A Damaged Dream
It is possible that this couple is not meant for one another. It’s possible that they will be better off going their own ways and finding different matches. It’s possible that their son knows absolutely that his feelings will never change.
Turn Off Your Worry Brain
Some say that the cortex is what makes us human.
What Is Introversion?
For those who are introverted, being with people often feels like it is sapping their energy – even if they themselves have great social skills. Because of this perceived depletion of energy, after a party or meeting, they will need time alone in order to recharge.
Learning To Listen And Listening To Learn
For most children, listening is the first entry point into a text, and we finally have the technology to allow children (and adults) to listen to almost any printed book.
The Meaning Of Time
Not enjoying saying no, I often succumbed to requests viewing them as demands I couldn't refuse.
Dear Dr. Yael
Perhaps you can call a family meeting and start with saying that although it is a privilege for you to be able to take care of your parents, things are becoming more difficult and you feel you need more help.
Yankel And Leah – Chapter 7
Yankel had a few thousand dollars put aside from tutoring younger boys and a few summers as a camp counselor. If there was a time to spend, Yankel would spend it now on these dates.
Learning To Communicate And Accept Each Other’s Individuality
The challenges that married couples face everyday can be quite complicated, not to mention filled with unique nuances. Issues of infidelity in one couple are different from issues of infidelity in another.
Trouble With Writing
Dysgraphia can manifest itself as difficulties with spelling, poor handwriting and trouble putting thoughts on paper. However, children who suffer from dysgraphia often have reading skills that are on par with other children their age.
The Heart Wants…
We all have small parts of us that don’t showcase us in the best light. Bits and pieces that when highlighted detract from our positive qualities.
Don’t Pop My Bubble
In shidduchim we need to look toward possibilities and potential. We do not hold onto self-righteous anger, we do not become cold and unfeeling, and we do not develop a victim mentality. We have to face opportunity with an open heart and from a place of yes.
Dear Dr. Yael
While it may appear to these people that by getting their way they are winning the battle, they are, in fact, losing the war. In other words when people behave this way, they may temporarily get their way, but ultimately, they can lose the relationship.
Does Childhood Depression Exist?
Whatever the numbers, anxiety and depression in a person of any age are conditions too serious to ignore.
Dear Dr. Yael
I would hope that people who have been helped in any situation would express gratitude.
Yes, You Can!
“You miss 100% of the shots you don't take”
– Wayne Gretzky, Hall of Fame Hockey Player
“I can’t seem to focus.”
“For as long as...
Dear Dr. Yael
After a significant event, my family went through a very challenging time. Despite it all, my father remained strong and resilient in the face of adversity.
Dear Dr. Yael
This probably is not indicative of a larger issue, but either way, it is not your place to address it.
Changing Schools (Part II)
Our 12-year-old son is not doing well in his 7th grade local yeshiva class.
We are considering moving him to another local yeshiva in mid-year, as things are rapidly deteriorating. We are not asking for specific advice, as you do not know him or us. But can you share with us what questions to ask and answers to give when making this difficult decision?
Names Withheld
Dear Dr. Yael
My husband has been driving me crazy to lose weight and even blaming me for the hard time our daughter is having getting dates.
Dear Dr. Yael
Try to always make your husband feel that he is the most important person in your life. A strong marriage builds healthy, confident children.