Academic & Social Skills Insights #38

All children, especially those with ADHD, crave routine.

Manners and Menschlichkeit

This is an important one in raising a mentsch (and maybe even in marrying off a mentsch! listening skills are on the top of the list when I do shidduch coaching).

A Society Of Stress: How To Get Things Done

People definitely had stress one hundred and fifty years ago, but it was a different kind of stress.

Active Listening And The 10 Commandments of Communication

Active listening is only one part of the marriage equation; learning what to say and what not to say is the other half. And, it’s not just about expressing your feelings, but doing it in a way that avoids hurting the other person.

Dear Dr. Yael

I once heard that when a teacher does not expect her student to achieve, the student would, in fact, not achieve.

The Whole-Brain Child: An Effective Approach To Parenting

I have often been talking about parenting the “explosive child” or a child who struggles with Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD). In that context, I often mention Dr. Ross Greene’s groundbreaking work on using “Plan B.” However, recently, another approach has been gaining popularity. It is from Daniel J. Siegel, MD and is often used to promote “the whole-brain child.”

Ensuring That No Child Is Left Behind

A child's uniqueness is something to be celebrated. When that uniqueness translates into diverse abilities and learning styles in the classroom, however, teachers are faced with a dilemma.

Multi-Generation Blended Family

Multi-generational families are making a comeback these days. For some the choice is made out of necessity because of the unstable economy, for others it is due to the physical needs of either the younger generation or aging parents. And then sometimes the decision to live this way is out of a mutual desire to be full and present participants in extended family life. For us it was a combination of factors that brought us to this point.

Recognizing The Signs Of Abuse

Psychologist David Richo defines love in terms of five A's: appreciation, affection, attentiveness (listening), acceptance and allowing (as in allowing others the freedom to fulfill their own dreams). Love is the opposite of control.

Happy Children

How can we become heroic parents? By helping our children learn how to create happiness in their own lives.

Dear Dr. Yael

How many potential shidduchim are not coming about because we, the mothers, are not allowing them to go through?

Stigma: A Barrier To Rewarding Relationships

Frailty and differences in other people often scare us. Why? They scare us because we see a reflection of what we fear in ourselves or because we just don’t know how to respond. Since we can’t live with this discomfort for too long, we make assumptions about and apply labels to those we fear.

Eight Ways To Stop Yelling At Your Kids

Many parents admit they yell too much, but do not know how to avoid exploding when irritated. It takes effort and discipline to defeat any addiction, whether it's overeating or cigarette smoking and the screaming addiction is no different. Thankfully, when we really want to grow spiritually, we are given Heavenly guidance.

Forgiven But Not Forgotten

There is something about an approaching wedding that can cause a state of emotional upheaval. This should be of no surprise. In most cases, marriage reflects two sets of personalities; the chassan's and the kallah's. The parents too are involved. They produce a relationship that is more than the sum total of themselves. This relationship includes their family, and yet a separation is about to take place for both parent and child.

Where Have All The Good Jewish Men Gone?

Perhaps today’s accomplished woman can wrestle all the lions and tigers and bears by herself, but when she does, she may not have a lot of room left in her life for vulnerability.

Meetings 101

If the key to good meetings or gatherings is purpose, how to do we figure out if we have one?

Reading Strategies For Emergent Readers

We read books of poems and prose – Some of these and some of those. Read some too, and you’ll agree, Books are good for you and me!

Dear Dr. Yael

This probably is not indicative of a larger issue, but either way, it is not your place to address it.

Dear Dr. Yael

While we believe that there are numerous valid paths within Orthodox Judaism, not all observant Jews are born into a community that fits them.

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