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Unmasking Perpetrators: But They Seem Really Nice


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I wrote the following little jingle parents may find useful:

Here are signs to protect our children from danger:
In 95% of cases, the molester’s not a stranger.
He’s someone you know and respect. He’s disarming.
He is drawn to children. And he’s awfully charming.

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