the last several years our beloved son (we will call him Shmuel) has become estranged from us. This occurred immediately after his wedding in Israel.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: October 4th, 2013

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The therapeutic alliance has always been about a firm connection between patient and counselor. There has always been one primary standard - physically meeting in an office setting. There might be some phone calls in between sessions or to bridge some vacation gap. But therapy has always been about a feeling of connectivity and there is no better way to do this than face-to-face.

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Respler-092713
 

Posted on: September 25th, 2013

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Yael: How do I express my opinion in an appropriate way? There are some aspects of my sister’s parenting that I do not agree with, and feel that her methods in these areas are harming her children. I do not claim to be the best parent in the world, but I am confident that my instincts in my sister’s situation are correct.

Respler-Yael
 

Posted on: September 18th, 2013

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If all of us recognize that any oversights or unintended slights are just that, a huge step toward practicing ahavas Yisrael would be taken.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: September 18th, 2013

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

Cindy is 43, successful, attractive, a dedicated mom, extremely caring... and she hates herself. She doesn't readily admit this, but spend a minute inside her head and you’ll discover the resounding messages revolving around negative rants – everything from "I failed" to "I should've done better." You wouldn't know it from her behavior. She's a high functioning, regular member of society.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: September 13th, 2013

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

Parental conflict affects children in varying ways, depending on their age. For example, teenagers around the age of fifteen or sixteen are most likely to involve themselves in their parents’ battles. Younger children may keep their feelings hidden inside and may only show signs of depression in late childhood or early adolescence.

Respler-090613
 

Posted on: September 4th, 2013

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Dear Dr Yael: I loved your answer to Confused Mom (“Should Children Voluntarily Help Their Parents,” August 23). It was a bit unrealistic of the writer to expect her children to do things voluntarily for her and her husband. Even my husband, a good and loving man, does not do anything unless I ask him to, several times. I have spoken to my friends, and this seems to be the norm. This woman is blessed with an amazing marriage, but her daughter is correct: al pi halacha a child gets more sechar if he or she is asked by a parent to do something and then fulfills the request.

Respler-083013
 

Posted on: August 30th, 2013

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Dear Dr. Yael: I am sending my oldest son to a Pre-1A this year and am very anxious about inappropriate touching. I do not know if I should speak to my son about this and, if I choose to, I do not know what I should say. I want to protect my son from any kind of inappropriate situation, but I also do not want to scare him. My goal is for my son to have a warm and loving relationship with his rebbe. How do I balance my wish to protect him with the desire to provide him with a successful school year? An Anxious Mother

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: August 30th, 2013

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When parents come to talk to me about a troubled child or teenager, I often find it helpful to explore whether or not their marriage is causing their teenager to be at risk.

Respler-082313
 

Posted on: August 23rd, 2013

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Baruch Hashem, my husband and I have a marriage in which we constantly anticipate each other's needs and usually try to help the other even before being asked. We, of course, did the same for our children.

Neuman-Rabbi-M-Gary
 

Posted on: August 23rd, 2013

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As adults who were children of divorce know, healing does not occur through time alone. In fact, my research found that only 46% said they had a positive relationship with their fathers as adults.

Respler-081613
 

Posted on: August 16th, 2013

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Dear Dr. Yael: Like the seven-year-old daughter of A Heartbroken Mother, last week’s letter writer, my somewhat socially awkward nine-year-old son is also being bullied.

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bullying
 

Posted on: August 9th, 2013

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

There is a huge difference between standing up for oneself and retaliating against others.

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Loneliness
 

Posted on: August 1st, 2013

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

Caring gestures like a homemade, baked item, a small gift, or a card are very appreciated and leave an extra-special warm feeling - that someone with whom you are not particularly close is thinking of you. It also takes away the lonely feeling of being "failures" or "ones who are different."

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Respler-072613
 

Posted on: July 26th, 2013

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Be careful to avoid arrogance by not extensively discussing the virtues of your family members to those who are prone to jealousy. This can only fuel more envy.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: July 26th, 2013

SectionsFamilyMarriage and Relationships

Active listening is only one part of the marriage equation; learning what to say and what not to say is the other half. And, it’s not just about expressing your feelings, but doing it in a way that avoids hurting the other person.

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Respler-071913
 

Posted on: July 18th, 2013

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Dear Dr Yael: My husband and I have seven children; three are married, and our 19-year-old son is currently looking for a shidduch. We are chassidish, so we check out every girl very thoroughly before our son meets her.

Respler-071213
 

Posted on: July 12th, 2013

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Dear Dr. Yael: I found your June 28 column, The Challenge Of Remarrying, to be very true. I too lost my husband and was encouraged by my married children to remarry. I was reluctant to do so, but since the man I was considering seeing was a friend who knew my husband and I had known his deceased wife, I felt there was a real potential. Thanks in great measure to my children’s pressure, we are very happy together.

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