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Before you allow yourself to continue on this unproductive and dangerous path, take a deep breath and refocus. Revisit the steps that got you to this point.

We had a great marriage. I want to stay with her and raise our children.

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It appears through your letter that you may be overly critical of your loved ones. Perhaps you are distancing them as your daughter and friend had said.

Turns out, there’s actually quite a lot that you can do about overthinking.

Perhaps girls are conditioned to get married early and to create a family and a home so they present themselves with more enthusiasm and care.

Whether you or your child is suffering from an anxiety disorder or just plain old anxiety, there are still many things you can do in order to help control the anxiety.

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It would be a good idea to seek professional help. If your husband refuses to go for help, it would still be helpful for you to seek your own professional help to assist you in navigating your husband’s anger.

Is he helping his family financially through a difficult time and has been forced to be careful?

The shidduch process has many challenges both for individuals and for communities as well.

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Take time now to heal. If that is a week, a month, or more. Be kind to yourself and take care of yourself as you process this experience.

Congratulations! You have decided to start a business and feel pumped, but you realized that marketing yourself is a big role in getting clients.

Emotional intelligence therefore grounds children as people who can interact positively with others and continue to develop even as the playing field gets more difficult and challenging. This extends to shidduchim as well.

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I’m sure we can all agree that asking for a picture doesn’t stem from a deep desire to connect emotionally with someone prior to a date.

It is important to validate your daughter’s feelings and tell her that this behavior was unacceptable.

Of course, everyone is reading and writing about productivity today in a world that doesn’t sleep, and perhaps Duhigg’s book is an oversimplification of our daily race against the clock.

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Once he understood the importance of respecting authority, he began to listen more appropriately to his Rebbeim, teachers, and the Menahel, understanding that they ultimately are seeking to help him succeed in life.

Leading however, with the notion that you are dating below your standards, or beneath your “criteria” is certainly something that your dates would feel.

Children will often get caught up in a power struggle: you pushing and them resisting. Your anxiety about the consequences of their actions will only teach them either how to appease you or resist you.

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Now that you are able to date again, you jumped in with enthusiasm, only to be reminded of your dissatisfying past experiences.

Some people may think it is cruel to not marry a boy because of their family background, but be forewarned: even if he is remorseful about the way he treats his mother, he will most certainly repeat it with you.

It’s hard for people to understand children can have a learning disability that affects only writing. Most people assume if you have no trouble reading, then writing should be a cinch.

It can certainly be uncomfortable to mingle and connect with other guests solely to bolster and expand your shidduch reputation and reach.

Positive thinking has wonderful effects on your mind as well as your body. It lowers stress levels, which in turn affects every part of your being.