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As a blended family, this new stage we have entered into has had benefits beyond my wildest dreams. Seeing all of the children, including my stepson who lives with us, working together in a group effort to ease Grandma and Grandpa’s transition has been amazing. This is a life altering experience that we are all going through as a family and our connections, our relationships, are strengthened by these shared experiences. I look forward to sharing more of this story and its impact on our blended family.

Yehudit welcomes and encourages input and feedback on issues relating to the Blended Family and can be reached at blendedfamily@aol.com

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