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Nearing Double Digits in the Democrat Defection from Bad Iran Deal

August 5, 2015 - 3:11 AM
 
Chuck Schumer Explodes as 60 Jewish leaders Look On

August 5, 2015 - 12:39 AM
 
Bibi: ‘Keep or Cheat,’ This Deal Will Give Iran the Bomb

August 4, 2015 - 10:34 PM
 
More Firebomb Attacks

August 4, 2015 - 9:08 PM
 
2 Die in Israel’s ‘Heat Dome’ Weather

August 4, 2015 - 7:29 PM
 
Arab Sources: Islamic Waqf Officials Arrested for Attacking, Robbing French Tourist on Temple Mount

August 4, 2015 - 7:01 PM
 
FM Moshe Kahlon to Present ‘Cornflakes Reform’ Budget

August 4, 2015 - 5:54 PM
 
‘If I Were American. . .’ Steinitz Responds to US Energy Czar on Iran

August 4, 2015 - 5:18 PM
 
German Neo-Nazi Joins European Parliament Civil Liberties Committee

August 4, 2015 - 3:51 PM
 
Obama May Intervene in $218.5M Judgment Against Palestinian Authority

August 4, 2015 - 3:30 PM
 
Maccabi Games in Germany Sparked Anti-Semitic Response

August 4, 2015 - 3:27 PM
 
Clinton’s Big Jewish Donors are Hollywood Leftists

August 4, 2015 - 2:00 PM
 
From Argentina to Shechem: New Immigrant Joins Soldiers on Front Line [video]

August 4, 2015 - 10:28 AM
 
Arabs Beat Up Tourist on Temple Mount [video]

August 4, 2015 - 10:19 AM
 
US Promises to Protect Israel if Iran Attacks

August 4, 2015 - 9:37 AM
 
Shin Bet Arrests Grandson of Meir Kahane for ‘Nationalist Crimes’

August 4, 2015 - 8:49 AM
 
Arabs Try to Firebomb Car and Bus in Gush Etzion

August 4, 2015 - 12:31 AM
 
Yet Another Democrat Defects on the Iran Deal

August 4, 2015 - 12:07 AM
 
Jewish Woman Severely Burned, 2 More Injured in Yet Another Arab Firebombing Attack

August 4, 2015 - 12:00 AM
 
Getting a Grip on Guilt: It’s Not Always About the Jews

August 3, 2015 - 10:01 PM
 
New Poll: Americans Oppose Iran Deal 2 – 1

August 3, 2015 - 9:45 PM
 
Report: Schumer Will Join Republicans and Kill Iran Deal

August 3, 2015 - 7:06 PM
 
Kerry ‘Knows’ ObamaDeal Will Make the Middle East a Safer Place

August 3, 2015 - 6:56 PM
 
How Hot Is It? Naftali Bennett Just Demanded Settlement Freeze

August 3, 2015 - 6:26 PM
 
Two Mortar Shells Explode on Golan Heights

August 3, 2015 - 6:13 PM
 
Jerusalem Arabs Arrested for Brutally Beating Religious Jewish Couple

August 3, 2015 - 5:42 PM
 
Al Asqa Mosque Preacher: Jews Train Doctors to Spread Diseases

August 3, 2015 - 3:52 PM
 
Violent Bulgarian Soccer Fans Chase Israeli Team off the Field [video]

August 3, 2015 - 3:10 PM
 
Yitzhak Rabin’s Granddaughter Enters ‘Family Business’

August 3, 2015 - 3:08 PM
 
IDF Shoots to Scare Gaza Arabs Away from Security Fence

August 3, 2015 - 3:04 PM
 
Iran Openly Refuses UN IAEA Inspectors Access to Military Sites

August 3, 2015 - 1:21 PM
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Parenting Our Children
Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: June 23rd, 2010

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Let's look at an example of how mentoring improved the life of a teenager who had given up observing Jewish tradition.

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Posted on: June 23rd, 2010

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A political figure refuses to comment on a current news story in which he is involved.. In the hope of avoiding a scuffle with her parents, a teenager, who has broken curfew, quietly opens up the front door. As she makes a mad dash to her room, she tries to avoid being noticed and questioned. In both situations, a lack of communication may be perceived as failure on the part of the individual to take responsibility for his/her actions, and/or an admission of guilt. In such cases when the person does not say yes, the message being conveyed to others can be perceived as noby default, and vice versa.

Schild-Edwin
 

Posted on: June 16th, 2010

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Mr. and Mrs. S. came into the office with their ten-year-old daughter, Sharon. They were very distraught and had numerous complaints about Sharon’s behaviors. Not only was she having problems academically and behaviorally in school, but they also complained that every time they asked Sharon to do something at home it became a major altercation.

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Posted on: June 9th, 2010

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It is a testament to the authenticity and devotion of the staff at Our Place - a group of drop-in centers in Flatbush that cater to what most people would simply term "at-risk" teens - that none of them wanted to be mentioned by name in this article. In fact, the majority of them were even cautious about speaking with a reporter, so protective are they of their children, whom they consider very nearly their own.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: June 9th, 2010

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When the parent-teen relationship is strained or just needs improvement parents can utilize outside help to bring about a change. When necessary, one of the most effective ways of wielding indirect control is by having the teenager meet with a mentor. As a third person, uninvolved in family conflicts, a mentor is able to interact with a teenager and provide an informal means of solving problems at school, help the teen do homework or simply be a friend.

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Posted on: May 17th, 2010

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The Meaning of The Communication Is The Response It Elicits

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Posted on: May 12th, 2010

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Dear Rivka, Help! My 8 year old daughter is terribly disorganized! Any tips for helping me help her change ? I am motivated to teach her as it is making me crazy.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: May 12th, 2010

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I once received a call from a forty-seven year old distraught mother whose seventeen-year-old son Moti had changed his style of dress, wearing jeans and refusing to wear a hat. She explained that he had gone through a difficult time in school and was now hanging around the house instead of studying in yeshiva. He was also mixed up with the wrong crowd and was associating with at-risk teenagers late at night on the street. She was very concerned as she had an older son who had gone "off the path" and was worried that Moti was going in the same direction. She believed that Moti could be helped if he would be willing to talk with someone.

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Posted on: May 5th, 2010

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With Pesach behind us, what better time to take a closer look at the annual burst of intensity that propelled us, in the weeks and days leading to the yom tov, into a frenzy of cleaning? That sustained embrace of scrupulous cleaning offers insight into a subject that has lately received a great deal of attention in psycho-educational literature. The topic, OCD, obsessive-compulsive disorder, might be understood by comparing it with that exhausting endeavor from which many of us are just starting to recover.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: April 28th, 2010

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In our rapidly changing world, the idea of control has begun to change quicker than anyone can imagine. A metamorphosis of unparalleled proportion is taking place and many parents feel that they are unequipped to deal with the challenges that it will demand.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: April 2nd, 2010

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Ruth had just recently discovered (from another parent) that Toby had been secretly dating a boy for over a year. When she confronted Toby about her boyfriend, Toby had adamantly refused to admit that she was secretly seeing anyone. Ruth was extremely distraught to realize that her daughter would do something against her wishes and asked if I could help.

Schild-Edwin
 

Posted on: March 29th, 2010

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This is the fourth and final part on my series on anger, apersonal control and anger management. I believe there are several major beliefs one needs to appreciate when it comes to understanding anger, angry people and controlling anger and other emotions - let's call then the "secrets of anger." An important definition to remember before we discuss these secrets is that when something happens that causes us to have strong emotions, the thing happening is referred to as a trigger.

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Posted on: March 24th, 2010

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Two months into the school year, Shonnie's enthusiasm for school inexplicably took a nose dive. Her morning routines seemed to take her forever. The 7 year-old reacted to her mother's exasperation by turning sulky and tearful. With increasing frequency she missed the bus and needed to be driven to school.

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Posted on: March 24th, 2010

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In most homes, as women prepare to join the Seder (hopefully, somewhat rested), the anticipatory anxiety associated with the "P" word (pre-Pesach angst) is no longer. The cleaning, preparations, shopping and cooking are now a thing of the past. And finally, the Hagaddah's legacy of yetzias Mitzrayim (exodus from Egypt) takes front stage.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: March 19th, 2010

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Referring back to our earlier case of Debbie’s body piercing, let’s see how using knowledge of Debbie’s inner world and the power of spending quality time together can help her parents connect to her.

Schild-Edwin
 

Posted on: March 17th, 2010

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In continuing our discussion on anger management, I would like to share some basic beliefs that one must understand in their journey to anger management (which I also referred to as personal control). As we have previously discussed, anger control is directly related to self-esteem and confidence. That is, the better the self-esteem, the more capable the person will be in controlling emotions. Also, related to this is the concept we refer to as "shame."

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: March 5th, 2010

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The fifth pillar of the inner world is what the eminent psychiatrist and Holocaust survivor Victor Frankl called the “Will to Meaning.” This desire for meaning implies wanting to know the whys of life and not just the hows.

Schild-Edwin
 

Posted on: March 3rd, 2010

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In Part I of this four-part series, I introduced you to Aaron and his extreme anger. I ended that article with, "I must say that as I was describing this theory, Aaron's mouth dropped open, his eyes grew wide and tears formed in his eyes as he moved closer in his chair. The only thing he could say was, "How did you know?" With that comment, Aaron and I started a remarkable relationship. With all the counselors he had been to over the years, Aaron said that no one really understood him. Here was the angry young man who didn't want to be there, fully engaged and ready to work, ready to share his pain, ready to begin a trusting relationship."

 

Posted on: March 3rd, 2010

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I want to make it clear that this article in no way is meant to blame any of the people involved in what appears, by all accounts, to have been a tragic accident when a Brooklyn school bus killed a 4-year-old boy in Boro Park on February 17. But as a father who knows the pain of burying his own children only too well, I believe that it is important to ask if there is any room for improvement in our school bus safety procedures.

Schonbuch-Rabbi-Daniel
 

Posted on: February 19th, 2010

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As children move from infancy into middle and later childhood, they have a growing need for control over their environment. To meet this need, teenagers must be given reasonable power to make choices about what they eat, whom they play with, and what extracurricular activities they participate in.

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