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Our Strength: Overcoming Anti-Israelism, Corruption, and Terror
 
Parisian Kosher Restaurant Second Anti-Semitic Gun Attack This Week

December 26, 2014 - 12:08 AM
 
Breaking News: 11-Year-Old Girl Fighting For Her Life Following Arab Terror Attack

December 25, 2014 - 9:38 PM
 
Jerusalem Okays Homes for Ramot Community that Media call a ‘Settlement’

December 25, 2014 - 8:29 PM
 
Jet Blue Flying Cops Free to NYC Slain Officers’ Funerals

December 25, 2014 - 7:52 PM
 
Zoabi Sues Likud MK Danon for Video Showing Her as Pro-Terror

December 25, 2014 - 7:46 PM
 
Charges Dropped and File Closed in Latrun Monastery Attack

December 25, 2014 - 7:29 PM
 
Updated: 11 Year Old Girl Seriously Injured in Firebomb Attack [video]

December 25, 2014 - 7:03 PM
 
Intel: Abdullah — the Last Hashemite King of Jordan

December 25, 2014 - 4:23 PM
 
ISIS Facebook Fans Stuck in Israel

December 25, 2014 - 3:47 PM
 
US Suspects ISIS Did Not Down Jordanian F-16

December 25, 2014 - 3:45 PM
 
Latest Election Poll

December 25, 2014 - 3:36 PM
 
Sister of American IDF Lone Soldier Killed in Summer War Makes aliyah

December 25, 2014 - 3:25 PM
 
Birthright Winter Season Begins as Thousands of Young Jews Arrive in Israel

December 25, 2014 - 2:35 PM
 
New Billboards Target NY Times for Anti-Israel Reporting

December 25, 2014 - 2:05 PM
 
Million-Dollar ‘Chocolate Bar’: First-Grade Buddies Raise Seven Figures for Rare Disease

December 25, 2014 - 1:58 PM
 
Russian Financial Crisis Spells Devastating Losses for Israeli Farmers

December 25, 2014 - 1:30 PM
 
Update: Bayit Yehudi Finally Has the Education Ministry – and Turns it Down

December 25, 2014 - 1:20 PM
 
Hamas Hold Terrorist Pow-Wow over ‘Zionist Violations’ of Cease-Fire

December 25, 2014 - 12:32 PM
 
‘Six Million More’ graffitied on Greek Jewish Cemetery

December 25, 2014 - 12:02 PM
 
IDF Arrests Terrorists and Uncovers Large Stash of Weapons near Shechem

December 25, 2014 - 11:49 AM
 
Israel Capitulates — Returns Bodies of Nar Nof Terrorists [video]

December 25, 2014 - 11:15 AM
 
CoS Gantz Dismisses Givati Battalion Commander for Sexual Harassment

December 25, 2014 - 10:58 AM
 
And the Right is Back

December 25, 2014 - 10:12 AM
 
Uri Ariel Promises to Lower Housing Costs

December 25, 2014 - 8:49 AM
 
Ban on Interfaith Teen Dating Lifted by United Synagogue Youth

December 25, 2014 - 1:59 AM
 
Al Qaeda Urges ‘Lone Wolves’ via Magazine to Attack US Airliners

December 25, 2014 - 12:50 AM
 
Belgian Minister Vows to Uphold Jewish Ritual Slaughter

December 24, 2014 - 8:50 PM
 
Michael Oren Joins Kachlon’s Party

December 24, 2014 - 8:49 PM
 
Israel Warns Hamas: ‘We Will Respond to Attacks — Forcefully”

December 24, 2014 - 8:17 PM
 
Update: Medical Emergency 101 Lines Back Up in Jerusalem

December 24, 2014 - 7:50 PM
 
Firebombs Thrown near Beit Hadassah

December 24, 2014 - 6:16 PM
 
Border Police Stop Terror Attack

December 24, 2014 - 5:08 PM
 
Hatnua Party Collapses, Herzog Buys a Cat in the Bag

December 24, 2014 - 4:43 PM
 
Likud Party Bars Netanyahu from Running as Chairman

December 24, 2014 - 3:44 PM
 
Hebrew University to Close for Christmas

December 24, 2014 - 1:15 PM
 
Alan Gross to get $3.2M Compensation

December 24, 2014 - 1:03 PM
 
Update: IDF Soldier Wounded in Gun Battle with Hamas

December 24, 2014 - 11:55 AM
 
Yisrael Beitenu Suspected of Fraud and Bribery

December 24, 2014 - 11:24 AM
 
Muslim Destroys French City’s Xmas Decorations

December 24, 2014 - 11:06 AM
 
Two Rockets Fired from Gaza

December 24, 2014 - 10:50 AM
 
Paris Synagogue Attacked

December 24, 2014 - 10:27 AM
 
Indie Theaters Rushing to get the “The Interview”

December 24, 2014 - 7:50 AM
 
PM Netanyahu Competes in International Bible Quiz

December 24, 2014 - 6:13 AM
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Parenting Our Children
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Posted on: November 2nd, 2011

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Certainly most of us have heard the term "deadbeat-dad" used in relation to fathers who fail to be financially responsible for their children. There is also another type of "deadbeat- parent” (I prefer to use the word parent in an effort to avoid gender bias and with the understanding that this phenomenon can occur with mothers as well), and the phrase is used to depict parents who are emotionally unavailable or inattentive to their children's emotional needs after the breakdown of their marriage.

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Posted on: October 26th, 2011

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In Part I (Family Issues 10-14-2011) we discussed how many of us personalize different situations and how that affects our effectiveness in dealing with those situations.

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Posted on: October 26th, 2011

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“Hi Tammy. It’s Penina. It was so nice meeting you and spending Shabbos with you guys last week. It was such an amazing weekend. I wish we were going back on the shabbaton this coming Shabbos!”

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Posted on: September 28th, 2011

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As the new school year begins, we parents must gain insight into one of the common causes of youth at risk -- abuse and molestation. It is a highly sensitive issue generally deemed the domain of mental health professionals and community leaders, with a host of significant halachic ramifications, such as raglayim l’davor - meaning reasonable suspicion, which is the halachic threshold to permit reporting to authorities under the rules of mesira.

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Posted on: April 13th, 2011

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Scenario: your teenager starts smoking and you detect it by smelling it on his or her breath or by finding packs of cigarettes in his or her bedroom. Possible inner issues: control, self-esteem, lack of relationships.

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Posted on: April 1st, 2011

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The principles of Relationship Theory (where the greater the relationship, the greater the ability parents have to connect to their teenager) can help address some of the key issues facing teenagers today including: problems concentrating during prayers, difficulty in school, listening to secular music, smoking, rude behavior and alcohol and drug abuse.

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Posted on: January 12th, 2011

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The couple had barely completed their brief intake papers, which included a small handwriting sample, when, her eyes blazing with fury, the wife pounded on the small table between us and yelled, "He has to grow up! I need a husband who is a real partner, not a lazy good-for-nothing who won't take responsibility and is totally clueless about my needs!" Her husband sat hunched in his chair, looking like a hapless cat which had somehow survived the spin cycle in a washing machine.

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Posted on: January 5th, 2011

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One of the most important skills good listeners have is the ability to put themselves in the shoes of others or to empathize with the speaker by attempting to understand his or her thoughts and feelings. As a parent, try to mirror your teenagers’ feelings by repeating them.

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Posted on: December 22nd, 2010

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Is Internet addiction the main cause of today's at-risk crisis? It's a topic most people shy away from, but it's one that needs to be addressed. Everyday more and more teens are getting hooked on the Internet and the effect of surfing may be taking its toll on our youth.

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Posted on: December 15th, 2010

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Shaindy and Tova have both just earned their degrees and are eager to enter the job market. Both young women are highly qualified, and both are well equipped with impressive resumes and a long list of prestigious references. But while Shaindy finds employment almost instantly, Tova finds herself wandering aimlessly from one interview to another, never quite landing the job that she's looking for. What's the difference between the two young ladies? Shaindy prepared herself for the interview process in advance. She knew how to present herself and what to say. Tova, unfortunately, did not.

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Posted on: November 24th, 2010

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Psychologists study ways to help people find authentic happiness. Researchers report that using one's strengths allows for greater creativity, productivity and excellence. While theses are all the ingredients for professional and career success, they have also been found to work in people's personal lives as well. Utilizing personal strengths yields greater happiness and feelings of well being.

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Posted on: November 17th, 2010

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Having parented a struggling adolescent for several years, Yael was expecting that life would be different for her now twenty-year old son. She was, and still is, an excellent student, diligently applying the tools she has been gaining in our coaching sessions. Harmony and peace has returned to her home, and the relationship (with her son) she was working on mending has become a reality. Admittedly, she attributes the restored relationship to a parenting methodology she has undertaken -- the love-tough approach.

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Posted on: November 11th, 2010

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Schools have long been grading students on responsibility. But in recent years, teachers report that marks in responsibility have been plummeting. This is an alarming phenomenon - but it is not a coincidence. Responsibility is becoming a rare virtue.

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Posted on: October 27th, 2010

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This is a handy little jingle for parents to keep in mind, but even though it's short, my rhyme is not for little children. In order to adequately prepare our children we must first be aware of the red flags ourselves. Then we need to schedule an "annual check-up" with our children and clearly and calmly bring up the subject of personal safety.

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Posted on: October 27th, 2010

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In this series we have covered many of the major ways to understand what makes a teenager tick. Now it's time to put all the pieces together and work towards restarting the relationship between you and your teenager.

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Posted on: October 20th, 2010

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What a beautiful woman. Really - in every sense of the word. She was beautiful in appearance, beautiful in conduct, beautiful in spirits and wow, what a beautiful mother, wife and daughter.

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Posted on: October 14th, 2010

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Over the past few months we have discussed many of the major ways in which we can understand what makes a teenager tick. Now let's put all the pieces together and work towards restarting the relationship between you and your teenager.

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Posted on: October 14th, 2010

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I sometimes encourage the people I work with to keep a record of their progress. But when one client told me that she had actually started a journal shortly before she began seeing me, I was very pleased. I asked her to allow me to publish the entries that pertain to ADD, so that people in the community can identify themselves and learn from the coping techniques that helped her.

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Posted on: October 6th, 2010

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Kindness is such an essential Jewish trait that we are told to suspect that a cruel person is not really Jewish. The media constantly uplifts us with inspirational stories about saintly people who radiated love to their fellowman and did their utmost to avoid hurting others. Yet we are also told, "Those who are kind to the cruel will eventually be cruel to the kind" (Koheles Raba 7:16). It is not a kindness to allow ourselves to be abused, exploited or manipulated. By not taking protective action when possible, we encourage destructive behavior. The following stories are examples of naïve and trusting people who paid a heavy price for being overly "nice."

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Posted on: September 28th, 2010

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A few years ago, a couple, Sarah and Joseph, came to see me about their son Moshe, sixteen, who was experiencing extreme difficulty in school. Moshe did not have any serious learning problems. In fact, he was exceptionally bright and capable of succeeding in school. His problem was that he was frequently missing class. Recently he had started leaving school and spending time in an unknown location. Moshe's parents were naturally concerned for his future.

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