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Palestinian Authority Incites Summer Camp Kids with AK-47 Rifles

June 30, 2015 - 5:34 PM
 
Orange to Pay ‘Partner’ $50 million for Studying Damage from BDS Fiasco

June 30, 2015 - 4:14 PM
 
ISIS Beheads Two Women for Sorcery and Witchcraft

June 30, 2015 - 2:53 PM
 
Tzohar Rabbinic Group Focuses on Anglo Immigrant ‘Fit’

June 30, 2015 - 2:02 PM
 
Netanyahu Warns World Leaders to Take A Stand on Terrorism in Israel

June 30, 2015 - 1:40 PM
 
US Churches to Vote on BDS Moves Against Israel, Affecting Millions

June 30, 2015 - 1:21 PM
 
Israel to Extend Security Fence Along Eastern Border

June 30, 2015 - 12:36 PM
 
Father of Terror Victim Issues Public Plea: ‘Pray For My Son’

June 30, 2015 - 12:33 PM
 
Chabad-Lubavitch Rabbi Yekutiel Rapp, 66, Passes

June 30, 2015 - 9:56 AM
 
Anti-Semitic Arson Attack Destroys Hatzolah Ambulance in Ukraine

June 29, 2015 - 11:43 PM
 
Bad Terror Attack Near Shvut Rachel

June 29, 2015 - 11:10 PM
 
Terrorists Assassinate Egypt’s Attorney General

June 29, 2015 - 10:24 PM
 
Flotilla Boat Arrives in Ashdod Port

June 29, 2015 - 10:24 PM
 
Statement from the Office of Rabbi Shlomo Riskin

June 29, 2015 - 7:24 PM
 
Pro-Israel Rally at UNHRC in Geneva

June 29, 2015 - 6:20 PM
 
Fears Grow of Assad Waging Last-Stand Deadly Chemical Attack

June 29, 2015 - 6:20 PM
 
Netanyahu: Nuclear Talks Going From ‘Bad Agreement to Worse’

June 29, 2015 - 5:38 PM
 
OU Weighs in on SCOTUS Gay Marriage Decision

June 29, 2015 - 5:03 PM
 
Turkey’s Jewish Community in Edirne Hosts Public Iftar Meal

June 29, 2015 - 4:40 PM
 
Israeli Physician Explains ‘Why We Have Never Met Aliens’

June 29, 2015 - 3:37 PM
 
Pre-Occupied UN Human Rights Council Debates One Issue – Israel

June 29, 2015 - 2:29 PM
 
Update: Female Terrorist Stabs Woman Soldier at Jerusalem Checkpoint

June 29, 2015 - 11:17 AM
 
IDF Stops Jerusalem Arab Teenager with Automatic Machine Gun

June 29, 2015 - 10:57 AM
 
Arabs Destroy Mount of Olive Graves Again [video]

June 29, 2015 - 10:18 AM
 
This Flotilla Not a Thrilla – Netanyahu Calls them Hypocrites, IDF Escorts Boat to Ashdod

June 29, 2015 - 7:15 AM
 
IDF Intercepts #FreedomFlotilla, or at Least What Was Left of It

June 29, 2015 - 7:02 AM
 
PM Netanyahu’s Letter to the #FreedomFlotilla of Fools

June 29, 2015 - 12:22 AM
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Parenting Our Children
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Posted on: August 3rd, 2012

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A couple of years ago The Jewish Press published a letter I wrote about how people treat “kids/teens off the derech.” I wrote about my daughter who had totally left religion and how I felt people could make a difference in these children’s lives; they either inspire them or turn them off. The response to my letter was overwhelming. People contacted me wanting to help and others wrote about their children in similar situations.

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Posted on: July 27th, 2012

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In Part I, we discussed how misunderstandings trigger anger and how different people can see the same trigger differently. I wondered if we could identity a common denominator in most disagreements and if so, was it possible we could eliminate teen aggression, couple aggression and arguments between friends, family and peers? Is there a way to bring about fewer altercations, better family unity and understanding between people with less arguments and fighting?

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Posted on: July 27th, 2012

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I feel truly blessed these days. The experience of becoming a grandmother for the second time to a beautiful, and thank G-d, healthy baby girl is quite honestly indescribable.

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Posted on: July 13th, 2012

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Just a few days ago, I bumped into a former student in the supermarket. When she saw me, she stepped away from her shopping cart full of fruits and vegetables and warmly hugged me. “Mrs. Schonfeld, I wanted to tell you something that you said to me a few years ago that has stayed with me until today.” We had worked together on social skills to help her feel more comfortable when meeting new people. I tried to jog my memory and remember something specific I had said to bolster her confidence, but nothing particularly stood out. Instead, I smiled and said, “Yes, Sarah, what was it that I said?”

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Posted on: June 28th, 2012

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Dear Dr. Yael: I have five children, and am struggling with my oldest son. He can be so good at times, but then he will talk to me with such chutzpah. I want to have a good relationship with him, but I worry when he speaks to me this way – and therefore, I end […]

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Posted on: June 21st, 2012

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How do we teach our children to keep themselves safe from the adult predators in our midst? Are our schools teaching them what they need to know? Are parents teaching our youth what they need to know? Does your child feel safe enough to approach you if their personal space is being invaded? How do you know?

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Posted on: June 15th, 2012

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Parents often bring children into my office when they are already failing several subjects in school. These students are dejected, frustrated and often depressed. They believe that because of their past performance, they will never succeed in school. It is not strange that constant effort and subsequent failure have taught these students to believe that failure is their only option.

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Posted on: June 7th, 2012

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Menchlichkeit, good middos, patience and wisdom are the accolades I heard over and over again by stepchildren and stepparents when I asked them to describe the attributes of a good stepparent.

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Posted on: June 4th, 2012

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Dear Dr. Yael: I now see why so many children are insecure. I have been a day-care provider for many years. When parents initially consider day care they want a small group so their children will not be neglected. But problems arise when their children turn two, and nursery or playgroup becomes an option. All of a sudden a group of 20-25 children is not a problem because it is much cheaper. I refer to two-two and a half year olds, whose parents feel that they need to exclusively be with children their own age.

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Posted on: May 17th, 2012

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The alarm clock rings and Chaim pulls his pillow over his head to stifle the screeching noise. Mornings are Chaim’s least favorite part of the day; they always end in someone yelling. In truth, mornings are difficult for most of us, but particularly so for those who struggle with basic skills that are labeled “executive function” skills.

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Posted on: May 4th, 2012

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In all my years of teaching kriyah and English reading, I have encountered more boys than girls who struggle with the skill. We are even subconsciously programmed to think of reading as a female endeavor. Picture a reader in a comfy chair, thinking, “Wow, what a great book! I can’t wait to share this with my friends.” Was the reader you imagined male or female? Chances are, you envisioned a female reader. The idea that the majority of readers are female is consistent with reading scores around the nation.

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Posted on: April 26th, 2012

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Dear Dr. Yael: I am having a very difficult time putting my children to sleep at night. My four-year-old son constantly barges out of his room after he has been put to bed. This usually goes on for about an hour - no matter how many times I put him back in bed or threaten to punish him. I also have an eight- year-old who is afraid of bedtime because she can't sleep.

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Posted on: April 26th, 2012

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After my recent article about the difficult trials divorcing couples face within the court system (Family Issues 1-13-2012), especially when there are children involved, I received a heartfelt e-mail from a grandfather in tremendous pain over the demise of his son’s marriage and the subsequent custody battle over his beloved grandchild.

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Posted on: April 15th, 2012

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Dear Dr. Yael: My five-year-old son is a very difficult child. Most of the time he will not do what I ask of him, and he has a tantrum when he does not get his way. Interestingly enough, he is much more obedient when it is just the two of us, but if the other children are around he is very hard to manage. I know that as he gets older, things will become more difficult. Thus, I want to help him change his middos now.

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Posted on: April 15th, 2012

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11-year old Avi was just awarded a trip to visit his cousins in Detroit – because he didn’t get into trouble in school or fight with his siblings for one week. The prize his parents originally had in mind was a new speed bike, but when that failed to motivate him sufficiently, they searched for a more appealing incentive.

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Posted on: April 5th, 2012

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Mrs. D., the mother of two children under the age of four, came to see me – she was in the seventh month of her third pregnancy. This baby was unexpected. She had “difficulty” after her last pregnancy, and already tearful, she wanted me to get to know her now, so that I could help her later, when the depression hit. She was not sure she would be able to handle it all again.

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Posted on: March 29th, 2012

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Dear Gary, As Pesach approaches, I get worried because I want to have a great Yom Tov, and yet, every year, the seder ends in some sort of fighting and arguing. My husband wants the seder to be all about divrei Torah and so do I, but between the younger children (who we want to be awake for the whole seder) and guests, we somehow end up in stern looks and squabbles. I'm happy we have guests or else we'd probably start yelling at each other and even Eliyahu Hanavi would bail. I know everyone jokes about how tough Pesach is, but I can't see the humor anymore – and neither can my children. What can we do to manage a calm (I don't even wish for happy) seder? A Sad Mom

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Posted on: March 23rd, 2012

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In the first part of this article (Family Issues 3-2-2012) I shared the many memories resulting from my year of avaylus (mourning) for my mother. This week I would like to connect those memories to a better understanding of how good could potentially come from bad happenings in an effort to improve relationships.

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Posted on: March 16th, 2012

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It was Yehudah’s third birthday party. Instead of calmly interacting with his guests, he either ignored them or bossed them around with his limited vocabulary of ten words. He ran around nonstop and elbowed every person in his path. Then, his mother, Shoshana, decided he needed some time to himself so she asked him to play quietly in the den for a few minutes.

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Posted on: March 9th, 2012

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Dear Dr. Respler: I enjoyed your recent column concerning the jealousy a girl had toward her newborn brother.

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