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When you build a new house, you shall make a fence for the roof. Do not be responsible for the blood, because the faller will fall from it.” – Devarim 22:8

 

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The Torah commands us regarding various safeguards. One is the obligation to erect a fence. If you construct a house with a flat roof, you are required to put up a fence, to prevent people from falling off.

Rashi notes that the Torah uses an unusual expression – “Because the faller will fall.” He is called the “faller” because he was slated to die. The Torah is telling us that this was his fate. Nevertheless, you should put up a fence, so that you aren’t the one to bring about his death. And if you don’t take the necessary precaution, then on some level you are considered responsible for his demise.

This Rashi is difficult to understand. If it is decreed for this man to die in this manner, and it would have occurred anyway, in what way are you responsible?

The answer to this question is based on a deeper understanding of reward and punishment and free will.

Imagine that one day Reuven walks up to Shimon, pulls out a gun, and says, “I’m going to kill you!”

“No, don’t do it!” shouts Shimon.

“You have this coming to you!” Reuven responds. He then fires five shots, leaving Shimon dead in a puddle of blood.

If the Sanhedrin were functioning, it would gather the evidence and convict Reuven as the killer of Shimon.

Here is the question. Why can’t Reuven say to the judges, “Aren’t you religious Jews? Don’t you believe that Hashem decrees who will live and who will die? If you do, then I’m not Reuven’s killer; Hashem is. If it wasn’t slated to happen, I could never have done it. So don’t go blaming me.

Why isn’t his claim valid?

The answer is that on one level his claim is one hundred percent correct, but it won’t get him off the hook.

The foundation of bitachon is understanding that “No person, animal, or other creation can harm me without Hashem’s approval” (Chovos HaLevovos, Sha’ar HaBitachon 3). In simple terms, Hashem is there with me 24/7, guiding my life, protecting me, nd nothing can touch me unless it is directed by Hashem. Stormy seas can’t drown me. Hurricanes can’t flood my home. Wild fires can’t burn me. Drunk drivers can’t kill me. Bears can’t maul my children. No harm can befall me unless it was decreed by Hashem.

So if on the previous Rosh Hashanah, Shimon had a decree of a year of life, then there is nothing Reuven or any other force in existence could do to change that.

If, however, Shimon had a decree that this would be his last year, things get more complicated. To allow for free will, there are times when Hashem will allow a person the “opportunity to be the messenger.” So if Shimon were decreed to die that year in a violent manner, Hashem might also decree that Reuven has the option to be the one to end his life. In that case Reuven could kill Shimon.

If Reuven doesn’t take the opportunity, then a drunk driver, or a falling telephone poll, or a stray bullet, or any one of a number of other catastrophic events will do the job. If, however, Reuven does take the option, he is called the killer. Even though Shimon would have died anyway, and even though this decree was decided by Hashem, for all intents and purposes he is considered Shimon’s killer.

The concept is that man controls intentions but only Hashem controls outcomes – yet if Hashem allows man to act, the results are credited to him even though in reality he did nothing.

This dichotomy applies to the spectrum of human interactions.

If someone saves my life, I have to recognize that if he hadn’t been there, a speedboat would have pulled up, or a floating log would have suddenly passed by, or I would have been saved by any number of other means Hashem might use. If someone gave me a large sum of money, I have to be mindful that if not for him that money would have come to me through other means. And while I remain ever conscious of this, I have to recognize how Hashem runs the world. If Hashem allows that man to pull me out of the water, not only do I have to have unending appreciation for his good intentions, in many regards he is considered the one who saved my life.

This seems to be the answer to the question on Rashi. Granted this man would have fallen anyway, yet the Torah is warning us: Don’t you be his killer. If you leave your roof without a fence, you have been negligent. Yes, he would have died anyway, but you acted irresponsibly, and on some level you are considered responsible for his death.

The Foundation for Trusting Hashem

These concepts are very applicable to our lives. On its most practical level, it means my fate is not in the hands of man. No human being can alter my state. If I am slated to be wealthy, you can’t take that from me. If I am to enjoy honor, you can’t defame me. If I am not supposed to suffer, you can’t cause me pain. You may dream and scheme, but Hashem is here, protecting me, guiding all outcome. If I am to suffer, then it will happen regardless of your attempts. But if it wasn’t meant to, nothing you do can change that. Every ounce of pain and suffering is weighed and meted out by Hashem. No one can alter that.

This perspective changes my relationships with others. If you try to help me, I am appreciative – for your intentions. You tried to help. That part is in your hands. If you tried to lighten my load, for that I am thankful. But the result, whether you succeed or not, is not in your hands. So too when you harm me. I didn’t ask that you be the person to bring this about, but I understand that it would have happened with or without you. So my anger at you is greatly diminished. For wishing me harm, I have my issues with you. But for bringing it about, not at all. The results have nothing to do with you. Man controls his intentions; Hashem controls the outcome.

 

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