While Orthodox singles are more insulated from cultural influences, it has had an impact. The questions remain: Why can’t singles get married? What went wrong? Is it 'external influences'?
Every generation has its own daunting shidduch challenges. Unfortunately, finding the right shidduch is not a new phenomenon, nor is it limited to our contemporary world.
“Good luck to you,” I said. “That would take five different guys all wrapped into one. But more importantly, your ‘big fives’ are a bunch of zeros and do not add up to anything.”
A pervasive difficulty when dealing with singles is their failure to be realistic. Today’s successful shadchan not only has to be a matchmaker but often also assumes the role of a “life coach”
It’s easy for anyone to lose his way, and once the downward spiral commences, the descent is rapid. Downhill is always easy, but with HaShem's help, every Jew can climb back up again.
The Hebrew word for coincidence is 'mikreh.' It comes from “karah min Hashem – it happened from G-d.” G-d arranges our footsteps.” You must only learn how to listen.
The difference between becoming widowed and becoming a divorcee is the former evokes compassion while the latter suffer differently enduring gossip
The charge of G-d is not “Be blessed” but “Be a blessing” and it has been in our DNA since Avraham our Father
“Please, Rebbetzin, give me a berachah that I should never forget to cry for the Beis HaMikdash. I’m so afraid I will forget and become oblivious to its loss. "
Most Jews are not naïve but liberals who want to believe in a higher civilization –one that shuns cruelty and barbaric savagery, therefore they refuse to learn from our past.
What is the meaning of Dayenu? Why does it play such a central role in our Pesach Seder?
Many of us saw loved ones disappear through assimilation but the covenant of G-d we entered into at Sinai can transform anyone
In our “enlightened” world the voice of prayer has become muted; regarded as something only a naïve, unenlightened person can take seriously
Eretz Yisrael is a land of magic, a land where G-d Himself resides another proof that He has not forsaken us
“Noch azoy ah churbon"--after such slaughter (the Holocaust) we must kiss every living Jew and embrace him with love”
The Rebbetzin, mistaken for a singer, was asked to perform on Israeli army bases-she gave the soldiers a life changing performance!
To learn "Gratitude" learn and use the words, "Thank You" to G-d for his kindnesses, and to others
What was the life-threatening 50th level of impurity HaShem saved Israel from? Depression.
As a Jew, you can change, improve your reality; Chesed & rachamim are intrinsic parts of your nature
Our generation lives when the footsteps of the Messiah are audible-- provided we know how to listen.
We no longer identify with kindness and commitment; Apathy and callousness have taken over our lives
How do we teach rachamim? To impart new values to our sons and daughters, we ourselves must change
“Rebbetzin, I’m suffering from date burnout If everyone has a bashert, why is it taking me so long?”
Questions remain: Why is there a shidduch crisis? Why can’t singles get married? What went wrong?
Despite myriad matchmaking programs the world over the growth in singles population remains daunting