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The Complainers are Alive and Well in America

To all my blogger colleagues in America: if you want to complain about things in Israel, at least come live here, and play your part in the building.
Moses Strikes Water from a Rock, by Nicolas Poussin (1594-1665).

Moses Strikes Water from a Rock, by Nicolas Poussin (1594-1665).

In this Shabbat’s Torah portion, we met the complainers. Among the different types of personalities and personality disorders, there are complainers. There are people who complain about everything. Wherever they are, whatever they’re doing, they always have the need to complain. “This is no good, and that’s no good. This should be done that way, and I could have done the same thing better.”

We meet them right after our incredibly miraculous salvation from the armies of Egypt, as the Egyptians are still drowning in the sea, and our spontaneous song of joy is still echoing over the wilderness mountains, the people started complaining. Not all the people. The complainers.

First they complained that there wasn’t any fresh water – as if King of the Universe, who split the sea five minutes ago, couldn’t give them a little fresh water! Then they complained against Moshe and Aharon, finding fault with the greatest leaders in the world! Then they complained about the menu, which ever since has become a very Jewish thing to do. “Waiter, this steak is too rare.” Or, “Waiter, this steak is well done.” Then, once again in the wilderness, they complained about the lack of water, accusing Moshe of trying to kill them! A little later on, they are going to start complaining about having to live in Eretz Yisrael.

I’m sure you are familiar with the type. For instance, there is no shortage of them amongst Jewish bloggers in America. Surely you’ve noticed. Some are always complaining: “This in Israel is no good, and that’s no good, the country is too secular, or the religious have too much power, you can’t make a living there, the Israelis are rude, and on and on and on and on.”

After reading this Shabbat’s Torah portion, I realized that they’re the modern-day complainers. Apparently, it’s something genetic. It’s not their fault. They can’t help it. I suppose a doctor would call it an obsessive compulsion, and a psychiatrist might term it a neurotic disorder. It could be there are medicines that can help the problem, like the drugs that doctors prescribe for just about everything else. Maybe anti-depressants would work. After all, they don’t seem like very happy people, the way they’re complaining all the time.

The only other thing I can think of that might help them is to learn Emunah, which means faith. Rabbi Kook would always say that Emunah must be learned. True faith in God doesn’t grow on trees in Brooklyn. Every Jew has Emunah deep down inside. But it must be developed. Emunah is more than eating bagels and lox and putting on tefillin. True faith in God requires learning. Not just any type of learning, but learning designed to bring a person to a living connection with God, and to put his life in line with what God wants for the Am Yisrael, the Nation of Israel.

Books like the “Kuzari” and the writings of Rabbi Kook are a good place to start. And a true reading of the Torah is the best place of all. Like they very thing that we are reading about now – how God doesn’t want us to live in foreign countries, and how He even turned the world upside down with the greatest miracles ever, to teach us this lesson and bring us to the Land of Israel where He wants us to live. But the complainers didn’t like the way God was handling things.

For example, the Spies were outstanding Torah scholars, but they were the biggest complainers of all. They believed in some things, but they didn’t believe in others. They agreed to keep Shabbat and put on tefillin, but when it came to making aliyah, they didn’t believe in God, as the Torah says, “In this matter, you did not believe in the Lord your God” (Devarim, 1:32). In the matter of going to live in Israel. They wanted to live in Brooklyn, and Chicago, and Texas instead.

Rabbi Tzvi Yehuda Kook taught:

The Gemara talks about types of “Tzaddikim who don’t believe” (Sotah 48B). They choose words of Torah and commandments, saying, “This matter is arranged properly by the Almighty. It’s very nice; it pleases me; it’s easy; I agree to abide. However, this matter is not so good.” This approach to Torah leads to dangerous consequences and heresy. There is a startling saying of our Sages in the Gemara regarding someone who says, “This precept is pleasant, and this one isn’t pleasant; this matter is pleasing to me, and this other matter is not. Everyone who chooses between the mitzvot in the Torah, saying this one he agrees with, this one he doesn’t, loses the richness of Torah” (Eruvin 64A).

About the Author: Tzvi Fishman was awarded the Israel Ministry of Education Prize for Creativity and Jewish Culture for his novel "Tevye in the Promised Land." For the past several years, he has written a popular and controversial blog at Arutz 7. A wide selection of his books are available at Amazon. The views expressed in this blog are solely those of the author and do not represent the views of The Jewish Press


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6 Responses to “The Complainers are Alive and Well in America”

  1. Mildred Bilt says:

    And of course there's not a single complainer in Israel about American Jews. Or about American politics. Or about the American newspapers. Or about American synagogues. Or American universities. Or American international relations. Or American leaders. Or Amercan writers including Jewish American writers. OY

  2. Roger Stephen Roth says:

    You know for thousands of years Jews have gone through a great deal of suffering. But I think positively speaking despite problems in the 21st century the Jews of this generation have the best quality of life as opposed to our ancestors. Today Jews have the state of Israel, Jews have won many nobel prizes, become world famous athletes, doctors, lawyers, multi billionaires, movie stars and you name it. I feel proud of my generation and how far things have come to combat ignorance that existed for many years. It is great to see Judaism being respected in the world among those who are educated. Yes there are still problems even in the middle east, but overall in the bright side I think the Jewish people world wide and Jews have come a long way.

  3. Mata Orna Nmcva says:

    There is just this one year left to come home. Same way there was just one night in Egypt the last night. So mister Oy, it will be OY vavoy for all, that do not come on time home…

  4. Wal, shet mah mouth! Ain’t thet th’ truth.

  5. Yehuda Cohen says:

    It just amazes me that Diaspora Jews who live in Miami, which has the highest violent crime rate in America, could say that life couldn't be better for the Jews. It doesn't take much education to protect yourself and family by leaving high crime cities but it takes a lot of illusions to stay.

  6. Bloggers that offer their criticism here and elsewhere are not merely venting they are sometimes also trying to open minds and educate in order to help.

    Blind Faith in Torah and or mythology not tempered with cold reason can and has had disastrous consequences for Israel.

    For example, Thomas Freidman, in his writing on the Lebanese-Israeli invasion,
    pointed out that Israel had a view of Lebanon as really being a Christian country similar to Israel being a Jewish country and capable of ruling Lebanon and making a peace treaty with Israel.

    This view is one of many myths that were or are popular at the time.

    You also, have a mythical view of what Israel can and should do.

    You thought that Israel should have a massive bombing of Gaza, I think I remember a nuclear bomb in the last battle. You believe that actions like Dr. Baruch Goldstein are laudable and should be repeated.

    If leaders of Israel followed you there would be no Israel.

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