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Knesset Christian Allies and the Sinai Option
 
Arabs Cause Serious Damage to Jerusalem Light Rail

October 23, 2014 - 7:49 AM
 
Funeral for Chaye Zisel Braun [photos]

October 23, 2014 - 12:48 AM
 
Driver / Terrorist Dies in Hospital

October 23, 2014 - 12:23 AM
 
Arab Paper on Hamas Terrorist Attack: ‘Israeli Police Shoots ‘Palestinian’

October 22, 2014 - 11:39 PM
 
Police and Arabs Clashing in Shiloach / Silwan [video]

October 22, 2014 - 11:06 PM
 
Hundreds of World Jewish Leaders to Meet in Rocket-Battered South

October 22, 2014 - 10:07 PM
 
IDF Claims Drug Smugglers Carried out Sinai Attack

October 22, 2014 - 10:01 PM
 
Isfahan Demonstration for Women’s Rights Becomes Anti-Government Protest

October 22, 2014 - 9:43 PM
 
Syrian Claims It Destroyed ISIS’s Fighter Jets

October 22, 2014 - 8:28 PM
 
Baby Killed in Suspected Jerusalem Terror Ramming Attack

October 22, 2014 - 8:21 PM
 
Real-time Video of Car Running Over Jerusalem Light Rail Passengers

October 22, 2014 - 7:26 PM
 
French Jewish Leader Indicted for Calling Dieudonne ‘Professional Anti-Semite’

October 22, 2014 - 7:25 PM
 
Haredim Delay Delta Flight because of Mixed Seating

October 22, 2014 - 6:35 PM
 
Suspected Terror Attack at Jerusalem Light Rail [video]

October 22, 2014 - 6:17 PM
 
Terrorism at Light Rail Station near Ammunition Hill UPDATED

October 22, 2014 - 6:12 PM
 
Canadian Parliament in Lock-down Following Shooting

October 22, 2014 - 5:48 PM
 
Israeli Military Industries Up For Sale

October 22, 2014 - 5:37 PM
 
Small-Scale Terror Attacks Continue in Jerusalem

October 22, 2014 - 5:32 PM
 
Ban Says UN Will Investigate Weaponry in Its Gaza Agencies

October 22, 2014 - 4:22 PM
 
Gaza Rebuilding to Begin With Winter

October 22, 2014 - 4:11 PM
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Posted on: October 12th, 2014

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Sadly, there are mothers who, due to severe depression are unable or unwilling to prepare nourishing food for their children.

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Posted on: September 24th, 2014

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Not knowing any better, I assumed that Molly and her mother must be voracious readers.

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Posted on: September 12th, 2014

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Neglect, indifference or criticism can break a person's neshama.

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Posted on: August 29th, 2014

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She told me that she was busy and that he could sit in his wet clothes for the rest of the day. It would teach him to be more careful.

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Posted on: August 1st, 2014

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Unpleasant happenings are quickly discarded if they do not affect us directly.

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Posted on: July 18th, 2014

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I have always insisted that everything that happens to anyone or anything is min Shamayim.

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Posted on: July 4th, 2014

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It is so hurtful to heighten people’s sense of inadequacy and guilt in a matzav that is already horrendous and difficult to bear.

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Posted on: June 20th, 2014

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Make no mistake: in the wrong hands cars are weapons of mass destruction.

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Posted on: June 6th, 2014

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Where once divorce in heimische communities was relatively uncommon, nowadays every family has a son, daughter, sibling cousin who is divorced – sometimes twice or even three times!

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Posted on: May 23rd, 2014

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Many go about the business of living frum, observant lives, but they are only going through the motions.

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Posted on: May 9th, 2014

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Lately I have been hearing quiet grumblings from people who admit that they regret not encouraging their sons to get a post-high school education after a year or two of learning.

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Posted on: April 11th, 2014

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While it would seem from his question that he is being chuzpadik and dismissive, I wonder if its possible, if just maybe, he is a struggling, confused neshama who actually wants to come back to the fold.

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Posted on: March 28th, 2014

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A young lady in her early 20’s, “Sarah” was redt to “Shlomie” a boy from her home town who learned in an out-of-town yeshiva. The families know each other well, which in today’s shidduch scene is a big plus – since it was therefore unlikely the kids would “fall in” due to misinformation and misinterpretations.

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Posted on: March 14th, 2014

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I came to the conclusion a long time ago that I have to do what is right for me – as long as it’s “ halachically kosher” and doesn’t negatively impact on others – and not worry too much about what others think.

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Posted on: February 28th, 2014

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They say the road to hell is paved with good intentions, and that is precisely what almost always happens in situations where a reference knew someone had serious but hidden emotional issues, but did not reveal the information to the person making inquiries.

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Posted on: February 14th, 2014

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Time never stood still for anyone – why would I be the exception? In my hubris, I thought that somehow I would live forever – and I suspect we all have secretly felt that way, even though we know it’s a fantasy.

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Posted on: January 31st, 2014

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One can argue that forgetting something on a regular basis is a sign of advancing age and it’s time to for a neurological evaluation, but based on the number of young people who need to replace a lost smart phone (too bad it’s not smart enough to warn its owner that that they have become separated – or is there an app for that too?), I safely can say that losing “stuff” cuts across the generations.

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Posted on: January 17th, 2014

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For quite a few days in late December, Toronto was transformed into a breathtaking – literally and figuratively – frigid winter wonderland, where every twig, leaf, car door, and outdoor wire and cable was totally encased in ice. When the sun shone the landscape was blindingly brilliant as if billions of diamonds had been glued to everything the eye could see.

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Posted on: January 6th, 2014

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Outside is a winter-white wonderland replete with dazzling trees, wires, and sidewalks seemingly wrapped in glittery silver foil. It’s quite lovely to look at, which is about all I can do since I’m stuck indoors. Icicle-laden tree branches are bent and hunch-backed by the frozen heaviness of their popsicle-like burden, and the voices squawking from the battery-operated transistor radio I am listening to are warning people not to go out since walkways and roads are extremely slippery, and there is real danger from falling trees.

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Posted on: December 20th, 2013

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The necessity of speaking up when you “have a hunch” applies even more when it comes to shidduchim. One little girl did just that – she said something – and I was fortunate enough to be in town for the very joyful, lively wedding that resulted from her speaking up.

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