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Funeral for Chaye Zisel Braun Underway [photos]

October 23, 2014 - 12:48 AM
 
Driver / Terrorist Dies in Hospital

October 23, 2014 - 12:23 AM
 
Arab Paper on Hamas Terrorist Attack: ‘Israeli Police Shoots ‘Palestinian’

October 22, 2014 - 11:39 PM
 
Police and Arabs Clashing in Shiloach / Silwan [video]

October 22, 2014 - 11:06 PM
 
Hundreds of World Jewish Leaders to Meet in Rocket-Battered South

October 22, 2014 - 10:07 PM
 
IDF Claims Drug Smugglers Carried out Sinai Attack

October 22, 2014 - 10:01 PM
 
Isfahan Demonstration for Women’s Rights Becomes Anti-Government Protest

October 22, 2014 - 9:43 PM
 
Syrian Claims It Destroyed ISIS’s Fighter Jets

October 22, 2014 - 8:28 PM
 
Baby Killed in Suspected Jerusalem Terror Ramming Attack

October 22, 2014 - 8:21 PM
 
Real-time Video of Car Running Over Jerusalem Light Rail Passengers

October 22, 2014 - 7:26 PM
 
French Jewish Leader Indicted for Calling Dieudonne ‘Professional Anti-Semite’

October 22, 2014 - 7:25 PM
 
Haredim Delay Delta Flight because of Mixed Seating

October 22, 2014 - 6:35 PM
 
Suspected Terror Attack at Jerusalem Light Rail [video]

October 22, 2014 - 6:17 PM
 
Terrorism at Light Rail Station near Ammunition Hill UPDATED

October 22, 2014 - 6:12 PM
 
Canadian Parliament in Lock-down Following Shooting

October 22, 2014 - 5:48 PM
 
Israeli Military Industries Up For Sale

October 22, 2014 - 5:37 PM
 
Small-Scale Terror Attacks Continue in Jerusalem

October 22, 2014 - 5:32 PM
 
Ban Says UN Will Investigate Weaponry in Its Gaza Agencies

October 22, 2014 - 4:22 PM
 
Gaza Rebuilding to Begin With Winter

October 22, 2014 - 4:11 PM
 
Hamas ‘Fishing’ for Cease-Fire Violations’

October 22, 2014 - 3:49 PM
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Posted on: September 14th, 2012

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As we begin the New Year it is with a sense of hope that we can avoid the painful arguments, hurtful remarks and misunderstandings which have harmed our relationships in the past. We seek to make amends with friends and family over the High Holidays and resolve that things will be different in the future. But moving forward, we may also wonder if we can really change patterns of relating that have been perpetuated for years or decades.

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Posted on: September 14th, 2012

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“She didn’t have to elaborate,” says Malka. “Not that she had ever gone into any detail, but I’d read and heard enough to know that she was reliving the horrors that she and innumerable others were forced to endure when they were mercilessly stuffed into the cattle cars… and I also understood that she was overcome with a sense of pride in her heritage that has miraculously survived despite the evil intent of a monstrous dictator that sought to annihilate us.”

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Posted on: September 13th, 2012

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Dear Dr. Yael: I am a 20 years old and dating. While I know that people consider me to be an attractive young woman, I have been getting rejected – quite a lot. This might be happening because I am painfully shy. For the most part I clam up while on a date; I become […]

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Posted on: September 7th, 2012

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Are you looking for emotional first aid for your marriage? If you are, you’re not alone. Today, engaged couples, newlyweds and couples who have been married for years are feeling insecure about their relationships and looking for advice on how to make their marriages work better or simply to heal their relationship wounds.

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Posted on: September 7th, 2012

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Dear Dr. Respler: In your August 24 column, What Can Prevent Marriage, you eloquently discussed how losing a parent at a young age may cause someone to have a hard time getting married. As you made clear this is because of a deep-rooted fear of getting closer to someone and facing the possibility of loss.

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Posted on: September 6th, 2012

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Dear Brocha, Thank you so much for being brave enough to share your story. I am getting chizuk just from reading about your journey. I know my husband and I need to go to a meeting, and we will. Let me tell you my story:

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Posted on: September 3rd, 2012

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“Is it possible for my disabled child to get married?”

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Posted on: August 30th, 2012

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Dear Dr. Respler: Having enjoyed your column, The Benefits of Countermoves (Dear Dr. Yael, 8-17), I am now seeking your suggestions regarding my problem in this area. My husband practices the “silent treatment,” whereby if I tell him something not to his liking or if I do something that does not meet his approval (these acts are not meant to hurt him) he can stop talking to me for hours or even for one or two days. After awhile, he returns to his normal behavior and we never discuss the issue again.

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Posted on: August 30th, 2012

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Sixteen years ago, when I married my husband, I did not give much thought to whether he was Askenazi or Sefardi. Having grown up in what was then a small close-knit Jewish community, it held little importance; my concerns were focused around whether or not my bashert (intended) was Jewish according to halacha, someone who was upstanding in both ideals and actions, and a man solidly committed to a Torah lifestyle.

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Posted on: August 23rd, 2012

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I have often talked about parenting the “explosive child” or a child who struggles with Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD). In that context, I often mention Dr. Ross Greene’s groundbreaking work on using “Plan B.” Both in my office and in my columns, I have great responses to my work with explosive children using Dr. Greene’s techniques. However, recently, another approach has been gaining popularity, both in my office and in parenting circles. This approach is from Daniel J. Siegel, MD and is often used to promote “the whole-brain child.”

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Posted on: August 23rd, 2012

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Dear Dr. Respler: I notice a certain unfortunate trend. People who lose a parent at a young age often stay single for a long time – or, unfortunately, do not marry at all. This was first pointed out to me at a sheva berachos in the fall of 2011. My internal thought was that the person who lost his father when he (the son) was just 28 – which, in my opinion, is an age when one should be able to function on one’s own – was simply looking for an excuse to rationalize why he had not yet gotten married.

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Posted on: August 23rd, 2012

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Dear Brocha, Hi, I’m not sure how writing to an advice column can help, but I feel so alone and have nowhere to turn. My 25-year-old daughter is addicted to prescription pain killers (Percocet), and so far she doesn’t seem to want help or even acknowledge that she has a problem. About two years ago […]

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Posted on: August 22nd, 2012

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I am concerned about my daughter. She is dating a boy whom she is crazy about, but I see certain things in him that make me nervous.

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Posted on: August 17th, 2012

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Dear Dr. Respler: I wish to share with your readers and you what I did to enhance my marriage through the use of your suggested technique of countermoves. My husband is, by nature, a closed person and has a hard time paying compliments. Many people have advised me to accept him and love him just […]

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Posted on: August 17th, 2012

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Cheating on a spouse is a terrible betrayal. Yes, sadly, it is quite common, but that doesn’t erase the devastation and pain it causes. The discovery of cheating almost always comes on the heels of extreme lying. The big question always is, how can the one cheated on ever trust again? It is logical and practical to think that once a spouse has cheated, there is no reason to assume it would not occur time and again.

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Posted on: August 10th, 2012

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Dear Readers, I do not regret the past, nor do I wish to shut the door on it. I am now able to understand, feel serenity and know peace. No matter how far down the road I have traveled, I now see how my experiences can benefit others. This is part of the Al-Anon/Nar-anon 12 promises that can be achieved by everyone who “works it.” But I am getting ahead of myself. Let’s start at the beginning:

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