If you seek individual therapy, your husband should be somewhat involved in helping and encouraging you throughout this process. This should come natural to him, as, based on your description of him, he seems like a special man.
I wish I could do more for you, but it is unfair to develop strategies and reach definitive assessments based solely on an anonymous letter.
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